Both would be perfectWould it be better if the wife recruits a friend or a family member? Or maybe both, if she can handle it.
Both would be perfectWould it be better if the wife recruits a friend or a family member? Or maybe both, if she can handle it.
You don't know the personal dynamics of the relationship between the wife and the woman who does her hair, nor do I. But I know from personal experience that talk between my wife and her friend who had a black boyfriend was enough to lead my wife to stray. I don't need a PhD in psychology to suggest that a husband should stay attentive when his wife comes home and talks about the interracial connection her hairdresser has. To you it may sound silly, but after you have been hurt in such a way it is anything but silly. You make a lot of judgement in your statement without knowing any personal details; sounds like the way of the world these days. I only suggest that the husband pay attention to his wife.Listen, I don't know what bed you roll out of - but you clearly know nothing about psychology or women for that matter
If you think your wife is going to listen to her hairdresser for life advice - then you married a moron.
Your wife is not that stupid. Her hairdresser is "entertaining."
Before reality TV showed up - women went to the hair salon to listen to and watch the CRAZY hairdressers and they psychotic lives.
No women in her right mind wants to "emulate" her hairdresser. And the fact that you think she does --makes you sound silly.
The only people that can influence your wife is her "best friend" and when I say BEST, I mean the one women that she thinks is better than her. And women have a pecking order in their girl-group. The woman that everyone considers the "BEST" is the one that wields all the power. So if she says - you need to fuck someone other than your hubby - then she is going to consider it. "CONSIDER" not do it.
She will only take that first leap - if you convince her that you won't retaliate against her.
There is so much you need to learn - its not funny
Also, unlike men who discuss lots of various stuff with fellow dude like sports politics and other topics, woman love to gossip and talk about sex, affair etc ...I disagree. We are all influenced by everything we experience. If a woman hears about hot sex from different women, time and again, it will register. I have noticed younger women nowadays are definitely interested in black men, in any context. Mention black men, and you see their eyes dart about, like they are worried someone noticed their reaction. That is the weight of cultural influence on them, even if they haven't gone black.
So beautiful, I agree. It's irresistibly beautiful to see white women eagerly and wantonly spread their legs to be fucked by hung black men.if you believe in the rightness of being the property of the Black man, than of coarse yes.....we must help other white women realize and experience how perfect it is for us as white women.
I agree.we were born to serve in this way, I believe
I know one thing, nothing more sexually beautiful or more sexually arousing to watch than beautiful white women and hung black men fucking.Black men call us breeding stock........for them
I like that. Better way of thinking. But, whatever works best is the goal.I don't think it's a matter of recruiting at all...more like selling. Women talk about sex with each other, and share information, good and bad. This triggers curiosity, and curiosity brings people together.
Dude -- being hurt is one thing - assuming that the world "KNOWS" about your pain is just out of line.You don't know the personal dynamics of the relationship between the wife and the woman who does her hair, nor do I. But I know from personal experience that talk between my wife and her friend who had a black boyfriend was enough to lead my wife to stray. I don't need a PhD in psychology to suggest that a husband should stay attentive when his wife comes home and talks about the interracial connection her hairdresser has. To you it may sound silly, but after you have been hurt in such a way it is anything but silly. You make a lot of judgement in your statement without knowing any personal details; sounds like the way of the world these days. I only suggest that the husband pay attention to his wife.
You are great about making assumptions and then drawing conclusions from them. You are sure that you are right and others are wrong. The world is full of people who have answers for others without any knowledge of what is going on. We'll let it go at that.Dude -- being hurt is one thing - assuming that the world "KNOWS" about your pain is just out of line.
So what you're trying to say is that "I'm wrong" because you got hurt - and now you're scared.
so let me be clear - I'm sorry you got hurt. Thats not cool - and when I meet women that do that kind of stuff - I put them back in their place. Women should not treat men like dirt - it's not cool.
does that clarify my position better for you?
But any woman that is listening to her hairdresser and not her real friends - is a dumb woman. And I know men fall in love with stupid women - but come on dude -- you have to admit the LAST place you should get advice is your hairdresser.
Not because hairdressers are bad people - listen to what I'm saying.
Your hairdresser is paid to do hair and make you feel beautiful. Her job is entertain you while you're there for 1 hour, 2 hours and sometimes women can be in the salon for 3 freaking hours.
No woman "believes" their hairdresser is their best friend -- unless they are ACTUALLY friends - which who cares that she's a hairdresser -- can you understand what im saying now??
I just feel like you have blinders on, because of what happened to you.
Again, not cool - thank you for sharing - but how on earth was I supposed to "GUESS" that???
LOLYou are great about making assumptions and then drawing conclusions from them. You are sure that you are right and others are wrong. The world is full of people who have answers for others without any knowledge of what is going on. We'll let it go at that.