I couldn’t agree more. Few thousand years of monogamy and “till death do us part” is a failed experiment for tens of millions of people. There are ways to live in harmony AND variety without lying and cheating.
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Hmm you’re bringing up some powerful facts here. I’m always hesitant to talking to married women who give me the lustful eye & I don’t want that kind of drama & from my experience with meeting married women in general who are attracted to certain men of color, most of them will be sneaky & tactical to hook up with you unless her & her partner are in a polyamorous dynamic that both of them agreed to
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If she's like me she means the BBC
Well we want to have it all. We want the super dick and naughty fucking but the money making husband that get's us into the country club as well. J/K
I've often wondered the same thing. I can see trying to keep a sexual lifestyle like swinging or being open secret due to not wanting to be judged but if you were all about black men then what made you marry a white man? If you are cutting out your husband and he is just the guy sitting in the corner then why be married. I imagine everyone has their own reasons that make sense to them.
I’ve never said it so I’m not sure where it’s coming from. I’ve said things like; “I love how your penis feels” (obviously not the word I use in the moment), “I love black penis.”, “I love when you f*** me.”. I have chosen not to say I love black men especially in the moment because I agree, it makes no sense to say it. I didn’t have sex with a black man until I was 41 and well into my relationship with my current husband. I love him, but I also love how it feels being ganged up on by he and his friend D (my bull).
Maybe they did no meet a black guy before marriage, that’s life.
You are ABSOLUTELY correct.. Today's climate had changed the caveman thinking way of marriage definitely. An open marriage is ideal in today's age.
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It's hard because the guys that my wife finds most attractive and wants this with, are in such high demand, and they know it, so why stay with her exclusively? Well-dressed, intelligent, interesting career, interesting conversation, respectful, tall, handsome, average or better endowment, and yes, black... she's not the only woman interested in this package deal. My wife has only ever had one black man that was willing to go for that kind of exclusivity and trust with her. They enjoyed (oh, did they ever!) unprotected sex for about 3-4 months, before he wanted to get back out there. Meanwhile she has had this arrangement with plenty of young white guys.
Don't be too hard on her.
I dated and and lived with black men for several years in my 30s (much to the chagrin of my Jewish parents who were hoping for a nice jewish boy). But at least the ones I was with were not marriage material. But boy could they give me orgasim after orgasim. I'm not saying there are not good black men out there but then at this point I'm not necessaily interested in just one man.
What. You out here looking for love?
