Hi all!
After finding this site and enjoying a lot of your experiences I decided to create an account and share our (quite long) 'Origin Story' too
We are Clarisa and Hernan and are originally from Argentina, but we live in England since 5 years.
We are 42 and 35 years old and have been married for 10 years now, but together 15 years.
I was Clarisa's second real lover back then (she only had 2 boyfriends, and 1 of them was a black guy from Brasil she had only sucked off a couple of times).
Since a few years, basically after living here in England and becoming friends with a couple with an open relationship we became interested in this lifestyle. Clarisa at first found it strange but after a while I started fantasizing about it while having sex and Clarisa enjoyed those fantasies.
I started by simply asking her if she would like to be touched by another man, get a massage from another man, making out with a girl etc. She has been bi-curious for a while, she had told me that years before.
After a while the fantasies became a bit raunchier, you know how it goes and, being interested in IR sex since she told me she sucked a black boyfriend I also introduced a black cock to our fantasies. One of my coworkers was a tall, muscular black guy and I used him as a model for our fantasies.
Then I bought a black dildo and we used that in our fantasies, pretending it to be him. She loved it! It wasn't just her who enjoyed those fantasies and I wanted this to happen for real more and more. I started to watch IR videos and then we watched them together too. Sex between us was HOT!
When I asked her if she would like to play with a real BBC she always said she loved the idea, but wouldn't dare to actually meet up with a guy she didn't know, let alone getting naked in front of him. She was quite insecure about her body after gaining quite some weight over the years.
I began to look around on swinger sites and even looked up some swinger clubs, but actually going there would be impossible as she would never walk around in her lingerie. So I found a few guys on a dating site and showed them to her. She really liked them but still wasn't convinced. So I asked her if she wanted to send a few of them anonymized pics of her to check out their reactions.
We selected a few pics (I have shared them in this post) and I sent them to a few guys.
I checked our mail every day for reactions and when we got them they were mostly positive!
I used those positive comments to convince her that she's sexy and guys would still want to sleep with her! It took a while but she finally decided that she MIGHT try it with one of them.
But before meeting someone she wanted to talk or chat with him, to get an idea of the type of person he was. And she wanted a picture of his face.
Also, she didn't want to fuck them, she just wanted to play a bit with his cock, and masturbate while he watched her. I forgot to tell that she's quite the exhibitionist. Before we started out with the fantasies she loved to have sex in public, the idea of getting caught or that someone might see us. Even though she was unsure of her body the idea of a total stranger seeing her having sex or masturbating was a big fantasy for her and we had had sex in the car, in hotels with the curtains open, on beaches etc.
Ok, so I wanted to make an actual appointment asap before she would change her mind, so I contacted those guys, but none of them would actually come through. They either didn't want to travel or they weren't convinced by just getting a wank or watch her masturbate.
So we turned things around and created an ad ourselves where we posted a few pictures and asked for a guy with a nice cock that would like to meet up to have my wife play with his cock.
This was far more successful as we got a great candidate within a day! He lived fairly close by and Clarisa had a few hot chats with him where they exchanged some questions and pictures.
They decided to meet up a few days later in an hotel. I booked the room and we fucked like rabbits until the day itself! Around 8 o'clock we arrived at the hotel and went to our room.
We had decided that she would get undressed except her underwear and a negligee. When the guy arrived he called me and I went to get him. It was really strange meeting him, shaking his hand, knowing what we were about to do. He had a bit of an African accent, he clearly wasn't born in Britain. Going in, I was trembling with anticipation!
We went to our room and I asked him to wait outside. I went inside, left the door open and took my clothes off too. We started to make out and I played with her favorite toy for a minute until she was ready. She had come up with the idea to not wanting to see him and because we forget to bring a blindfold we had to use a pillow to hide him from her! Very awkward!
I called the guy in and he came in watching her playing with her toy and me fondling her tits.
