Muslim couple. Shy wife need advice how to convince her

We r Muslim couple I'm 30 she's 24. Very shy n religious girl n we belong to a conservative religious family. She's a very submissive n obedient wife. But when I try to make her watch cuckold porn she shy away.
can you come to europe ?
 
What would U recommend
It’s hard to say because I don’t know either one of you our your situation. One idea would be to find another couple who are already in the lifestyle you can hang out with in the vanilla world. Maybe the wife’s become friends and she can tell your wife about her experiences and how much enjoyment her and her husband are getting out of the lifestyle. Another idea is to just try and keep introducing new ideas to her. You need to play a long game. In my experience, if the wife isn’t the initiator. It’s going to take a few years of constant Subtle hints And encouragement on the direction you want her to go. You have to keep in mind you’re trying to mold her into a sex positive women her parents, her religion, and society has told her was wrong her entire life. your trying to overcome the struggle she has in her mind around being sexually promiscuous. People have been molding her mind for 24 years around what a conservative Muslim women should be, how she should act and carry herself. It’s not an easy battle for her to reconcil. You’ll have to be patience. the most important thing is for you to be clear you love her unconditionally. You want this for her, don’t make it about you. Make it about her. You want her to be fulfilled, you want her to experience more than just you. If you can find another women to held deliver your message I think it could help immensely. I kind of ramble but I hope this helps. Good luck
 
It’s hard to say because I don’t know either one of you our your situation. One idea would be to find another couple who are already in the lifestyle you can hang out with in the vanilla world. Maybe the wife’s become friends and she can tell your wife about her experiences and how much enjoyment her and her husband are getting out of the lifestyle. Another idea is to just try and keep introducing new ideas to her. You need to play a long game. In my experience, if the wife isn’t the initiator. It’s going to take a few years of constant Subtle hints And encouragement on the direction you want her to go. You have to keep in mind you’re trying to mold her into a sex positive women her parents, her religion, and society has told her was wrong her entire life. your trying to overcome the struggle she has in her mind around being sexually promiscuous. People have been molding her mind for 24 years around what a conservative Muslim women should be, how she should act and carry herself. It’s not an easy battle for her to reconcil. You’ll have to be patience. the most important thing is for you to be clear you love her unconditionally. You want this for her, don’t make it about you. Make it about her. You want her to be fulfilled, you want her to experience more than just you. If you can find another women to held deliver your message I think it could help immensely. I kind of ramble but I hope this helps. Good luck
Thanks for the advice really means a lot and meaningful advice
 
Sounds like she's just not into it; that's fine. Definitely don't pressure her. Do assure her that it's fine for her to enjoy sex and kink, though, regardless of her religion and upbringing(and that it doesn't make her a bad person for doing so).
Good advice
 
It’s hard to say because I don’t know either one of you our your situation. One idea would be to find another couple who are already in the lifestyle you can hang out with in the vanilla world. Maybe the wife’s become friends and she can tell your wife about her experiences and how much enjoyment her and her husband are getting out of the lifestyle. Another idea is to just try and keep introducing new ideas to her. You need to play a long game. In my experience, if the wife isn’t the initiator. It’s going to take a few years of constant Subtle hints And encouragement on the direction you want her to go. You have to keep in mind you’re trying to mold her into a sex positive women her parents, her religion, and society has told her was wrong her entire life. your trying to overcome the struggle she has in her mind around being sexually promiscuous. People have been molding her mind for 24 years around what a conservative Muslim women should be, how she should act and carry herself. It’s not an easy battle for her to reconcil. You’ll have to be patience. the most important thing is for you to be clear you love her unconditionally. You want this for her, don’t make it about you. Make it about her. You want her to be fulfilled, you want her to experience more than just you. If you can find another women to held deliver your message I think it could help immensely. I kind of ramble but I hope this helps. Good luck
Also very good advice
 
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