Need advice asap please!

[mt11124]

Hey guys , 1 year ago I introduced my fiancé to a BBC dildo, and finally admitted the fantasy to her, it was actually the life like Shane Diesel Cock sleeve extender. Anyways, it started kinda slow then about 3 months in it began picking up, about 3 more months go of fucking her with it, and it was basically all we used, I started out fucking her regular, then she would ask me to grab the bbc sleeve, cause she liked getting off to it wayyyy more than she did me, keep in mind I only have a 5” cock at max, and not very girthy…

I end up buying a couple really big bbc dildos and encouraged her to use them while I’m not around, and to watch bbc porn, this was my doing in hopes she’s want the real thing sooner than later because every time I brought that up, she didn’t like the idea. It got to the point where she was using a huge bbc dildo, and getting off to IR porn so often that it almost was an every day thing, and continues to be to this day, idk how many times I caught her but it was a lot, still catching her a lot currently, she barely EVER wants to get off on me, and always tells me to grab the sleeve cause she wants to get off on it, her pussy is legit soooo loose now, and that’s exactly what I wanted, recently she’s been grabbing my hand and ends up having me fist her, and always asks to be DP’d with my dick and one of the huge bbc dildos.. she has 100% full on cucked me in that aspect.

Apologies for the rambling here, but I’m fully convinced she’s seeing someone else, we both travel a ton, and she legit has no respect for me while gone, doesn’t communicate, always says she’s gonna call then doesn’t, lately has even been talking about randomly breaking up, and I’ve had to try and convince her to stay with me, we’ve been together 7 years and engaged for a little over the year. Anytime we’re at home she never pays any attention to me anymore and shows no interest, I try to hang out but she’s always busy, the only time she wants to hang out is to literally get fucked. What do I do here? Does this have anything to do with the me wanting her to love bbc? She spends more time getting herself off to IR porn with a huge dildo than she does with me. Do I need to ask her if she wants an open relationship? I wanted her to want the real thing, but only if we were together! Has anyone ever had anything similar happen? If so what advice could you give me?

gonna attach some photos, first 2 pics are 1 year ago before her first bbc dildo, 1 year later made a huge difference!

 

[larry winn]

Hey guys , 1 year ago I introduced my fiancé to a BBC dildo, and finally admitted the fantasy to her, it was actually the life like Shane Diesel Cock sleeve extender. Anyways, it started kinda slow then about 3 months in it began picking up, about 3 more months go of fucking her with it, and it was basically all we used, I started out fucking her regular, then she would ask me to grab the bbc sleeve, cause she liked getting off to it wayyyy more than she did me, keep in mind I only have a 5” cock at max, and not very girthy…

I end up buying a couple really big bbc dildos and encouraged her to use them while I’m not around, and to watch bbc porn, this was my doing in hopes she’s want the real thing sooner than later because every time I brought that up, she didn’t like the idea. It got to the point where she was using a huge bbc dildo, and getting off to IR porn so often that it almost was an every day thing, and continues to be to this day, idk how many times I caught her but it was a lot, still catching her a lot currently, she barely EVER wants to get off on me, and always tells me to grab the sleeve cause she wants to get off on it, her pussy is legit soooo loose now, and that’s exactly what I wanted, recently she’s been grabbing my hand and ends up having me fist her, and always asks to be DP’d with my dick and one of the huge bbc dildos.. she has 100% full on cucked me in that aspect.

