Ok. I hope that you are not insinuating that I am somehow trying to break up a marriage. It seems you are, since you chose to quote my post as an intro to your tale of woe. Just know this, my friend was (and still is) single, she just happens to have discovered that dating black men is enjoyable. Nothing more, nothing less. Please, don't lump me and my personal experiences in with your unfortunate happenings...they are not at all related. What's more, I am sure there was more to your marital demise than her just up and leaving you for another man. It is fine to be hurt, scorned, or otherwise resentful, just do it without mentioning me, please. Thank you.