I asked him if he liked what he saw and he said yes, for sure! I then told him to get next to the bed so they would be able to touch each other. He did and as he just stood there I told him to touch her, which he did. Clarisa reacted with a deep sigh. Just the idea of another man touching her was exciting to both of us! He played a bit with her boobs and caressed her thighs while she still used her toy. With her right hand she was wanking me.
I told him to get his pants of, which he didn't, but he did get his massive cock out! He began to wank off too and then slapped her boob with his cock, moving his head around on her nipple. Clarisa then reached out and for the first time since being with me she touched another cock!
She began to wank him off slowly, enjoying his girth and playing with his foreskin.
As she had to let go of the toy I took over and stimulated her pussy through her underwear.
I then set it aside and asked the guy (who really didn't show much initiative) to touch her.
He played a bit with her pussy through her underwear, slipped a finger under it a few times and played with her pussy lips, but he didn't go in!! Really?
After a few minutes a big surprise, he suddenly started to cum! Clarisa didn't let go and kept stroking him while he came on the bed. Clarisa played with him for a few seconds and then asked for a towel. The guy excused himself and went to the toilet. It took no more than 10 minutes in total!
When he returned from the toilet he asked us "all good?". Clarisa had put aside the pillow and said that it was all good and she had enjoyed it, then the guy quickly left.
I was slightly disappointed but Clarisa was happy with the entire experience. She had cum twice already while playing with the toy, but she wanted to be penetrated now, so I finished the job fucking her like crazy! I have to admit that I didn't take long either
We talked and cuddled for a while and I asked her what she thought about it and she said she really enjoyed the tension waiting for him to arrive and get in. And she loved laying on the bed semi-exposed, knowing that a total stranger was watching at her playing with her toy.
Also she loved the sensation of a fat cock in her hand and the idea that she made him cum, even if it was quite fast! She asked me if I didn't feel bad about it or jealous, and I reassured her that that wasn't the case. In reality I felt a bit of jealousy and a bit insecure for a moment, but the excitement of it all was worth it!
Afterwards we got showered and went home. In the car I started to finger her and we fantasized about her sucking his cock the next time....she came again...
About that next time. If you are interested I'll post about the second encounter (with another guy).
After finding this site and enjoying a lot of your experiences I decided to create an account and share our (quite long) 'Origin Story' too
We are Clarisa and Hernan and are originally from Argentina, but we live in England since 5 years.
We are 42 and 35 years old and have been married for 10 years now, but together 15 years.
I was Clarisa's second real lover back then (she only had 2 boyfriends, and 1 of them was a black guy from Brasil she had only sucked off a couple of times).
Since a few years, basically after living here in England and becoming friends with a couple with an open relationship we became interested in this lifestyle. Clarisa at first found it strange but after a while I started fantasizing about it while having sex and Clarisa enjoyed those fantasies.
I started by simply asking her if she would like to be touched by another man, get a massage from another man, making out with a girl etc. She has been bi-curious for a while, she had told me that years before.
After a while the fantasies became a bit raunchier, you know how it goes and, being interested in IR sex since she told me she sucked a black boyfriend I also introduced a black cock to our fantasies. One of my coworkers was a tall, muscular black guy and I used him as a model for our fantasies.
Then I bought a black dildo and we used that in our fantasies, pretending it to be him. She loved it! It wasn't just her who enjoyed those fantasies and I wanted this to happen for real more and more. I started to watch IR videos and then we watched them together too. Sex between us was HOT!
When I asked her if she would like to play with a real BBC she always said she loved the idea, but wouldn't dare to actually meet up with a guy she didn't know, let alone getting naked in front of him. She was quite insecure about her body after gaining quite some weight over the years.
I began to look around on swinger sites and even looked up some swinger clubs, but actually going there would be impossible as she would never walk around in her lingerie. So I found a few guys on a dating site and showed them to her. She really liked them but still wasn't convinced. So I asked her if she wanted to send a few of them anonymized pics of her to check out their reactions.
We selected a few pics (I have shared them in this post) and I sent them to a few guys.
I checked our mail every day for reactions and when we got them they were mostly positive!
I used those positive comments to convince her that she's sexy and guys would still want to sleep with her! It took a while but she finally decided that she MIGHT try it with one of them.