Apologies for the rambling here, but I’m fully convinced she’s seeing someone else, we both travel a ton, and she legit has no respect for me while gone, doesn’t communicate, always says she’s gonna call then doesn’t, lately has even been talking about randomly breaking up, and I’ve had to try and convince her to stay with me, we’ve been together 7 years and engaged for a little over the year. Anytime we’re at home she never pays any attention to me anymore and shows no interest, I try to hang out but she’s always busy, the only time she wants to hang out is to literally get fucked. What do I do here? Does this have anything to do with the me wanting her to love bbc? She spends more time getting herself off to IR porn with a huge dildo than she does with me. Do I need to ask her if she wants an open relationship? I wanted her to want the real thing, but only if we were together! Has anyone ever had anything similar happen? If so what advice could you give me?

gonna attach some photos, first 2 pics are 1 year ago before her first bbc dildo, 1 year later made a

 

[larry winn]

Hey guys , 1 year ago I introduced my fiancé to a BBC dildo, and finally admitted the fantasy to her, it was actually the life like Shane Diesel Cock sleeve extender. Anyways, it started kinda slow then about 3 months in it began picking up, about 3 more months go of fucking her with it, and it was basically all we used, I started out fucking her regular, then she would ask me to grab the bbc sleeve, cause she liked getting off to it wayyyy more than she did me, keep in mind I only have a 5” cock at max, and not very girthy…

I end up buying a couple really big bbc dildos and encouraged her to use them while I’m not around, and to watch bbc porn, this was my doing in hopes she’s want the real thing sooner than later because every time I brought that up, she didn’t like the idea. It got to the point where she was using a huge bbc dildo, and getting off to IR porn so often that it almost was an every day thing, and continues to be to this day, idk how many times I caught her but it was a lot, still catching her a lot currently, she barely EVER wants to get off on me, and always tells me to grab the sleeve cause she wants to get off on it, her pussy is legit soooo loose now, and that’s exactly what I wanted, recently she’s been grabbing my hand and ends up having me fist her, and always asks to be DP’d with my dick and one of the huge bbc dildos.. she has 100% full on cucked me in that aspect.

Apologies for the rambling here, but I’m fully convinced she’s seeing someone else, we both travel a ton, and she legit has no respect for me while gone, doesn’t communicate, always says she’s gonna call then doesn’t, lately has even been talking about randomly breaking up, and I’ve had to try and convince her to stay with me, we’ve been together 7 years and engaged for a little over the year. Anytime we’re at home she never pays any attention to me anymore and shows no interest, I try to hang out but she’s always busy, the only time she wants to hang out is to literally get fucked. What do I do here? Does this have anything to do with the me wanting her to love bbc? She spends more time getting herself off to IR porn with a huge dildo than she does with me. Do I need to ask her if she wants an open relationship? I wanted her to want the real thing, but only if we were together! Has anyone ever had anything similar happen? If so what advice could you give me?

gonna attach some photos, first 2 pics are 1 year ago before her first bbc dildo, 1 year later made a huge difference!

By the picture's besides her pussy looking stretched , her ass looks well used .

 

[MacNfries]

Do I need to ask her if she wants an open relationship? I wanted her to want the real thing, but only if we were together! Has anyone ever had anything similar happen? If so what advice could you give me?

I think if the two of you can't communicate now, you shouldn't be getting married, I know that. You started this fire storm and now want to control it. It's not yours to control and she's letting you know that. I imagine she's figured out you don't give a diddly about loving her, just fulfilling your own sexual fantasies.
I believe now, about all you can hope for, IF you desire her in your life, is to prepare yourself on being a cuck as long as you're with her. And YOU want to WATCH ... Some people, in fact I imagine most people, are pretty private with who they have sex with. They certainly don't want a guy in the corner beating his boner, that's a bit embarrassing, actually.
No pity here if the two of you aren't willing to talk it out. It's probably over anyway and better to get out before the babies start arriving and you get stuck with a lifetime of baby support.

 

[Blackasslover6]

She's traveling a lot, refused to answer her phone and didn't call you at all???? She is already getting blacked hard by someone and he or they own that pussy now. The plan is for you to convince her your ok as long as it becomes a shared experience and you want to be a voyeur watching her p**** get wrecked by BBC. Find out if she's emotionally involved or it's only sex ( bro, that red bush is hot, every redhead I ever had was a insatiable nympho maniac, if you can't get at least 5 nuts everytime, someone else will!!!

