Moving from fantasy to reality

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cuckfantasyuk

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Hi everyone,

me and my gf are newbies to this. We added a bbc dildo to our role play about 12 months ago and it seems to have took our sex life to a new level. We’ve constantly spoke about how we’d like the fantasy to play out and I’ve never seen her orgasm so much.

Any advice for moving from role play to reality?
 
Hi,

If you decide to go for it then my advice would be to ensure you have lots of communication between you both. Set some rules or boundaries, agree what you'd both like to happen on a first date or night with a guy. We usually opt for a social first - meet in a busy pub and see how the chemistry is.

Be open and honest about what you'd like to happen - try to look at it more practically rather than just as a fantasy or a porno setup.. My wife and I talked a lot before the first meet about how we wanted it to go and talked a lot afterwards too. As a male cuck there's the intoxicating mix of pride, erotism and jealousy of seeing your gf/ partner with someone else and you have to keep your feelings balanced. Especially when you're new to the reality of seeing your girl orgasm with others. For me it took a couple of meets to fully relax and let go and enjoy the moment. You may be completely different though.

Be open, honest and keep talking with your gf and you'll have some incredible experiences
 
Some great advice there! I think we’d both be nervous before due to it being our first time and it would take me a few meets before I felt fully comfortable. Communication is essential though, we are very open with each other.
how did you go about arranging your first meet etc?
 
To be honest we use the internet and forums to arrange socials and meets. That's where the majority of our meets come from.

Obviously the nerves are high but with it being a social you can watch them flirt without it going to far and then go home and talk about whether you want to take it further with that guy ..
 
It’s a good point I’ll keep it in mind moving forward!
it’s definitely something we’re gonna pursue this year, it’s just about find the right person for the first time
 
s3xycuckcpl-uk said:
To be honest we use the internet and forums to arrange socials and meets. That's where the majority of our meets come from.

Obviously the nerves are high but with it being a social you can watch them flirt without it going to far and then go home and talk about whether you want to take it further with that guy ..
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What do you yourself say if you aren't interested? Do you say anything before the social meet to reduce expectations for later? Thanks!
 
s3xycuckcpl-uk said:
To be honest we use the internet and forums to arrange socials and meets. That's where the majority of our meets come from.

Obviously the nerves are high but with it being a social you can watch them flirt without it going to far and then go home and talk about whether you want to take it further with that guy ..
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Time to meet for sun fun and much more! ;)
 
cuckfantasyuk said:
Hi everyone,

me and my gf are newbies to this. We added a bbc dildo to our role play about 12 months ago and it seems to have took our sex life to a new level. We’ve constantly spoke about how we’d like the fantasy to play out and I’ve never seen her orgasm so much.

Any advice for moving from role play to reality?
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Go for a threesome. Find a man that neither of you is connected with and have a fun and open threesome. This will let you know how it is to see her with someone else, let her know how it is to be with someone else while you know and are watching, and it gives you time to compare notes afterwards and decide if it was a positive experience or a negative one. Best care you both love it and can explore more. Worse case it was a rough time and you can move forward without it affecting too much.
 
SunniDays said:
Go for a threesome. Find a man that neither of you is connected with and have a fun and open threesome. This will let you know how it is to see her with someone else, let her know how it is to be with someone else while you know and are watching, and it gives you time to compare notes afterwards and decide if it was a positive experience or a negative one. Best care you both love it and can explore more. Worse case it was a rough time and you can move forward without it affecting too much.
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I wholeheartedly agree with it being someone neither is connected with! While many do, I don't believe you can ever go back to 'just friends' afterwards, for better or worse. most relationships have down moments-it's significantly harder for three, then four, etc.

If/when I have the opportunity to talk to the female half alone beforehand, I emphasize her finding a place to insist he be an ACTIVE participant. I've seen far too many men push for this then heap "responsibility" on the female partner. It will be an emotional roller coaster during and for days after....if he only watches, she is the only outlet for all of those emotions. Hold her hands, hold her legs, let her rest her back against you, whatever...you can come out of it better if you've BOTH got skin in the game!

Most importantly COMMUNICATE before, during, after! And guys if you want a second time, for the love of God, do not make after a total inquisition of her! She has to figure out what happened too and it's NOT the time for a second by second explanation.
 
cuckfantasyuk said:
Hi everyone,

me and my gf are newbies to this. We added a bbc dildo to our role play about 12 months ago and it seems to have took our sex life to a new level. We’ve constantly spoke about how we’d like the fantasy to play out and I’ve never seen her orgasm so much.

Any advice for moving from role play to reality?
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Take things in baby steps, talk, have fun.
 
comminucate communicate communicate. Then work toegther with finding a third that will compliment you both and not be a threat to either. Go slow.
 
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