while visiting his parent who live in our area, it was one of his friends that told him that a black guy and I were now living together. And YES, because hes a huge racist, he was furious about and let me know how he felt about it after seeing me in the grocery store. I didn’t know he was following me until I got to my car in the parking lot. He called me every racial name in the book and as much as I tried to ignore him, he was blocking me from getting in my car. If not for another girl who was watching and calling 911, I don’t know how far he was going to take his furious actions. When the police got there I refused to have him arrested. They could have charged him for a couple things I don’t remember but even after the incident. the phone calls were just as bad and it ****** me to file a restraining order on him. All his friends are all racist and from what I understand is that the friend that told him about me and my black boyfriend living together, really made fun of him losing me to a black guy and it was far to humiliating for him to control himself.. He still doesn’t know that my black affair started while we were married and that’s a good thing.. lol