the short story is I had been working on K for a long time, and she said she was open to doing it, but it had to be the right guy. She wanted someone she felt safe with but didn't know because she didn't want anyone that we knew to find out. So it couldn't be anyone we knew, but couldn't be anyone we didn't know. I was not sure it was ever going to happen.
We went to Foxwoods Casino on a Saturday and got a room for the night. We had gone there just for the casino, not planning to do anything. We don't play the same games, so we split up for a while, and we were going to meet at a bar in the casino. I was playing craps, and was on a roll so I was a little late. As I approached the bar, I saw this really good looking black guy talking to K. I held back to see what would happen. She seemed interested in her. Then she texted me, asked where I was. I texted I was walking there now, and walked towards the bar. She saw me about 10 seconds later, came up to me.
She said "remember that thing you want me to do but I am nervous about doing it?".
I said "of course I do."
She looked over at the guy, said "How about him?" I would have agreed to pretty much anyone she wanted to go first with, so I certainly agreed to a clean cut, good looking guy. She said "I am too embarrassed. You ask him." She led me to him, introduced us, then said she had to go to the bathroom.
As soon as she was out of earshot, he turned to me and asked "so you want me to fuck your wife?" I was startled to hear the words, but not startled that he read the vibe coming from K and I. I nodded. He said "I am cool with that, and your wife is hot. Have either of you done this before? " I told him no. He had done this before with couples several times, and told me some things I should expect, and finished with "Whatever happens, do not judge her in any way while she and I are having sex. She will never forgive you." This was funny, because months ago she had said something similar to me when she started to more strongly consider having sex with a black guy.
She got back. He made us both say that we wanted to do this in front of each other. Then he took her up to our room, and told me to wait 15 minutes, and then I could come up and watch. Which I did. It was incredible.