My wife very rarely has sex with me. My situation is the most difficult when she doesn't have a lover to keep her sexually satisfied which is our current status. We still love each other very much, best friends, and can't sleep without the other in bed with us...but she will do without sex instead of letting me "use her pussy to masturbate" I used to try so hard to make her cum. Eat her pussy, finger her gspot till my arm cramped, tried all sorts of positions trying to get my thin 5.5" to hit the right spot but never could get her off with any consistency. Finding the cuckold lifestyle took so much pressure off and I suspect many husbands feel the same way. Sure he misses the feeling of your warm wet pussy around his little dick but as long as you keep his denial in the context of cuckolding, continue to fuck other men, and keep his feelings of inadequacy directly relatable to the fetish he will likely continue to support and love you, even if you cut him off completely. When the tease and denial stops, the sex with other men stops...then it begins to just feel like an asexual, boring old couple marriage and that's when a husband will start looking for an alternative. People don't understand how much sexual fulfillment a cuckold gains from watching, listening to, and helping his wife have fulfilling sexual experiences. The worst thing my wife could do, as far as my sexual needs are concerned, would be to stop cuckolding me. I wonder if other husbands feel the same way? I wonder if most cuckolds would admit that they'd rather be totally denied your pussy than have you lose your lust for bigger better cock?