From Christine -
When were out shopping, I think it's kind of obvious.
With my fat ass sticking-out dressed in Lulu Lemon leggings with cucky
in tow, most guys can figure out he's not big enough/tall enough to
satisfy a woman with my kind of body.
And to be honest, I don't really care if they're "respectful to hubby".
When a guy starts talking/flirting with me and totally ignores hubby,
it actually turns me on. It lets me know that he's dominant and more than
likely is going to have no trouble putting hubby through his paces.