Question for men about prostate orgasms

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My hubby is a dominant, masculine man in general. I've been shared by him for 9 years, and he's always played a leading role in our play -- screening guys, talking to them, watching, participating and often directing the action. However, a couple of years ago, we met a very special bull. Long story short, that bull dominated both of us. Hubby never did anything overtly bisexual, but he submitted to that bull. Around that time, I caught hubby watching IR porn and working one of my vibrators into his ass. When I confronted him about it, he was embarrassed and angry, but we talked more about it (in bed, while stroking his cock -- always the best time to bring up a touchy subject) and I persuaded him to let me play with his ass. I pegged him with my vib and he had a very intense orgasm. He even cried. I was amazed and turned on. I loved it. I pegged him a few more times, but then he suddenly decided that he never wanted to be pegged again. He got angry and defensive. Said it was emasculating and he felt like it was having a negative psychological effect on him. He didn't want to talk about it. I did notice during this time that he was more submissive, both to me and to that special bull I mentioned, but I have no idea if it was related to the pegging or not.

Anyway, I'm sorry for the long background, but I've been wondering what it was that my hubby experienced. What does pegging and a prostate orgasm feel like for guys? How is it different from regular orgasms? How does it make you feel - physically and emotionally - and does it have any lasting after effects, emotional, physical, or psychological?

Appreciate any insight that experienced men can offer here.
 
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It is more of an emotional release than a physical one. I wouldn't even call it an orgasm in the sense. There can be some guilt afterwards like he experienced, like getting angry and defnsive. Those feelings of guilt can and will go away with continued release like this.
I personally crave the emotional release, and feminine feeling.
 
Very insightful, thank you. I can better understand now why hubby reacted defensively.

So you feel "feminine" and "guilty" after a prostate orgasm, but there's also an emotional release? Can you describe that release? Does it feel like...love? And the physical climax is not as intense or as good compared to having your cock stroked to completion? Again, sorry to bombard you with questions.
 
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No problem with the questions. I no longer from guilty from it. Its how I release 95% of the time. I have severe premature ejeculation, so to orgams in the traditonal sense is over in a min, by going way of the prostrate is much better for me, but this post is not about me, so sorry for getting of the rails.
The physical climax from the prostrate is nothing like having your cock stroked, not even close., so no, prostrate is not as intense as stroking, but its much much more intense,just in a different way
 
Not sure about vibrator use, but normal prostate massage has very positive health effects. This is with a trained index finger with a delicate touch. Some specially designed products are on the market, and there are testimonials which swear by them.
 
Kuno said:
Not sure about vibrator use, but normal prostate massage has very positive health effects. This is with a trained index finger with a delicate touch. Some specially designed products are on the market, and there are testimonials which swear by them.
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Thanks for your reply, Kuno. Have you tried it? If so, what does it feel like, and how is a prostate orgasm different from a typical orgasm?
 
advice4newbies said:
My hubby is a dominant, masculine man in general. I've been shared by him for 9 years, and he's always played a leading role in our play -- screening guys, talking to them, watching, participating and often directing the action. However, a couple of years ago, we met a very special bull. Long story short, that bull dominated both of us. Hubby never did anything overtly bisexual, but he submitted to that bull. Around that time, I caught hubby watching IR porn and working one of my vibrators into his ass. When I confronted him about it, he was embarrassed and angry, but we talked more about it (in bed, while stroking his cock -- always the best time to bring up a touchy subject) and I persuaded him to let me play with his ass. I pegged him with my vib and he had a very intense orgasm. He even cried. I was amazed and turned on. I loved it. I pegged him a few more times, but then he suddenly decided that he never wanted to be pegged again. He got angry and defensive. Said it was emasculating and he felt like it was having a negative psychological effect on him. He didn't want to talk about it. I did notice during this time that he was more submissive, both to me and to that special bull I mentioned, but I have no idea if it was related to the pegging or not.

Anyway, I'm sorry for the long background, but I've been wondering what it was that my hubby experienced. What does pegging and a prostate orgasm feel like for guys? How is it different from regular orgasms? How does it make you feel - physically and emotionally - and does it have any lasting after effects, emotional, physical, or psychological?

Appreciate any insight that experienced men can offer here.
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I know this an two year old post. But I obsoletely loved being pegged! It’s an very touchy subject though because it’s viewed as being gay! Just like a lot of men will never agree to an MFM threesome because they don’t want to be around another naked guy. Yeah sorry guys things touch in an MFM threesome just enjoy it move on. Ok back to pegging. My experience started with an ex gf when I was younger. One day she just surprises me while giving me an blow job she slips an finger in to my ass. At first I was like whoa lol but she found my prostate pretty fast and oh man I spread my legs and she slipped in finger number two and went to work on my prostate while sucking my cock. Was one of the best blowjobs I’ve ever had at that time. Then she started using an small vibrator while giving me blow jobs and man that was amazing. So that was my introduction to anal play from an receiving end.