But before meeting someone she wanted to talk or chat with him, to get an idea of the type of person he was. And she wanted a picture of his face.
Also, she didn't want to fuck them, she just wanted to play a bit with his cock, and masturbate while he watched her. I forgot to tell that she's quite the exhibitionist. Before we started out with the fantasies she loved to have sex in public, the idea of getting caught or that someone might see us. Even though she was unsure of her body the idea of a total stranger seeing her having sex or masturbating was a big fantasy for her and we had had sex in the car, in hotels with the curtains open, on beaches etc.
Ok, so I wanted to make an actual appointment asap before she would change her mind, so I contacted those guys, but none of them would actually come through. They either didn't want to travel or they weren't convinced by just getting a wank or watch her masturbate.
So we turned things around and created an ad ourselves where we posted a few pictures and asked for a guy with a nice cock that would like to meet up to have my wife play with his cock.
This was far more successful as we got a great candidate within a day! He lived fairly close by and Clarisa had a few hot chats with him where they exchanged some questions and pictures.
They decided to meet up a few days later in an hotel. I booked the room and we fucked like rabbits until the day itself! Around 8 o'clock we arrived at the hotel and went to our room.
We had decided that she would get undressed except her underwear and a negligee. When the guy arrived he called me and I went to get him. It was really strange meeting him, shaking his hand, knowing what we were about to do. He had a bit of an African accent, he clearly wasn't born in Britain. Going in, I was trembling with anticipation!
We went to our room and I asked him to wait outside. I went inside, left the door open and took my clothes off too. We started to make out and I played with her favorite toy for a minute until she was ready. She had come up with the idea to not wanting to see him and because we forget to bring a blindfold we had to use a pillow to hide him from her! Very awkward!
I called the guy in and he came in watching her playing with her toy and me fondling her tits.
I asked him if he liked what he saw and he said yes, for sure! I then told him to get next to the bed so they would be able to touch each other. He did and as he just stood there I told him to touch her, which he did. Clarisa reacted with a deep sigh. Just the idea of another man touching her was exciting to both of us! He played a bit with her boobs and caressed her thighs while she still used her toy. With her right hand she was wanking me.
I told him to get his pants of, which he didn't, but he did get his massive cock out! He began to wank off too and then slapped her boob with his cock, moving his head around on her nipple. Clarisa then reached out and for the first time since being with me she touched another cock!
She began to wank him off slowly, enjoying his girth and playing with his foreskin.
As she had to let go of the toy I took over and stimulated her pussy through her underwear.
I then set it aside and asked the guy (who really didn't show much initiative) to touch her.
He played a bit with her pussy through her underwear, slipped a finger under it a few times and played with her pussy lips, but he didn't go in!! Really?
After a few minutes a big surprise, he suddenly started to cum! Clarisa didn't let go and kept stroking him while he came on the bed. Clarisa played with him for a few seconds and then asked for a towel. The guy excused himself and went to the toilet. It took no more than 10 minutes in total!
When he returned from the toilet he asked us "all good?". Clarisa had put aside the pillow and said that it was all good and she had enjoyed it, then the guy quickly left.
I was slightly disappointed but Clarisa was happy with the entire experience. She had cum twice already while playing with the toy, but she wanted to be penetrated now, so I finished the job fucking her like crazy! I have to admit that I didn't take long either
We talked and cuddled for a while and I asked her what she thought about it and she said she really enjoyed the tension waiting for him to arrive and get in. And she loved laying on the bed semi-exposed, knowing that a total stranger was watching at her playing with her toy.
Also she loved the sensation of a fat cock in her hand and the idea that she made him cum, even if it was quite fast! She asked me if I didn't feel bad about it or jealous, and I reassured her that that wasn't the case. In reality I felt a bit of jealousy and a bit insecure for a moment, but the excitement of it all was worth it!
Afterwards we got showered and went home. In the car I started to finger her and we fantasized about her sucking his cock the next time....she came again...
About that next time. If you are interested I'll post about the second encounter (with another guy).