 

[MacNfries]

I think she's made it quite apparent to him what she wants from him, which is nothing. I don't think she's specifically looking for black men now, just moving on from HIM.
Its time he learn from his mistake and move on ... save himself the continuance of frustrations & grief he's created for himself. Better done now than after marriage IF she even wants marriage now with him.

 

[Blackasslover6]

I think she's made it quite apparent to him what she wants from him, which is nothing. I don't think she's specifically looking for black men now, just moving on from HIM.
Its time he learn from his mistake and move on ... save himself the continuance of frustrations & grief he's created for hiack amself. Better done now than after marriage IF she even wants marriage now with him.

I suspect th66e same and been there, done that too. I had a black girlfriend a few years ago from Harlem and she left her black boyfriend for me, moved in with me in upstate NY. She was going back to the city every 6 weeks or so to visit her family. Her family found out I was white, ( she was on speaker phone and when they heard me talking in the background, asked her who's the white guy talking that I hear, she said it's ( my name). " How can you be with a white man,wtf is wrong with you"
I could clearly hear every word and name he called me.
The next time she went to visit, she didn't answer phone or message me for a wieek. Then I got a message from an unfamiliar number and it was a video of a black guy fucking her.
(His cock wasn't any bigger than mine) We was through, her ******* fixed her up with a friend to break us up

 

[Rumblebee]

The whole thing doesn't look great for you.
Confront her properly.
She could be fucking someone else, most likely bbc.
She ignores you does not want to be around d you much.
She still comes around to be fisted((..sorry but I gotta smirk on.it. never thought
i'd write a sentence like this. )
Question is if she would come around to you if she had a bbc fucking her.

So maybe you are very talented or skilled fister or she has a bbc and hes not good at fisting
OR you are ignoring something/her,-
which is my guess


Have a open discussion. Maybe fight.
Either you find out the point and she changes her behaviour or she is gone and that's what she is mostly by your description.
It's hard to tell what you did wrong by your description.


You dont get much our of it.

 

[neefiboy]

I think if the two of you can't communicate now, you shouldn't be getting married, I know that. You started this fire storm and now want to control it. It's not yours to control and she's letting you know that. I imagine she's figured out you don't give a diddly about loving her, just fulfilling your own sexual fantasies.
I believe now, about all you can hope for, IF you desire her in your life, is to prepare yourself on being a cuck as long as you're with her. And YOU want to WATCH ... Some people, in fact I imagine most people, are pretty private with who they have sex with. They certainly don't want a guy in the corner beating his boner, that's a bit embarrassing, actually.
No pity here if the two of you aren't willing to talk it out. It's probably over anyway and better to get out before the babies start arriving and you get stuck with a lifetime of baby support.

That’s brutally honest. But agree

 

[migoodguy45]

I think if the two of you can't communicate now, you shouldn't be getting married, I know that. You started this fire storm and now want to control it. It's not yours to control and she's letting you know that. I imagine she's figured out you don't give a diddly about loving her, just fulfilling your own sexual fantasies.
I believe now, about all you can hope for, IF you desire her in your life, is to prepare yourself on being a cuck as long as you're with her. And YOU want to WATCH ... Some people, in fact I imagine most people, are pretty private with who they have sex with. They certainly don't want a guy in the corner beating his boner, that's a bit embarrassing, actually.
No pity here if the two of you aren't willing to talk it out. It's probably over anyway and better to get out before the babies start arriving and you get stuck with a lifetime of baby support.

Excellent advice

 

[Cadionagi]

You need to embrace it offer to marry her and immediately agree to a one way open marriage (for her). She's getting BBC now you just need her to trust you enough to admit it. Offer to wear chastity as a symbol of your devotion and try to encourage more IR and cuck porn viewing you're almost there dude!

