This makes you the classical cuckold and you should enjoy watching your wife ride a big hard black cock while they are near you.
lost respect for cuckold hubby
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terryeaton
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bound2bmine
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WOW this took a left turn 
Damn, Blacktowhite drama.
If you want her first and foremost, don't give her most precious gift away to another man. Things would never be the same, and once it happens, you can never take it back. I too have the same urges, I know for both of us the fuck would be amazing, but when I think of how much I love her, I don't let it get beyond fantasy.
Okay and I get that. We have done it before but the other guy was another white guy. We had no problems. He moved and we moved. We were both military. Good fun for us both and it came at no cost to our relationship. Everyone is different though and I understand your concerns. I had the same at first. Talking it out really helped.
I'm new to the site and quite new to being a cuckold. I know a lot of guys get off on the humiliation and the more real it is, ,the more they get off. That's why you read guys saying 'I'm a weak inferior white guy' etc.
However, I actually think that many cucks are very confident guys. I've chatted with a few and they have been of above average intelligence, confident and loving partners. They are giving their wives and partners s gift : to enjoy themselves physically, maybe because the guy recognises he isn't all that great in bed (anymore) but still wants his partner to be fulfilled this way.
For me, being a cuckold just gives me a Rye smile. I've been the dominant male. I've had three wonderful children. I've got nothing left to prove. I'm moving over and receiving my pleasure vicariously.
Cheers
However, I actually think that many cucks are very confident guys. I've chatted with a few and they have been of above average intelligence, confident and loving partners. They are giving their wives and partners s gift : to enjoy themselves physically, maybe because the guy recognises he isn't all that great in bed (anymore) but still wants his partner to be fulfilled this way.
For me, being a cuckold just gives me a Rye smile. I've been the dominant male. I've had three wonderful children. I've got nothing left to prove. I'm moving over and receiving my pleasure vicariously.
Cheers
I know you asked that cucks should shut up and not reply, and that if you wanted a cucks opinion you would ask your husband.
However, i just want to say I hope you resolve your discomfort. You say you no longer respect your hubby, but surely the fact that he has travelled with you into worship of black cock ... ultimately for your pleasure as well as his .. is worthy of some respect?
I guess a loss of respect - sexually - goes hand in hand with the cuck life. But there is so much more to a good marriage outside of sex. I hope you embrace that and come together again (you being blacked of course and him on his knees). And laugh about it after - because I hope that in the end, you both love it. If you have lost respect for him outside the sex too, well then there is a problem.
Cheers.
However, i just want to say I hope you resolve your discomfort. You say you no longer respect your hubby, but surely the fact that he has travelled with you into worship of black cock ... ultimately for your pleasure as well as his .. is worthy of some respect?
I guess a loss of respect - sexually - goes hand in hand with the cuck life. But there is so much more to a good marriage outside of sex. I hope you embrace that and come together again (you being blacked of course and him on his knees). And laugh about it after - because I hope that in the end, you both love it. If you have lost respect for him outside the sex too, well then there is a problem.
Cheers.
terryeaton
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This is why I would never do this with my own wife... I meet girls on Craigslist and bakcpage, give them a couple hundred bucks and we have a 3 way with my favorite huge ass bull.... beat wed I've ever had with jerkin off while I watch his huge cock sliding in and out of a petite dark red head with an ASS to die for.
Totally agree. You must love your wife unconditionally, be wise and understand the situation. A man who puts his male ego aside for his partner is for sure not weak.
What ever happened between you guys? Inquiring minds would like to know?
Beautifully put and so genuine, love it
I know you said you did not want any "wimpy cuckolds" to respond. I think that goes to the core of this...you may not respect any white males, or at least not white males who are submissive.
To me, that is an issue when starting out in this. It has to be mutual, and the woman should still love her man, and (in my opnion), the whole cuckold thing should be about the sex, and the husband and wife should have a normal relationship outside of the sex with black males. I've also said, I can see how, in a long term relationship, this type of relationship can be playing with fire, I have seen a couple threads where the cuck reports that his wife has moved out to go live with the bull. I'm just a white guy here, but I think there's a difference between women who want a cuck style relationship and those who just want an interracial relationship. The latter doesn't require a white guy involved at all.
I wonder, for the women, do your feelings on the whole cuckold thing change? Do you go from wanting a black bull for sex, a white husband for everything else...to where it's all about the sex?
To me, that is an issue when starting out in this. It has to be mutual, and the woman should still love her man, and (in my opnion), the whole cuckold thing should be about the sex, and the husband and wife should have a normal relationship outside of the sex with black males. I've also said, I can see how, in a long term relationship, this type of relationship can be playing with fire, I have seen a couple threads where the cuck reports that his wife has moved out to go live with the bull. I'm just a white guy here, but I think there's a difference between women who want a cuck style relationship and those who just want an interracial relationship. The latter doesn't require a white guy involved at all.
I wonder, for the women, do your feelings on the whole cuckold thing change? Do you go from wanting a black bull for sex, a white husband for everything else...to where it's all about the sex?
Small ... but huge difference, The swinger gets lots of pussy. The cuckold only gets to lick another mans cum from his wife's pussy at best
I posted that I saw a difference, to me, the terms I use, has been "hotwife" for when a woman fools around, but her husband is often in control, often picks the guys, and tells her what to do. He's not really submissive in the role. I use the term "cuckold" for the submissive husband in this role (and he gets what you said). I was called out by an admin (and another prominent member), who believe they own the definitions of the words, and that I was wrong to use them that way. As someone else in the thread said, the terms have been evolving over the last 15-20 years. Yes, historically, the term "cuckold" made no distinction about whether the guy was submissive, but I believe it has been evolving now.
We went from swinging to just men for threesomes, she couldn't handle me with other women. That evolved into just her with men, eventually I realized I preferred to be a cuckold... We took a 6 year sabbatical... For Christmas I get a chastity cock cage, she gets a silver chain for the key.
