I learned to bj when I was in high school. I was supposed to help pay for gas when I rode to school with my cousin, but he let me do bj instead of paying, so I did almost every day on the way home. Occasionally he made me do it in the parking when we got to school in the morning. But he's not black so I guess that doesn't count.
My first time to do it for black guys was in the corner of the parking lot after closing time at the bar where I had met them, when I was at college. Over 30 years ago. I ended up spending nearly every weekend at their house during my first two years.
More recently, the gentleman I've known the last couple years has had me do it countless times in the parking garage at the hospital where he works. Also, they make me do it in the hallway before he will let me into the suite when we go out on Sunday afternoons after church. A couple of other occasions...one afternoon out on the rocks in the park area along the creek outside of town, and once in a bar we go to sometimes when he's on break working overnight.