 

[hubbywife4black]

Hey guys , 1 year ago I introduced my fiancé to a BBC dildo, and finally admitted the fantasy to her, it was actually the life like Shane Diesel Cock sleeve extender. Anyways, it started kinda slow then about 3 months in it began picking up, about 3 more months go of fucking her with it, and it was basically all we used, I started out fucking her regular, then she would ask me to grab the bbc sleeve, cause she liked getting off to it wayyyy more than she did me, keep in mind I only have a 5” cock at max, and not very girthy…

I end up buying a couple really big bbc dildos and encouraged her to use them while I’m not around, and to watch bbc porn, this was my doing in hopes she’s want the real thing sooner than later because every time I brought that up, she didn’t like the idea. It got to the point where she was using a huge bbc dildo, and getting off to IR porn so often that it almost was an every day thing, and continues to be to this day, idk how many times I caught her but it was a lot, still catching her a lot currently, she barely EVER wants to get off on me, and always tells me to grab the sleeve cause she wants to get off on it, her pussy is legit soooo loose now, and that’s exactly what I wanted, recently she’s been grabbing my hand and ends up having me fist her, and always asks to be DP’d with my dick and one of the huge bbc dildos.. she has 100% full on cucked me in that aspect.

Apologies for the rambling here, but I’m fully convinced she’s seeing someone else, we both travel a ton, and she legit has no respect for me while gone, doesn’t communicate, always says she’s gonna call then doesn’t, lately has even been talking about randomly breaking up, and I’ve had to try and convince her to stay with me, we’ve been together 7 years and engaged for a little over the year. Anytime we’re at home she never pays any attention to me anymore and shows no interest, I try to hang out but she’s always busy, the only time she wants to hang out is to literally get fucked. What do I do here? Does this have anything to do with the me wanting her to love bbc? She spends more time getting herself off to IR porn with a huge dildo than she does with me. Do I need to ask her if she wants an open relationship? I wanted her to want the real thing, but only if we were together! Has anyone ever had anything similar happen? If so what advice could you give me?

gonna attach some photos, first 2 pics are 1 year ago before her first bbc dildo, 1 year later made a huge difference!

Absolutely a beautiful pussy.

 

[tango2005]

I would use this great opportunity wisely

 

[sexyblackiowa]

Hey guys , 1 year ago I introduced my fiancé to a BBC dildo, and finally admitted the fantasy to her, it was actually the life like Shane Diesel Cock sleeve extender. Anyways, it started kinda slow then about 3 months in it began picking up, about 3 more months go of fucking her with it, and it was basically all we used, I started out fucking her regular, then she would ask me to grab the bbc sleeve, cause she liked getting off to it wayyyy more than she did me, keep in mind I only have a 5” cock at max, and not very girthy…

I end up buying a couple really big bbc dildos and encouraged her to use them while I’m not around, and to watch bbc porn, this was my doing in hopes she’s want the real thing sooner than later because every time I brought that up, she didn’t like the idea. It got to the point where she was using a huge bbc dildo, and getting off to IR porn so often that it almost was an every day thing, and continues to be to this day, idk how many times I caught her but it was a lot, still catching her a lot currently, she barely EVER wants to get off on me, and always tells me to grab the sleeve cause she wants to get off on it, her pussy is legit soooo loose now, and that’s exactly what I wanted, recently she’s been grabbing my hand and ends up having me fist her, and always asks to be DP’d with my dick and one of the huge bbc dildos.. she has 100% full on cucked me in that aspect.

