Ladies, what made you go black?

From the wife, Alicia.

When Dan and I separated I was devastated. We had been married for fifteen years and while I understood that we were going through a difficult time I did not realize how bad things had gotten. I also did not realize that Dan started dating once he moved out and when I learned of that through the grapevine I was both hurt and angry. At first I did nothing but stew. Dan was the only man I had ever been with and I did not want to dip my toe back into the dating pool. The stress of being separated caused me to lose weight and while I was still heavier than I had been when we first got married I did start getting attention from men when I went out with friends.



Isaac was not the first man to hit on me but he was the first to catch my interest. He was very different than Dan and that was a good thing.



Isaac was twelve years older than I was and worked as an attorney at a large law firm in DC. He was a tall, very fit and very dark skinned black man with a great smile and a very outgoing and confident personality. I had grown up in a racially diverse town but times were different back then and I knew my dad would freak if I brought home a black guy so I had never considered it.



Isaac and I exchanged numbers after talking for well over two hours. In the days and weeks that followed we text messaged often and Isaac was persistent but patient. He made it clear that he wanted to take me out but he was willing to wait until I was ready.



Three weeks after we met I agreed to go out on a date with him. He picked me up dressed in a perfectly tailored suit. I have always loved a well dressed man and he looked hot. He opened my car door, he was a total gentleman and at the end of the night I invited him in for a ******* since Dan had the *******.



Issac kissed me while we sat on the couch talking and we began making out like a pair of randy teenagers. He was the first man other than Dan that I had kissed since I was in college and he was a great kisser. I knew then that I wanted him and later we moved into the bedroom.



Isaac had a fantastic body and a great dick. He was slightly longer than Dan but much thicker and unlike my then estranged husband he had stamina. Dan was great with his fingers and his tongue but he had never given me an orgasm during intercourse but Isaac gave me several.



We continued to date for a few months but he wanted more of a commitment than I was ready for. We were not exclusive and Isaac started dating another woman who was more emotionally available than I and we broke up when they became serious.



Three months after Isaac and I broke us Dan and I reconciled. We both realized that we needed to work a little harder, communicate a little better and be a little more flexible and forgiving. I didn’t tell Dan about Isaac right away but he knew that I had been seeing someone for a brief period.



When Dan found out that the person I had been seeing was black he seemed oddly excited but pensive too. He asked a few questions at first but more as time went on and eventually he told me that thinking about me with Isaac turned him on. I have always been rather naïve and my knowledge of the lifestyle, cuckolding, hotwifes and such was essentially nil until Dan introduced me to some of the erotica he liked to read at some website. Then he showed me some of the interracial porn he liked. Most were amateur with the husband filming the wife with black men and that got my imagination going.



The strange thing was, when I was with Isaac his race didn’t matter (though as some have mentioned in this thread there was definitely something erotic about the contrast between Isaac’s skin and mine). He wasn’t a black man he was just my sorta boyfriend who happened to be black. But he was also the most amazing lover and the sex was very and very intense.



For two years after we reconciled Dan and I worked on our relationship and it was great. The sex was better than it had been in years but then we fell into another rut and it started to get boring and monotonous. That’s when Dan brought home some toys, one of which was a dildo. The first one was very big with a tan hue. It had a very thick head and it was not especially pleasurable. After I complained he got a new one that I liked much more. It was a perfect 7.5” according to the packaging and it was a great fit. Dan would stick it to our headboard with the built in suction cup and I would rock fore and aft while Dan used his magic tongue to give me the best orgasms ever.



One night after we had done that and then Dan had “sloppy seconds” we were laying in bed talking and he asked me if I ever thought about Isaac. I told him sometimes but that I loved him and what we had more than anything. Then he asked if I would ever want to replace the dildo with a real cock. I laughed and told him I didn’t think that was a good idea and he asked why not.



“I don’t think you really want to see that,” I laughed. The truth was that with Isaac I always felt different and I responded differently than with Dan and I was afraid that he would be hurt if he saw how much louder and more animated I might be.



Dan dropped it for a while but he asked again a few months later and I waivered. I had found that my fantasies about Isaac would come in waves. There were times that I would think about him a lot and I would fantasize and use my toys and I would come hard thinking of the amazing connection and sex we had. And at other times it would be a distant memory and hardly a second thought. But when Dan brought it up that time I was in a rather ravenous state and I said “maybe.” To which Dan said he really wanted to have a threesome with me an a black guy.



I considered reaching out to Isaac for a half second but I realized that would be a mistake. There were some feelings beyond just sex between us and though I hadn’t spoken with him in years I had checked his Facebook occasionally and I knew he was single and available. I was sure Dan would be able to see my connection with Isaac and that would have been opening a can of worms. So I let Dan find the guy.



Justin was the second guy we talked to on SLS. He was in his early 40s, financially stable, a good conversationalist with a great sense of humor and a sexy body. He was lighter skinned than Isaac but had a bigger dick and he was experienced in the lifestyle. Dan and I both felt he was a good fit for our first time and boy were we right. We chatted on SLS for a few weeks before we exchanged numbers and started a group chat with me, Dan and Justin. The talk got pretty racy and hot which often left me utterly soaking wet.



We met Justin downtown at a hotel bar. Dan and I had gotten a room and my mom was watching the *******. I felt an immediate attraction to Justin. He had a presence like Isaac but he was more dominant and almost cocky but not in a bad way. We sat and drank for a bit and I could feel the chemistry. Dan could see it too so we paid our check and went upstairs.



