We have an open marriage. I get about 95% of the benefits and most of that is with BBCs. I don't want him to be humiliated but I'm toying with the thought of locking him up just while I'm gone. I almost never bring them to our house. He doesn't know I'm thinking about this so I don't know how he'd take it. So, any thoughts on the general idea and how I should broach it to him?
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Does he have a submissive side?
He's not an Alpha, in-charge type of guy but he'sot a wimp either. He does like to please me, but I've always taken that as a love thing because I love to please him also. Probably not a real helpful answer...
So this being locked in a cage is a fantasy of mine, except that unlike you, mine doesn't do it spontaneously and we've never done it before, she would like to try the BBC but it's just a fantasy too, if I were you and if this thing excites you, you should let him play with it, maybe the idea of him being under your control while you're with a BBC excites you, you have to make him understand who's in control of the situation, maybe cage him and put the key on the neck, start as a game, then if you discover that he gets excited you make him understand that that is his place
Ask him... I'm an alpha male in vanilla world, type A, professional executive. I do however like wearing a cage, do it for my own pleasure not Mrs. She's not into it, she likes my cock LOL I wear it at times because it's a mind fuck for me. I'm decently hung, yet get off caging my cock. Have usually done it with others than my wife, Couples and one on one with guys. See what his thoughts are, some of us "alphas" like to play the other side at times.
Then just tell him you got the inspiration and you have an idea for your next adventure… and that the idea is such a Turn-on for you…
Great!!!
Order it, leave it on the table, he will get the clue
Wonderful! I am glad it worked out. He's a good husband
You ever thought about that you might've married a homosexual?
From someone who has tried all different types of chastity and challenged people on the Chastity forums . Chastity unless it is a piercing is a joke . It does not stop you from having a orgasm and I have yet to find one that is 100% secure . Everyone is playing games .
Make a joke and see his reaction when you have a bottle of vine. If something happened just tell the vine spoke for you
That some people think he's a homosexual is beyond me. Agree with you, he's just a normal hetero and good husband who enjoys his wife being satisfied by BBCs. There are tons of men like that.
It worked out fine, I ordered it today.
Bristolangela
Female
Go for it babes x
Lock him just before you go out to see your lover, once locked give him a “little” list of jobs you require completing before your return x
He’ll love it!
Lock him just before you go out to see your lover, once locked give him a “little” list of jobs you require completing before your return x
He’ll love it!
Cadionagi
Male
I am locked in chastity, but not a sissy or fem, know one would ever know. but I can't live without being in chastity! You are going to love it so much, I'm super excited for you both congrats!It worked out fine, I ordered it today.
AtlCuck
Male
If you can make the humiliation playful I bet he loves it.
He won't be humiliated if you are gone. The only people who know he is locked are you and him. It's definitely different if he is with you though and he is locked.
We started out with chastity as a bit of a plaything. Now it's pretty much de rigueur for when O has a meetup planned.
Start off by telling him it's how you want to ensure he has a full load for you when you get back and take it from there.
PA-Chastityboi
Male
You Are Right Best feeling if You Are Pierced AND locked
