Suggestions to help expand wife’s interest?

[ernest barnes]

Yes he’s a married guy in his 60s athletic fuckes her for hours been seeing him for nearly 5 years. More like he owns her .

Congratulations !! that s the best situation

 

[Messenger100]

QoS clothing, bbc dildo and watching IR porn together seem huge steps to me.. good luck!

 

[eucuckcpl]

Next time your are at the grocery store tell her to flirt with a black guy. Just eye contact, or a quick conversation about nothing. Guaranteed to get her excited. In fact make it a challenge where if she does it you do something special for her (gift card, dinner or movie of her choice).

Yes, this is the most safe and rewarding way to go.

If she feels the initial excitement of the thought, then you can actively support her with IR porn, BBC dildos, etc. - not the other way around.

The level of eye-contact / flirting gives her the playground to accept the excitement.

Instead of an ungraceful "I want you to sleep with black men..." you could ask "Did you recognize this black gentleman over there? ... Do you know him? .... Ah, not? ... Obviously he is somehow attracted to you".

The thought grows with each situation, where she recognizes that handsome black men are attracted to her. It pushes her feeling of self-worth and gives an exciting reward.

 

[SharonSM]

Yes, this is the most safe and rewarding way to go.

If she feels the initial excitement of the thought, then you can actively support her with IR porn, BBC dildos, etc. - not the other way around.

The level of eye-contact / flirting gives her the playground to accept the excitement.

Instead of an ungraceful "I want you to sleep with black men..." you could ask "Did you recognize this black gentleman over there? ... Do you know him? .... Ah, not? ... Obviously he is somehow attracted to you".

The thought grows with each situation, where she recognizes that handsome black men are attracted to her. It pushes her feeling of self-worth and gives an exciting reward.

Great summary and excellent feedback!

 

[BossManE912]

I am trying to help develop my wife’s desire in interracial sex. She started as totally vanilla, but has recently bought QOS panties, loves her BBC dildo. We started recently watching interracial porn together- any suggestions to help her continue to crave BBC and get her to seek out the real thing?

Find your black friend that you OK with Sharing her with and she’s OK with being with and yall go from there