Curious to see everyone’s response. Ladies what’s your first encounter like when you invite a new bull over? You prefer a little casual talking first, or do you prefer to jump right in to it?
The First Encounter
- Thread starter Blackchillvibes
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We have gone over this and there has to be some talk first. My wife wants to feel some kind of connection mentally. And to be honest, if he connects with her mentally there is almost nothing she won't do. Panty dropper for my wife is getting in her head then you have access to the rest of her body.
For most of us women, sex is as much an emotional act as a physical one. I do need to talk at least briefly with a new partner, and develop some emotional connection. I guess an exception is when I am caught up in raw lust for a huge, muscular guy who is exuding alpha male, usually at sex parties.
I like to do a sit down say hello meeting with no strings attached before I jump into bed with a guy. There has to be chemistry between the two of us, for me to fuck him.
MarriedWhite
Couple
Our first experience with a guy is always just to get to know him and see if the chemistry is there, and he knows from the beginning that there is NO promise of sex the first time we meet. We have never met anyone without first talking with him on the telephone, which has sometimes caused us to decline further contact. Because we are very careful in the beginning the reality is that the first meetings have always ended up in a motel.
Please bear in mind that I have had sex with only five different men in three years so our first meetings have been fewer than those for most other couples. Since the first, we have preferred to have a friendly relationship rather than a series of short or one-time meetings. First times have a very erotic aspect but I'm always nervous in the beginning. That goes away as I become more comfortable with him.
This might sound awful, but all of our 'friends' have been married but meeting without the wives knowing anything about what he was doing. One of the reasons we decided to meet only married men is the fact that they are less likely to 'fall in love' since they have a wife at home.
Please bear in mind that I have had sex with only five different men in three years so our first meetings have been fewer than those for most other couples. Since the first, we have preferred to have a friendly relationship rather than a series of short or one-time meetings. First times have a very erotic aspect but I'm always nervous in the beginning. That goes away as I become more comfortable with him.
This might sound awful, but all of our 'friends' have been married but meeting without the wives knowing anything about what he was doing. One of the reasons we decided to meet only married men is the fact that they are less likely to 'fall in love' since they have a wife at home.
Her first encounter was a new younger very good looking well-built coworker that entered her company after years of sex talk in bed about her having a Black lover. He was the "one" that tempted her to finally go for it. They had been flirting for a while before she told me in bed one night "there's someone at work that's hitting on me" My heart almost exploded.
It's more of an affair as she meets him alone and he has no idea that I know
It's more of an affair as she meets him alone and he has no idea that I know
