It is better to be with a bareback group that keeps together, so a closer and more trusting relationship can be formed.
Better a good life, than a short painful one ...
I agree with you about the bareback group. My black boyfriend and I are involved in a small swing group of other IR couples that are all long-term friends that are committed to each other. All the couples are black men/white women couples only and we never include any singles, male or females, just couples that we've known for a long time. In fact, 2 of the girls are cousins and two of the other guys are true brothers.. Our group consists of 12 couples and we try to get together about 4-5 times a year, usually during long holiday weekends. Because of limited space and only 6 bedrooms, we take the first 6 couples who RSVP.. It's always a lot of fun, especially knowing that everyone is safe.. At least we haven't had any problems yet except on got pregnant one time.. and no, we didn't know who the daddy was until the baby was born..lol