Ladies who prefer Black men as their lovers: What is it most of all that triggers your preference?


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mywayintermsofsex

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It seems that most people on this site are more interested in the myth of Black men having bigger dicks as compared to the non-black average male, and scenarios in which Black men are "winning" the "size competition" with their lighter skinned fellow males.

Personally, i am neither interested in dicks nor their sizes. What really attracts me is seeing a Woman properly man-handled and receiving pleasure and orgasms from a man who truly knows how to get that "job" done. Women are the center of my sexual attention and their satisfaction is paramount.

At the same time i am immensely intrigued by Women who have a great sexual appetite and who strive to get their appetite appeased by choosing Black men as their sex partners. A Woman's soft skin being contrasted by a dark masculine Black man's skin is a special treat for the eye, not only but especially if the Woman happens to comprise a lighter skin complexion.
And ImO the ultimate sexual pairing is a Woman's pink pussy being stuffed with a Black man's bare dick.

Now having that said, i find it ridiculous - if not insane - how easily you can find tons of flicks on any porn tube site that play along that "BBC fantasy", and how hard it is - or was - to find porn that involves Women with Black men who happen to have a smaller or even just a medium "package".

If you entered "small black dick" as part of a search term only half a year ago, sites would make use of a term replacement strategy that treated "black dick" the same as "black cock" and "BBC". Likewise they used to search in titles for any occurrence of any word in the search, yielding results like "BBC destroying SMALL teen's pussy" rather than what i was really looking for. :(

Fortunately it seems that things have changed and some of those sites have improved their algorithms. Just recently i had about fifteen hits in my top search results that actually had "small black dick" in their titles. After watching a few of those scenes i have noticed three major implications...

First, it seems (like expected) that SBD is not a category in professional porn which means that all of the legit search results were genuine amateur content (which i prefer anyway :) ).
Second, even though titles suggested Black men with small dicks would be in the scenes, most of those men had actually medium sized dicks rather than small ones. Only a few were slightly below average built.
Third, the high level of pleasure and orgasmic bliss Women are enabled to receive even from a smaller dicked Black man is hard to find in amateur porn where the male sex partner is white or Asian.

That got me thinking... Could there be something about the average Black man's sexual skills that is incomparable to most non-black males when not considering the myth of (most) Black men having bigger dicks - or penis size at all - as a factor? What do you all think?

Thank you all in advance for your honest replies. CU
 
My female friends and now my wife say that black men are terrible at cunnilingus. My wife loves the pounding she takes from her black bull but he is reluctant to lap her cunt.
As you alluded to, the only way to be bad at oral is to not want to do it. It's really easy to 'trial and error' your way into getting it right if you pay even the smallest amount of attention. Lick, listen, and learn.

Going to the question that OP posted, I wonder how much of any 'skill, not size' effect could be attributed to confirmation bias.
 
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Going to the question that OP posted, I wonder how much of any 'skill, not size' effect could be attributed to confirmation bias.
i appreciate your input and wonder about the same thing. But what "confirmation bias" do you have in mind? That of the (male) porn viewer who experiences the Women's responses to Black versus non-black men differently? Or that of the Women in amateur porn who experience pleasure from Black men versus non-black males differently? TY
 
Interesting post, I think skills is good as the length and thickness. Having a good rythme to pump in vagina too. Women want bigger dicks to reach so spot that regular dicks can’t reach and to be stretched very wide. Nobody can say that a regular guy cannot give a good pleasure but he can’t give those specifics pleasures.
 
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That got me thinking... Could there be something about the average Black man's sexual skills that is incomparable to most non-black males when not considering the myth of (most) Black men having bigger dicks - or penis size at all - as a factor? What do you all think?

Thank you all in advance for your honest replies. CU

I've got also observations and theory, that in all this "interracial fantasies and fascination" there is more than just "size of a dick". I suppose it's just "blackness" that make a thing and trigger arousal. Our psychology is drive by aware and unaware processes. Black genes are dominant, and override genes of any other race, that could potentially affect also our unaware psychology and behavioral processes - example of this could be that during sex it is generally positive that men are more dominant, and women prefer to feel more "inferior" or just dominated - and this physical, genetical treat could just amplify such association and unaware psychological processes and causes mutual "attracion" between black men and white women.
When I am watching interracial porn I've got also associations like I am watching copulation of chimpanzees, gorillas or any other primates. Those men behave in such "*******" way - their moves, sounds, gestures, even face expressions are so atavistic. I think that white or Asian men are more "socialized" and "tamed" which affect their behavior even during copulation. Black men in porn both commericial or amateur are often behave and looks more like "sexual beasts" completely driven by their primary instincts and emotions and this could also be viewed as desirable treat.
 
i appreciate your input and wonder about the same thing. But what "confirmation bias" do you have in mind? That of the (male) porn viewer who experiences the Women's responses to Black versus non-black men differently? Or that of the Women in amateur porn who experience pleasure from Black men versus non-black males differently? TY
The second one: particularly the idea that women may rate black men higher afterwards because they thought black men would be better beforehand.
 
We have had 13 black guys play with my wife of those only only 2 were what i would say porn star size the rest were 6.5-8" but they all had girth. One of the very large guys really knew how to eat pussy he had her moaning and cumming like crazy only ran into 1 that didn't like to eat pussy
 
The second one: particularly the idea that women may rate black men higher afterwards because they thought black men would be better beforehand.
...like a self-fulfilling prophecy. You may have a point here.