The experience was amazing. Having four hands, two mouths, and two dicks all over me was incredible. I’d never been a "group sex" person but wow it blew my mind and unlike when it was just Dan and I, we were not in a hurry. They both kissed me and caressed me. I sucked them both. Then Dan seemed to step back and watch as Justin took over. He was the biggest I’d been with and I was afraid it would hurt like that first dildo but he started slow and got me so hot that all I felt was pleasure. He was rough at times after that but in a fantastic way and much like with Isaac I was much more animated while he fucked me. Through it all Dan just watched and he got to see me climax over and over.



Justin spent the night with us and he fucked me three times before he left the next morning. I was so sore the next day and we hooked up with Justin a few more times over the next six months. Each was great but I realized that I was getting a case of the feels so we stepped back from him.



Later I realized that it wasn’t just Isaac and Justin, it’s something with how I’m wired and how I connect with certain black men. Its not all black men and we’ve had some flops over the last seven years but when we connect it’s fucking incredible.
 
Nice idea, and even true to some extent. A heterosexual or bisexual Woman in a relationship is naturally attracted to men. But she will only fuck men on the side either in a lifestyle arrangement if she is confident in the relationship first, or behind her husband's or boyfrind's back otherwise. And in rare cases not at all. :D
Most women want side dick lol. Most who are honest anyway. I worked in an office years ago where there were 16 women and 3 men. In that situation women speak freely and I learned then that women are as bad or worse than men. Every one of them had someone they could call for sex if needed. All but a few were married and one was a newlywed. They had a name for their side dick a: "season pass"
 
Wrote about this before. Was 23 and on my bachelorette trip with two friends to South Beach Miami back in 1988. I was getting married soon and was ready to ditch my goody two shoes good girl personality. I bought the skimpiest thong bikini and already had a hot tan from the tanning salon before I got to Florida from New Jersey. Oiled myself up and laid out on the beach looking like a total slut. Less than 30 minutes later a couple of hot muscle toned black guys walked up to us and started putting the moves on us. I guess I had the look that I was horny and he asked if I wanted to fuck. I said oh yes and went right up to my hotel room leaving my friends behind. He was twice as big as my fiancé and fucked the hell out of me. I let him use me as he wanted and I experienced exstacy. It was my secret from my husband for the next 20 years even though I stated swinging with BBC 10 years later with my husband. I am a BBC sex addicted nymphomaniac and lately been pushing my envelope even further.
Pushing it further in what ways 🤔
 
20+ years of My merely adequate 4 , Anne wanted to enjoy size, power , stamina of a Handsome Hung Black Bull .... Her best friend divorced yrs ago and developed a BBC addiction in the years after .... Girls Talk , have No doubt (cock size)...S&A
 
Most women want side dick lol. Most who are honest anyway. I worked in an office years ago where there were 16 women and 3 men. In that situation women speak freely and I learned then that women are as bad or worse than men. Every one of them had someone they could call for sex if needed. All but a few were married and one was a newlywed. They had a name for their side dick a: "season pass"
Being a newlywed doesn't stop them from having side dick. I found out my wife has had side dick since we were engaged. Even fucked him the night before wedding
 
My wife was a waitress the guys who worked in the kitchen were Africans who were here on work visas. One in particular had sweat pants on an the waitresses were talking about how they could see his huge black cock outlined in his pants. That night my wife called and said she was going out for drinks with a coworker. My wife had to see that big beautiful black cock for herself! She came home completely deshoveled her hair was a mess,her make up had tear stains down her face,her bra nylons and panties were in her waitress apron,her nylons were torn in out in the crotch and cum was pouring down her legs. She said that he was over a foot long and so big around that she couldn't close her hand around it. She said,he was really rough with her! She said that she couldn't do it ever again with him,but the next weekend she got all dressed up like she was going to church,and went back for another round,before finally tapping out! She came home the same way,only her panties and nylons were missing all together! Both times,I kissed her stretched out red swollen pussy better until there was no more of their mixed cum for me to lap up! Curiousity didn't ******* the cat,but it sure beat up my wife's pussy good twice!
Never again than back for more BBC only twice? Maybe more than think
 
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Much like Kelly, I grew up in a very rural area with absolutely NO black people or any black men. So I tried to find a white guy who appreciated me and treated me with desire but also respect. I just wasn’t able to find any.

Then in college I was literally on campus for three days before multiple black men not only noticed me, they let me KNOW they noticed me. I was almost instantly hooked. Black men have a desire and passion that I cannot ignore. They are straightforward about what they want and that is something that I absolutely love.
I attempted to deny my feelings at first but eventually I just said yes and I am never going to regret that evening.
hit on 100 white girls odds are better at scoring at least one or more will say yes
 
Had a friend that had an affair with a black man. Cheating was never for me but I don't judge either. Hung out with her and her lover once and he brought a friend along.
I was really attracted to him and found it all very exciting.
After that my husband and I had some long, honest and genuine conversations. Tried it after that.
That's Awesome Congratulations to you on going black
 
Had a friend that had an affair with a black man. Cheating was never for me but I don't judge either. Hung out with her and her lover once and he brought a friend along.
I was really attracted to him and found it all very exciting.
After that my husband and I had some long, honest and genuine conversations. Tried it after that.
Hot.
 
I have always been attracted to Black men, just didn't do anything about it. My husband and I started talking about IR and I was intrigued. The more we talked about it the more turned on I got. So, my husband set me up with a First Sergeant in the Army and I haven't looked back.
Hoorah I was in the Army Stationed in Gießen Germany went to the Woodland club with my wife and her sister her sister hooked up with a black man from Nigeria and he blacked her I wish my wife would have got blacked by him too ! 🙏🙏🙏♠️♠️♠️❤️❤️❤️
 
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