oh, ok. Thought you were talking of male chastity, lol
lost respect for cuckold hubby
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oh, ok. Thought you were talking of male chastity, lol
cum4play
Couple
Ha - me too. Not that prison is funny, but as I said originally, there are likely many issues beyond what we know and the transparency is coming to fruition
CuckinVA
Female
I hear ya, I think it is just a little less respect and outlook of them.
i agree i have lost some respect for my hubby
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JoMu
Guest
Were you who put him chastity?
THE ADDAMS
Couple
I have to say I respected that my husband refuses to lick my cum filled pussy and Demands he is present when I fuck. Im happy he allows me to fuck Black Cock.
What a load of crap!
When we cuckold husbands get more and more involved in the lifestyle, we like things we could hardly have imagined, and we even get more excited when she loses some respect and treat us as what we are: her cuckolds. For example, I like when my wife calls me "cuckold" in front of the bull, and it's much more exciting if I don't fuck her when she is enjoying with a superior man. Yes, we love feeling like real cuckolds
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falcondfw69
Guest
This is the most honest answer on this forum and exactly what I am terrified of. I want her to have the pleasure, she deserves it. But I cannot bear the thought of losing her or losing her respect.
I was referring to the comment about MOST white men are subs to black men. That is crap. The number of white men that feel this way are in the EXTREME minority.
Jesse, there's "words of wisdom" coming from you today. I hold my marriage & family above all other things, and if I felt them the least bit threatened or disrespected, I'd certainly take offsetting action to resolve the situation. Reading some of these posts from supposedly white females, and their low opinions of their husbands, is very disturbing. I tend to think that most are just needle-dicked, whiteboi's living their fantasy for masturbation purposes, and that's cool, actually. But, I bet if their wives knew of their little ploys, they'd probably get their asses kicked.
Couples (real couples) need to keep in mind that they, no one else, cares a rats ass about their marriage or their family. So, all those involved in this lifestyle need to stress ... either have respect for the marriage or hit the frik'n road. I'm sure that if a "bull" was to even hint an ounce of disrespect towards me, my wife would resolve it, instantly. And, that's the way it HAS to be if the couple is to play in this lifestyle.
Amen, Mac!Jesse, there's "words of wisdom" coming from you today. I hold my marriage & family above all other things, and if I felt them the least bit threatened or disrespected, I'd certainly take offsetting action to resolve the situation. Reading some of these posts from supposedly white females, and their low opinions of their husbands, is very disturbing. I tend to think that most are just needle-dicked, whiteboi's living their fantasy for masturbation purposes, and that's cool, actually. But, I bet if their wives knew of their little ploys, they'd probably get their asses kicked.
Couples (real couples) need to keep in mind that they, no one else, cares a rats ass about their marriage or their family. So, all those involved in this lifestyle need to stress ... either have respect for the marriage or hit the frik'n road. I'm sure that if a "bull" was to even hint an ounce of disrespect towards me, my wife would resolve it, instantly. And, that's the way it HAS to be if the couple is to play in this lifestyle.
I still love and respect my hubby, im still seeing all this as fun at the moment. However, as i have posted before, hubby does seem keen on getting more into the cuckold type activity but not got into it yet. Im ok with that but can not honestly say how i would feel if hubby watching me with black guy, then black guy starts telling him what to do and hubby does it. Would take some strength to keep remembering its all just sexy fun and not feel bit embarrassed for hubby.
i would as ann said tend to accept things,as long as it was not the main turn on.I also think it is very important to find the right Bull that can interact within the dynamics,of a cuckold marriage
Dream Hubby
Couple
Not having participated in a cuckold relationship, YET, I can share these thoughts.
I have wondered how things would change for real. On here many say that it is so much better and so on, I think you are much more of a taste of what might really happen. I am concerned what might really occur. One thing I am making sure that is occurring in our experimentation is that my husband not only knows I love him, but that I also need him, and not just physically.
He has always been a good lover, but lately its become all about me, he will do anything I ask and say without hesitation, which is not all together bad, but sometimes I want to be the submissive and simply be taken. I believe that it takes a strong man to fulfill this role and that many on here are finding that in their Cuckold Relationships. This is not to say that our husbands are wimps or such, some might be, but its more along the lines of how they feel about themselves.
I wonder if the issue here is not that he is not the man he used to be, but maybe he has lost a bit of confidence along the way. I believe their is a fine line between confident and sharing and submissive and wimpy and I am not talking the wimpy men can act like in the bed room.
Anyway, I hope this makes sense and may in some way help out.
I have wondered how things would change for real. On here many say that it is so much better and so on, I think you are much more of a taste of what might really happen. I am concerned what might really occur. One thing I am making sure that is occurring in our experimentation is that my husband not only knows I love him, but that I also need him, and not just physically.
He has always been a good lover, but lately its become all about me, he will do anything I ask and say without hesitation, which is not all together bad, but sometimes I want to be the submissive and simply be taken. I believe that it takes a strong man to fulfill this role and that many on here are finding that in their Cuckold Relationships. This is not to say that our husbands are wimps or such, some might be, but its more along the lines of how they feel about themselves.
I wonder if the issue here is not that he is not the man he used to be, but maybe he has lost a bit of confidence along the way. I believe their is a fine line between confident and sharing and submissive and wimpy and I am not talking the wimpy men can act like in the bed room.
Anyway, I hope this makes sense and may in some way help out.
Your post is encouraging, Dream Hubby and I hope new couples, considering cuckold play, keep your comments in mind. I would like to add just a couple thoughts to it ...
Because cuckolding involves a 3rd party, and sometimes even more, the marital relationship is often influenced, to some degree, by that extra person(s) involved. It is important that the couple communicates to that extra person how the cuckold arrangement & priorities work. The center piece to this unique arrangement is obviously the wife, so the foundation and strength of the couple's relationship hinges on her and how she handles the 3rd party involved. Often, that 3rd party is going to suggest/encourage activities outside the pre-agreed boundaries of the couple. For example, he might request that they meet privately, without the husband's knowledge; or, he might desire to take her on extended trips. His purpose usually would be to establish a stronger influence over the wife. It is important that the wife maintains the emotional strength to see that the pre-agreed boundaries with her husband aren't breached. It's highly suggested that the "bull" never be allowed to gain control over the cuckold arrangement. As long as "everyone" is enjoying the activities, a cuckold arrangement can actually be strengthening to the marriage. But if one party to the arrangement becomes discontent, it's much like a broken leg on a 3-legged stool ... it simply can't work effectively.
Good post ... as I said, your comments are encouraging. Mac
That is our view point also....we find it exciting and do out of love for each other. She always asks when she wants to go out and play...and I always say yes, she knows the answer will always be yes but asks out of repect for our relationship. Love her so much!
That's great to hear!
