Real People, Real Feelings

[DeeAnnaMontana]

I know that the basis of this entire site is sex and most of it without ties and emotions. However, please understand real women and men with real emotions and I can't speak for everyone, , but it is impossible for me to be with someone without having something there that has substance beyond "Lets Fuck"
You will get a whole lot further with a woman if you seduce her, than if you just get her into bed as soon as possible. We all know there is a common theme to this site (Men With Beards! LOL!), and so if you encounter someone here they are probably interested or actively involved. But that side of it carries the same truth - there is a real person (even if they are not who their profile says) with real feelings there. Be Nice, be part of the solution. Thank you - I'm sure this won't be one of the more popular threads, but if one gets it, my time will be worth it. Cheers! DeeAnna

 

[BunnyWatching]

I know that the basis of this entire site is sex and most of it without ties and emotions. However, please understand real women and men with real emotions and I can't speak for everyone, , but it is impossible for me to be with someone without having something there that has substance beyond "Lets Fuck"
You will get a whole lot further with a woman if you seduce her, than if you just get her into bed as soon as possible. We all know there is a common theme to this site (Men With Beards! LOL!), and so if you encounter someone here they are probably interested or actively involved. But that side of it carries the same truth - there is a real person (even if they are not who their profile says) with real feelings there. Be Nice, be part of the solution. Thank you - I'm sure this won't be one of the more popular threads, but if one gets it, my time will be worth it. Cheers! DeeAnna

Totally agree!

In my case... that passion wasn't there and my wife has been cold and uninterested since.

 

[Chungcheng21]

I agree with you 100%. There should be substances when talking to a female.

 

[MisterPussyPleaser]

I get that. But I have that already so it's let's fuck each others brains out & go..... Until I see you again. Lol

 

[Ann4BBC]

I get that. But I have that already so it's let's fuck each others brains out & go..... Until I see you again. Lol

Yes I agree. I have a warm, loving, open relationship with hubby. We enjoy each other’s company. So most of the time when I meet a guy I’m just meeting for sex really. Yes it’s lovely if the guy is nice, fun, respectful etc but I don’t want to spend hours getting to know them.
Arrange the meet, meet, nice little chat and a *******, then fuck.

 

[MisterPussyPleaser]

Yes I agree. I have a warm, loving, open relationship with hubby. We enjoy each other’s company. So most of the time when I meet a guy I’m just meeting for sex really. Yes it’s lovely if the guy is nice, fun, respectful etc but I don’t want to spend hours getting to know them.
Arrange the meet, meet, nice little chat and a *******, then fuck.

Exactly.

 

[Jo Roman]

Nothing wrong with remembering our hearts and brains are also part of the same body that contains our very excitable sex organs.
You don’t have to become best friends to enjoy great orgasms, but respect and compassion usually enhance the pleasure.
We’re not looking for love or romance, but caring can be a big part of sharing. Feelings count, wherever they’re located.
Like the good book says, love your neighbor as you love yourself.
Merry Christmas.

 

[housewifenheat]

I know that the basis of this entire site is sex and most of it without ties and emotions. However, please understand real women and men with real emotions and I can't speak for everyone, , but it is impossible for me to be with someone without having something there that has substance beyond "Lets Fuck"
You will get a whole lot further with a woman if you seduce her, than if you just get her into bed as soon as possible. We all know there is a common theme to this site (Men With Beards! LOL!), and so if you encounter someone here they are probably interested or actively involved. But that side of it carries the same truth - there is a real person (even if they are not who their profile says) with real feelings there. Be Nice, be part of the solution. Thank you - I'm sure this won't be one of the more popular threads, but if one gets it, my time will be worth it. Cheers! DeeAnna

So true, we each need to show respect for each other and treat others the way we want to be treated. The let's fuck is great and I am gung ho for it. But I also want to be treated like a person and not a piece of meat. Thank you DeeAnna for saying this.

 

[Jo Roman]

Great sex is about feelings, from head to toe and in between. It doesn’t much time to set the table.
First the head, then the bed
Fair play is foreplay.
And then go fuck your brains out.
Merry Christmas.

 

[Shenty2016]

Separating love life and sex life is a genaral rule. And we follow it as long as we can. It's easier for men, though. My wife had her share of extramarital sex, but I vividly remember a time when she was crying inconsolably when one of her lovers (very well endowed, by the way) had to move to another city. The emotional side of sex should never be discounted.

 

[DeeAnnaMontana]

Totally agree!

In my case... that passion wasn't there and my wife has been cold and uninterested since.

Thank you for your reply and PM!

 

[DeeAnnaMontana]

I get that. But I have that already so it's let's fuck each others brains out & go..... Until I see you again. Lol

LOL!

 

[DeeAnnaMontana]

Yes I agree. I have a warm, loving, open relationship with hubby. We enjoy each other’s company. So most of the time when I meet a guy I’m just meeting for sex really. Yes it’s lovely if the guy is nice, fun, respectful etc but I don’t want to spend hours getting to know them.
Arrange the meet, meet, nice little chat and a *******, then fuck.

For me, the sex gets better the more I know someone and if there is heart in it you get far more than an orgasm, you get stimulated intellectually and emotionally; as well as physically. You are rare, Ann. Most women want there to be a more intimate connection, and I would have to really bury some feelings to do it mechanically.

 

[Ann4BBC]

For me, the sex gets better the more I know someone and if there is heart in it you get far more than an orgasm, you get stimulated intellectually and emotionally; as well as physically. You are rare, Ann. Most women want there to be a more intimate connection, and I would have to really bury some feelings to do it mechanically.

I’m not sure if I’m rare, I might be lucky that I get all my emotional and intellectual stimulation from my hubby, he just lacks down below but great everywhere else!

 

[MisterPussyPleaser]

I’m not sure if I’m rare, I might be lucky that I get all my emotional and intellectual stimulation from my hubby, he just lacks down below but great everywhere else!

It's not as rare as this post makes it to be. Most women I run into do not prefer emotional attachment at least from what is said verbally.

 

[Leeice]

Agree... anyone who comes across as a thug or want to be thug is wasting my time. I don't need to get on a website just to get a guy with a hanging dock. Nobody is just going to lay down open up just because you are young And or hung.
Treat people with respect

 

[Hotmomof5]

I usually start out with no strings attached let’s fuck but if I really like him then it becomes more.

 

[MisterPussyPleaser]

I usually start out with no strings attached let’s fuck but if I really like him then it becomes more.

Exactly. If the chemistry is right, I'll make room for a "lover-friend". It's a rare find.

 

[Mootje]

Yes I agree. I have a warm, loving, open relationship with hubby. We enjoy each other’s company. So most of the time when I meet a guy I’m just meeting for sex really. Yes it’s lovely if the guy is nice, fun, respectful etc but I don’t want to spend hours getting to know them.
Arrange the meet, meet, nice little chat and a *******, then fuck.

thats my girl No strings attach, and lets fuck

 

[Madeofhue]

Agree... anyone who comes across as a thug or want to be thug is wasting my time. I don't need to get on a website just to get a guy with a hanging dock. Nobody is just going to lay down open up just because you are young And or hung.
Treat people with respect

Where did this post imply that lol