It would be an interesting (psycho-)social study to find out about the percentages of Women who believe "black men would be better" versus those who don't. And their reasons behind that. 🤔

Again thank you for your input. ;)
 
We have had 13 black guys play with my wife of those only only 2 were what i would say porn star size the rest were 6.5-8" but they all had girth. One of the very large guys really knew how to eat pussy he had her moaning and cumming like crazy only ran into 1 that didn't like to eat pussy
If i may ask... Does your wife play with black guys exclusively (outside your marriage) or with men of different colors? And, if the latter is the case: Have you experienced any differences between her Black and non-black lovers, if you don't take penis size into account? Or, does she have a preference for men depending on their skin complexion? TY in advance for shedding a lil light on that. :)
 
The average for black penis size is only a few centimeters larger in length and girth than their white counterparts. So while it's not entirely a myth. The difference on average is negligible at best.

It's all to perpetuate the fetishizing of black men and some guys tie their identity to it which is why you'll have guys who are below 7" or lack girth saying "BBC" on their *******.

Which crazy considering most girls don't care about being rammed by 9"'dick. They want to be rammed by a guy who knows what he's doing. Also please refrain from saying stuff that is borderline stereotyping.
 
If i may ask... Does your wife play with black guys exclusively (outside your marriage) or with men of different colors? And, if the latter is the case: Have you experienced any differences between her Black and non-black lovers, if you don't take penis size into account? Or, does she have a preference for men depending on their skin complexion? TY in advance for shedding a lil light on that. :)
when we first started swinging it was white guys only and there have been a few inbetween the black guys
 
My female friends and now my wife say that black men are terrible at cunnilingus. My wife loves the pounding she takes from her black bull but he is reluctant to lap her cunt.
I've found many more black men on average that just flat won't eat pussy, like before we've even met or on the first meeting say they don't do it. But I've also been out with many more black men so it's not a fair sample size lol

Personally I won't date men who don't eat pussy since that's taking such a huge thing off the table. I find men who eat pussy and love doing it are better lovers overall.

To address the original question, I'm not a size queen, not into race play and don't treat my partners like sex props so I have no interest in all the bbc bullshit. The size of someone's dick isn't even on my list of important things in a partner beyond it not being excessively large or small to the point where sex is impractical and even that is far down the list in terms of importance.

It's a harmful stereotype that makes average black men feel less than and in a lot of cases, especially with younger guys, if they are packing it tends to consume their personality to the point where they come off as one dimensional. As @blackdickwitht said there are also a ton of guys with an average dick but advertising themselves as otherwise, which can cause a lot of disappointment on both sides when they come across a size queen expecting them to whip out a monster. It's just problematic all around for the most part.
 
I've found many more black men on average that just flat won't eat pussy, like before we've even met or on the first meeting say they don't do it. But I've also been out with many more black men so it's not a fair sample size lol

Personally I won't date men who don't eat pussy since that's taking such a huge thing off the table. I find men who eat pussy and love doing it are better lovers overall.

To address the original question, I'm not a size queen, not into race play and don't treat my partners like sex props so I have no interest in all the bbc bullshit. The size of someone's dick isn't even on my list of important things in a partner beyond it not being excessively large or small to the point where sex is impractical and even that is far down the list in terms of importance.

It's a harmful stereotype that makes average black men feel less than and in a lot of cases, especially with younger guys, if they are packing it tends to consume their personality to the point where they come off as one dimensional. As @blackdickwitht said there are also a ton of guys with an average dick but advertising themselves as otherwise, which can cause a lot of disappointment on both sides when they come across a size queen expecting them to whip out a monster. It's just problematic all around for the most part.
Thank you for spreading some (body) positivity here. i always thought visual traits like penis size would be unimportant as long as there is mutual attraction. i wonder why any Woman should care what size a man is packing if he is enabled to give her good orgasms and perhaps even multiple ones.

You mention "size Queens" and even though those exist there are also Women who even prefer men with small dicks for whatever reasons. It's not unlike some guys prefer slim Women while others prefer a curvy, full-figured Lady. ImO it is all about personal taste first, and then - perhaps more importantly - how good of a match two people make.

Personally, i like the idea of sharing my Women, and as that's something i/we have actually done in previous relationships, it's not purely a fantasy for me. :) Now speaking from experience: If it has been good enough so that she wants to see a guy again, why would i even waste a thought on that guy's penis?

i know there are "cuck-typed" guys out there who like the aspect of humiliation. And even though i can't feel them because that's not me, my logical mind makes me think: Wouldn't it be even more humiliating if a wife preferred another man's dick to her husband's despite the fact the other guy's dick was smaller than the husband's? - But i understand, you can't argue by logic here. :rolleyes:

The reason why i started this thread: It seems so wide-spread and almost commonplace for people to crave that "BBC fantasy" is what i don't get. We are all humans and neither machines nor puppets, and should be able to respect each other, enjoy a good thing together and call it just that.

i'd like to add i agree with you on what you say about honesty. :) And thanks for your honest reply.
 
when we first started swinging it was white guys only and there have been a few inbetween the black guys
Do i read it correctly when i understand nowadays it's Black men almost exclusively with a few whites (or other non-blacks) in between? And, if i'm right: What was it that caused that change? TY very much.
 
FYI: i have just added a poll for the gorgeous Women of B2w to answer. Thank you in advance for your participation.

And please keep posting your honest thoughts to the thread as well. ;) TY
 
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