A lot of times cuckoldry is a self fulfilling prophecy,,,follow me for a sec. A hub’s suspicious, he doesn’t really have proof, just a bunch of stuff that could be cuckolding, but no real smoking gun,,,and there lies the rub, you can never prove a negative, consequently and excuse that nothings happening won’t be believed, at that point the only thing hub will believe is the ones thing he doesn't want, but desperately wants, it’s the only thing that can be proven, and the only thing he’ll believe. While he’s waiting to discover the truth, scenarios arise in his mind constantly, and eventually he notices his arousal with some of them,,,these are the ones that become fodder for masturbation, suddenly the one thing he‘s deathly afraid of hearing, the one thing he doesn’t want to hear, but it’s the only thing that will give him relief, the only thing he’ll believe, and the only thing that can be proved. At this point he’s primed to become a lifelong willing cuck,,,cause it (hurts so good).