Apologies for the rambling here, but I’m fully convinced she’s seeing someone else, we both travel a ton, and she legit has no respect for me while gone, doesn’t communicate, always says she’s gonna call then doesn’t, lately has even been talking about randomly breaking up, and I’ve had to try and convince her to stay with me, we’ve been together 7 years and engaged for a little over the year. Anytime we’re at home she never pays any attention to me anymore and shows no interest, I try to hang out but she’s always busy, the only time she wants to hang out is to literally get fucked. What do I do here? Does this have anything to do with the me wanting her to love bbc? She spends more time getting herself off to IR porn with a huge dildo than she does with me. Do I need to ask her if she wants an open relationship? I wanted her to want the real thing, but only if we were together! Has anyone ever had anything similar happen? If so what advice could you give me?

gonna attach some photos, first 2 pics are 1 year ago before her first bbc dildo, 1 year later made a huge difference!

Nice meaty pussy

 

[xxxrules]

Hey guys , 1 year ago I introduced my fiancé to a BBC dildo, and finally admitted the fantasy to her, it was actually the life like Shane Diesel Cock sleeve extender. Anyways, it started kinda slow then about 3 months in it began picking up, about 3 more months go of fucking her with it, and it was basically all we used, I started out fucking her regular, then she would ask me to grab the bbc sleeve, cause she liked getting off to it wayyyy more than she did me, keep in mind I only have a 5” cock at max, and not very girthy…

I end up buying a couple really big bbc dildos and encouraged her to use them while I’m not around, and to watch bbc porn, this was my doing in hopes she’s want the real thing sooner than later because every time I brought that up, she didn’t like the idea. It got to the point where she was using a huge bbc dildo, and getting off to IR porn so often that it almost was an every day thing, and continues to be to this day, idk how many times I caught her but it was a lot, still catching her a lot currently, she barely EVER wants to get off on me, and always tells me to grab the sleeve cause she wants to get off on it, her pussy is legit soooo loose now, and that’s exactly what I wanted, recently she’s been grabbing my hand and ends up having me fist her, and always asks to be DP’d with my dick and one of the huge bbc dildos.. she has 100% full on cucked me in that aspect.

Apologies for the rambling here, but I’m fully convinced she’s seeing someone else, we both travel a ton, and she legit has no respect for me while gone, doesn’t communicate, always says she’s gonna call then doesn’t, lately has even been talking about randomly breaking up, and I’ve had to try and convince her to stay with me, we’ve been together 7 years and engaged for a little over the year. Anytime we’re at home she never pays any attention to me anymore and shows no interest, I try to hang out but she’s always busy, the only time she wants to hang out is to literally get fucked. What do I do here? Does this have anything to do with the me wanting her to love bbc? She spends more time getting herself off to IR porn with a huge dildo than she does with me. Do I need to ask her if she wants an open relationship? I wanted her to want the real thing, but only if we were together! Has anyone ever had anything similar happen? If so what advice could you give me?

gonna attach some photos, first 2 pics are 1 year ago before her first bbc dildo, 1 year later made a huge difference!

I am doing the same thing with my girlfried, using big bbc dildo and black cock sleeves.
I usually lick her pussy, and after fuck her with my cock.
Then I start using big bbc dildo and black cock sleeves to continu fucking her. Her pussy is stretched out after using it, then I fuck her with my cock and cum in her mouth or her body.

I am wondering, during this year using the massive dildo, did you talk about getting her a big cock for a threesome for example ? (without mentioning it would be a bbc).

How did she reacted when talking about bbc dildos, and threesome, or involving a black guy ?

You said :
"this was my doing in hopes she’s want the real thing sooner than later because every time I brought that up, she didn’t like the idea. It got to the point where she was using a huge bbc dildo, and getting off to IR porn so often that it almost was an every day thing, and continues to be to this day, idk how many times I caught her but it was a lot, still catching her a lot currently, she barely EVER wants to get off on me, and always tells me to grab the sleeve cause she wants to get off on it, her pussy is legit soooo loose now, and that’s exactly what I wanted, recently she’s been grabbing my hand and ends up having me fist her, and always asks to be DP’d with my dick and one of the huge bbc dildos.. she has 100% full on cucked me in that aspect."

You didn't mentioned getting the real thing for her after she was using dildos and watching ir porn ?