You know what, you are 100% correct. The kink side of it is an entirely different story and that is exactly what you intended for this post so you have my apologies for that. However, actual cheaters in this thread should’ve have done the same thing. I think that’s what antagonized it all, but either way, our opinions shouldn’t matter. You, the husband, and the wife are all happy with it and that’s really all that matters.
Thank you for your service, btw. My husband is also a U.S. Army veteran 2007-2015.