over the years, i've recruited, introduced, invited, responded to inquiries, answered questions, etc. i've been fortunate enough to be a part of some great groups of folks who were in the lifestyle & we definitely recruited for them. i've had gfs ask why i'm always so happy...lol...& i fill them in. other times, women have reached out to me(total strangers)& i've told them my experiences & invited them to join a group or just me & my current lover(s)...lol. it's a wide range but mostly, it's all about great sex. if a woman wants to have the best sex of her life, it's w/black men, in my opinion, & i tell them that. this is strictly speaking about SEX. if they are looking for romance, they should look elsewhere coz that's not what i'm in this for.