Then I brought up my fantasy of being pegged to my ex wife. She was surprised but interested and curious about it. After an few months of her using her fingers on my ass while giving me blow jobs she agreed to try it. So we went out to the sex toy shop and found an decent strap on and some dildos. We were both very excited. So we get home and we start playing around. I will have to say it’s pretty funny playing with the harness and dildos. But after that she started fingering and lubing my ass and then pushed the smaller 5 inch dildo in to my ass. It hurt at first but after an few minutes I loved it. Man I don’t think I ever got so hard besides watching her sucking and fucking other hard cocks but that was later down the road in our relationship! It took her an bit of awhile to figure out an rhythm but she got it pretty quickly. She fucked my ass doggystyle for an good 15-20 minutes while she would occasionally grip my steel hard cock and I was dripping like crazy. She was getting so worked up with fucking my ass since the strap on rubbed against her clit that after those 15-20 minutes she needed my rock hard cock. We fucked so good. She said I was hard as ever. We did pegging about once or twice an month. We also found out after I fucked her and would cum. If she pegged me I would be rock hard in minutes after for round two lol! We also upgraded to the double ended dildo that fits through an very fitted harness. The first time she experienced an orgasm while pegging was amazing for both of us.
My ex wife never humiliated me, never thought less of me and it was just something we sexually enjoyed together. No one knew about it. It was our little secret.
Did you feel like that maybe once his secret was out he was afraid how it would make others or you see him?
I think it’s awesome that you found it as an turn on.
I’ve also saw some of your other posts about how your hubby was losing his masculinity and maybe that was very conflicting for him.
Well I hope all is well with you and for anyone venturing in to this sexual play be open about and just be honest and supportive.
I’m no longer enjoying pegging since I’m seen as the Dominant role in bed with my current wife which I enjoy very much since I’ve always been an Alpha male and enjoy being Dominant. Even when I was with my ex wife. I’ve brought it up to my current wife and she has expressed to me that she isn’t comfortable with the role of pegging me since she enjoys being submissive. So I don’t think I’ll ever enjoy that sexual experience of being pegged again. And no I do not use any dildos anally while masturbating. Sometimes lifestyles change and one must change with them! I’m glad I got to enjoy that part of the lifestyle and experience of being pegged by my ex wife!
 
advice4newbies said:
My hubby is a dominant, masculine man in general. I've been shared by him for 9 years, and he's always played a leading role in our play -- screening guys, talking to them, watching, participating and often directing the action. However, a couple of years ago, we met a very special bull. Long story short, that bull dominated both of us. Hubby never did anything overtly bisexual, but he submitted to that bull. Around that time, I caught hubby watching IR porn and working one of my vibrators into his ass. When I confronted him about it, he was embarrassed and angry, but we talked more about it (in bed, while stroking his cock -- always the best time to bring up a touchy subject) and I persuaded him to let me play with his ass. I pegged him with my vib and he had a very intense orgasm. He even cried. I was amazed and turned on. I loved it. I pegged him a few more times, but then he suddenly decided that he never wanted to be pegged again. He got angry and defensive. Said it was emasculating and he felt like it was having a negative psychological effect on him. He didn't want to talk about it. I did notice during this time that he was more submissive, both to me and to that special bull I mentioned, but I have no idea if it was related to the pegging or not.

Anyway, I'm sorry for the long background, but I've been wondering what it was that my hubby experienced. What does pegging and a prostate orgasm feel like for guys? How is it different from regular orgasms? How does it make you feel - physically and emotionally - and does it have any lasting after effects, emotional, physical, or psychological?

Appreciate any insight that experienced men can offer here.
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you dominated him from the start and fucking his ass is just the ultimate domination , my wife did it to me and my nurse practitioner does it to me. nothing says submission than letting a woman take your ass
 
AlphaCoupleTN said:
I love playing with my hubby's ass! He cums so hard when I do.
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of course and it also makes you feel powerful and in control and it makes him look helpless. My nurse practitioner gives me prostrate exams but she lets her trainees do it to me while she watches, i am helpless they are in control and it feels so good to be helpless
 
advice4newbies said:
Thank you. Do you experience an "emotional release" like what Lear41 described, and if so, can you tell me what it feels like?
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Love the way it makes me feel feme. I ct more feme every day now. Little things. I tuck sometimes or use butt plug. Love the feeling when I had my anal orgasm. Not easy to do it. It is differant than a prostate orgasm. It is liberating I shave my body hair and tan. I work on my butt making it bigger and nice. Yes, I have been fucked.
 
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