Tell me if I’m wrong

[Cafeohlay]

So this “husband” contacts me and tells me he is married to a snowbunny that loves black men and wants to set up a meeting. He sends me one photo of the two of them. Nothing sexy or alluring, just them in a car.

I say great, but I’d like to hear from the wife so I know she’s been included in all this. I explain that I’ve had situations where the wife/girlfriend had no clue as it was the guys fantasy to watch, ands it’s caused issues that I try to avoid happening again.

He says just take my word for it, she’s down. Also he won’t send any other photos of her due to all the “picture collectors” out here. Now I’m thinking he is being kind of shady and evasive and my red flags are going off.
So my question is, am I wrong?

 

[Cafeohlay]

You are right, and will echo a lot of comments in the post - there are a number of red flags going off.

As a cuckold with a wife in a semi public sphere, discretion is a must for us, so I can understand the hesitation to share many pictures of the wife with potential Bulls. That being said, we do have a few pictures that accurately depict her body type and hide her face specifically to share with potential Bulls. My opinion is that every cuckold husband should be able to share something like this (although there may be some boundary cases that I'm not thinking of).

If a cuckold husband can't supply a decent picture of the wife, it is likely that the wife is not aware - any wife in the know would want to put out a good picture of her to attract BBC Bulls. (In my wife's case she went out and bought lingerie for a home made photo shoot)

The big red flag for me was that the cuckold husband didn't want to put you in contact with the wife directly. For our process, once I establish with a Bull that I think he would be a good match with my wife, and my wife is attracted to the Bull's pictures, the first thing she tells me is to send the BBC Bull her number so she can chat directly with him to see if there is a connection.

The idea of the Bull and my wife not talking before a date seems very odd to me, and thus why I think it's a red flag.

Thank you very much for the well written and well expressed reply. Your wife is very lucky to have you in her corner during this lifestyle journey.

 

[Brothof3]

So this “husband” contacts me and tells me he is married to a snowbunny that loves black men and wants to set up a meeting. He sends me one photo of the two of them. Nothing sexy or alluring, just them in a car.

I say great, but I’d like to hear from the wife so I know she’s been included in all this. I explain that I’ve had situations where the wife/girlfriend had no clue as it was the guys fantasy to watch, ands it’s caused issues that I try to avoid happening again.

He says just take my word for it, she’s down. Also he won’t send any other photos of her due to all the “picture collectors” out here. Now I’m thinking he is being kind of shady and evasive and my red flags are going off.
So my question is, am I wrong?

You are not wrong. ANYTIME a red flag goes off, pay attention. I've had the same type of thing happen. I'm always standoffish when the male doesn't offer up a way for the woman and I to connect so we can feel each other out.

 

[chibbcguy]

Follow you’re first mind brugh......don’t even second guess it

 

[RubenesqueLuve]

So this “husband” contacts me and tells me he is married to a snowbunny that loves black men and wants to set up a meeting. He sends me one photo of the two of them. Nothing sexy or alluring, just them in a car.

I say great, but I’d like to hear from the wife so I know she’s been included in all this. I explain that I’ve had situations where the wife/girlfriend had no clue as it was the guys fantasy to watch, ands it’s caused issues that I try to avoid happening again.

He says just take my word for it, she’s down. Also he won’t send any other photos of her due to all the “picture collectors” out here. Now I’m thinking he is being kind of shady and evasive and my red flags are going off.
So my question is, am I wrong?

You're by far aren't wrong. It's to many of these white maggot faggot fuck boys on here with the suspect *******. In reality, they're the ones how want to be fucked by you.

 

[Brothof3]

You're by far aren't wrong. It's to many of these white maggot faggot fuck boys on here with the suspect *******. In reality, they're the ones how want to be fucked by you.

You aren't too far off. They would rather suck your dick if given the green light. Instead, they gobble up your cum from or off their women.

 

[funsexycpl]

We are a cuckold couple and are always very explicit in what we want so that there are no surprises for anyone involved. When we are ready to meet with a potential BULL we will send a few initial vanilla pics by way of text or email and my wife and I will both have a phone call with him. We let him ask us whatever questions he wants in order for him to know that we are both on the same page with what we are looking for and expect. We have also face timed so that we do not get cat fished. If people are not willing to talk on the phone as a couple or face time than they are not worth the time and effort that goes into trying to meet up with someone.

 

[RubenesqueLuve]

You aren't too far off. They would rather suck your dick if given the green light. Instead, they gobble up your cum from or off their women.

Speak on it...lol.

 

[RubenesqueLuve]

Speak on it...lol. It doesn't bother me if a cuck gobbles my babygoo from his wife pussy or lick it off. But touching me will get knuckles, feet, elbows & blows to your grill

 

[SBM4u216]

There A LOT OF THAT here.

 

[ky2forfun]

So this “husband” contacts me and tells me he is married to a snowbunny that loves black men and wants to set up a meeting. He sends me one photo of the two of them. Nothing sexy or alluring, just them in a car.

I say great, but I’d like to hear from the wife so I know she’s been included in all this. I explain that I’ve had situations where the wife/girlfriend had no clue as it was the guys fantasy to watch, ands it’s caused issues that I try to avoid happening again.

He says just take my word for it, she’s down. Also he won’t send any other photos of her due to all the “picture collectors” out here. Now I’m thinking he is being kind of shady and evasive and my red flags are going off.
So my question is, am I wrong?

no you are right ,,we talk to this black guy for about a month ,we set up a meeting when we got there it was a white guy he said the guy we were to meet got tide up and he was his room mate and he was up to met with us ,, so it not only husband that doing this and there wife know nothing about it ,,it white guys posing as black guys to thinking they might get lucky

 

[Dellvan]

I appreciate your response. I’ve just dealt with too many men wanting this lifestyle for their spouse as a “surprise”. I live in a small town and had the police called before because the wife said I was there to ******* her. I had to show the officer the messages from hubby inviting me over. Needless to say that’s when my policy of talking to the female partner was started.

Wow bro. He let you walk into a situation like that ? She had no clue about this lifestyle? And didn't explain to the police he fucked up ? Need his ass whooped