Seeking advice for first time wife and BBC

Hi all, long time fan of this site as a lurker.

Background:

Introduced my wife to my bbc cuckold fantasy around 6 months ago. At first she was taken back/surprised like most couples, but has since come around after discussing more and watching IR porn and photos together. My wife is shy/timid and never really initiates this fantasy role play but it has gotten her pretty horny when we exchange dirty texts and she is at least to a point where she is curious and says if she's gonna be with another guy, he better be big. We have gotten a bbc dildo although it's more long than girthy (she was afraid of anything too big to start). It's probably 5 or so inch girth. She does enjoy the dildo. I'm average size (~6 inches, 4+ in girth).

We've been together for 20+years and have a really strong relationship and have been each other's only partners. We have 2 ******* that are middle aged so life is busy.

Although she is probably 6-12 months away from making the leap, I feel progress is made towards it happening and she at least says she is willing to try it at right time.

Here is my dilemma. We have great sex although I would say she is low libido so we don't have it often. When we do have sex she will usually say something to the effect of it's so good why don't we do this more (she knows it's cause of her but more a heat of the moment comment). I can make my wife orgasm through penetration of oral pretty much 100% if the time. She strongly prefers orgasming via penetration. The issue is, she can't last more than 30seconds-2 minutes. I'm not sure if this is a function of us having infrequent sex, but I doubt it cause it's alwaya been that way. We usually do do quite a bit of foreplay in the beginning but if also made her cum from just kissing and foreplay. The couple times we used the dildo, she would have also orgasmed quickly if I didn't stop (she wanted to finish w real sex). Because she really loves penetration sex, Im fairly certain if bbc is comfortable she will orgasm within the first 15-30 seconds. The issue is she's usually done after this. She becomes very sensitive in that area and if we were to go for a round 2, we would need to wait at least 10 minutes. This is usually me asking for a round 2 btw, never her...I have to really get her going again for her to get aroused a second time. So from a practical standpoint, I'm not sure how this would work with a bbc bull if she's just gonna be done so quick. It might be something over in 30 seconds.

Any advice or someone with experience with a similar wife and how it ended up turning out?

Off-topic question.

Is this the best site to find premium BBC defined as
1) bbc
2) fit
3) polite/respectful
4) clean

Etc etc

My wife is in her early 40s. Extremely pretty and she is fit. For body type, think serenity cox (ie sexy but not curvy).So my standards for her are high.

I'm also considered generally pretty attractive.

Thanks in advance.
 
I've heard of women having premature orgasm problems too, but it's quite rare. I had a couple of dates with a woman a few years ago that said that she came too quick too. We only had foreplay and didn't get to full sex.

I can't remember the stats, but it might be only 1% of women that have that. I think I might have seen a short documentary on it on YouTube, but I can't remember exactly where I came across info about that.
 
Hi all, long time fan of this site as a lurker.

Background:

Introduced my wife to my bbc cuckold fantasy around 6 months ago. At first she was taken back/surprised like most couples, but has since come around after discussing more and watching IR porn and photos together. My wife is shy/timid and never really initiates this fantasy role play but it has gotten her pretty horny when we exchange dirty texts and she is at least to a point where she is curious and says if she's gonna be with another guy, he better be big. We have gotten a bbc dildo although it's more long than girthy (she was afraid of anything too big to start). It's probably 5 or so inch girth. She does enjoy the dildo. I'm average size (~6 inches, 4+ in girth).

We've been together for 20+years and have a really strong relationship and have been each other's only partners. We have 2 ******* that are middle aged so life is busy.

Although she is probably 6-12 months away from making the leap, I feel progress is made towards it happening and she at least says she is willing to try it at right time.

Here is my dilemma. We have great sex although I would say she is low libido so we don't have it often. When we do have sex she will usually say something to the effect of it's so good why don't we do this more (she knows it's cause of her but more a heat of the moment comment). I can make my wife orgasm through penetration of oral pretty much 100% if the time. She strongly prefers orgasming via penetration. The issue is, she can't last more than 30seconds-2 minutes. I'm not sure if this is a function of us having infrequent sex, but I doubt it cause it's alwaya been that way. We usually do do quite a bit of foreplay in the beginning but if also made her cum from just kissing and foreplay. The couple times we used the dildo, she would have also orgasmed quickly if I didn't stop (she wanted to finish w real sex). Because she really loves penetration sex, Im fairly certain if bbc is comfortable she will orgasm within the first 15-30 seconds. The issue is she's usually done after this. She becomes very sensitive in that area and if we were to go for a round 2, we would need to wait at least 10 minutes. This is usually me asking for a round 2 btw, never her...I have to really get her going again for her to get aroused a second time. So from a practical standpoint, I'm not sure how this would work with a bbc bull if she's just gonna be done so quick. It might be something over in 30 seconds.

Any advice or someone with experience with a similar wife and how it ended up turning out?

Off-topic question.

Is this the best site to find premium BBC defined as
1) bbc
2) fit
3) polite/respectful
4) clean

Etc etc

My wife is in her early 40s. Extremely pretty and she is fit. For body type, think serenity cox (ie sexy but not curvy).So my standards for her are high.

I'm also considered generally pretty attractive.

Thanks in advance.
I have had girlfriends who could have 10 orgasms in 10 minutes and some who took a long time to have it but it was explosive and the end for them for a while. You can always find plenty of foreplay stuff to get back to sex over 10-15 minutes and a good black bull would know how to handle this. Black men seem to be more patient during sex than white men. This would also apply to a woman who comes quickly but is still finished at that point. I did have that once with one woman and it was a lot of foreplay and kissing and stuff like that to get to a second and third orgasm so it does require patience.
 
I have had girlfriends who could have 10 orgasms in 10 minutes and some who took a long time to have it but it was explosive and the end for them for a while. You can always find plenty of foreplay stuff to get back to sex over 10-15 minutes and a good black bull would know how to handle this. Black men seem to be more patient during sex than white men. This would also apply to a woman who comes quickly but is still finished at that point. I did have that once with one woman and it was a lot of foreplay and kissing and stuff like that to get to a second and third orgasm so it does require patience.
Same here working on her ! The dildo, everything !
 
July 2024, Hello wantabe cuckold(s). I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma, a bimale with a nice c*ck and nice tits.

If you want her to fuck other cocks then after you fuck her - start licking her pussy clean - do this every time you fuck her then after the 10th time - while you are licking her pussy - I am fantasizing that you fucked a cock earlier in the day and I am licking his cum from your pussy. It is all about pleasing you not my cock. I am OK being a sissy cuckold.

I want you to try this on your wife or GF - do this every time when you suck her tit. Suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- May I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock. Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.

Email me back (robbiewillsucku at gm ail) and tell me how she responded and what you are doing now to please her.
 
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