Looking for professional advice. Is it better to keep cheating? or to open up fully to my boyfriend about the kink?

For professional advice… You should seek a professional counselor for yourself who is open to conversations about non-monogamy.

Cheating involves deception and lying. When discovered it is the deception and the dishonesty that will ruin the relationship… Not the sex.

Best wishes. Mr.
 
Here's a couple of quick question for you. Do you love and care about your boyfriend?

Do you want a future relationship with him?
 
i'd say be up front, if he isn't down for it let him walk, the more lies and hook ups behind his back will only make it worse and probably cause him to react negatively. In my case wife cheated on me for 6 mos, but we'd been swingers so it was less of a big deal, now i've been her faithful, fully on board cuck for over 15 yrs, but all guys are different. As they say in commercials, "Your results may differ..."
 
What would you do? morally? and what is the best way to open up about this? I've read the ethical slut, it gave some good insigth but its still a difficult thing to do
I would of been more than happy for my beautiful gf to tell me she was a slut, for black men only!!
 
If you love your bf then do the right thing. Confess and hope it goes your way.
If not, then try to find a new bf and without any secrets and lies. Or be free and fu*k around untill you get bored.
If you dont love him, then confess anyway because now you are just hurting and taking advantage of innocent people.
 
For professional advice… You should seek a professional counselor for yourself who is open to conversations about non-monogamy.

Cheating involves deception and lying. When discovered it is the deception and the dishonesty that will ruin the relationship… Not the sex.

Best wishes. Mr.
Ahhh its both,
 
For professional advice… You should seek a professional counselor for yourself who is open to conversations about non-monogamy.

Cheating involves deception and lying. When discovered it is the deception and the dishonesty that will ruin the relationship… Not the sex.

Best wishes. Mr.
And you need to ask us moral and ethically whats the right thing. Seriously?
 
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