So, we are both early 40's. We've beene married for twenty years. Watching my wife taking BBC has been a long fantasy of mine. She actually dated and had sex with black guys before we met. I guess that's what maybe started this for me. I've watched guys hit on her and it always aroused me. About a year ago, I finally broke down and confessed my fantasy in grueling detail. Actually it went well and we've both enjoyed fantasy and sexual role play since. She recently agreed to make my fantasy a reality. Seems now the only hold up is me. I'm not sure how to find the right person and I sometimes have doubts if I should. Am I asking for trouble? Anyways, that's why I joined here. To get more knowledge and others prospective.