It sounds as if there is nothing you can do and your wife doesn’t need your opinion because she already has your balls in her purse. If you have told her that she can cuckold you with your blessing and she still wants to keep her life a secret from you she has already left the relationship. You should grasp that and move on with your life. You are already divorced and don’t realize it.
Is it cuckolding or cheating?
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The text means he wants to fuck your wife again. He's already fucked her so many times, they have a code word / pet name for it. He doesn't even need to seduce her or put in the effort. He tells her when he wants to fuck, and she complies. Bango indeed, buddy.
Agree! We have been in a cuckold relationship for about 7 years. I help her get ready for her play dates with her BBC Bull who she has been seeing for the past 3 years. I have never met him nor been with her on dates. There is no dishonesty as I know where she's going, with whom and what she's doing ... no cheating there!
I should have known, she did so many meetings with him telling me he's her client. I can't count the amount of time we're making love the phone rings and she tell whoever is on the phone she's with a client.
If she knows you are willing to be cuckolded there’s no reason for her to try to deceive you,
I think it just depends on the couple.
Some couples play together always. Others give their wife's total freedom to play and it would be HER decision to tell the husband or not.
Personally, I have done both and I have to say that both, in their own way, are just as hot for me.
Having said that, when she played alone I always wanted her to tell me how it went. Sometimes she did others she simply said "this has nothing to do with you".
I loved both. But it really is down to each couple to decide etc
Some couples play together always. Others give their wife's total freedom to play and it would be HER decision to tell the husband or not.
Personally, I have done both and I have to say that both, in their own way, are just as hot for me.
Having said that, when she played alone I always wanted her to tell me how it went. Sometimes she did others she simply said "this has nothing to do with you".
I loved both. But it really is down to each couple to decide etc
She's free to do as she wishes, but not to keep me up to date does not allow me to help keep her safe.
My wife stopped texting her pool table guy for a while, but started back up again last week. He texted her he wanted to "keep it under the radar". And she texted back "Yup". He'll be back in the area in a couple of weeks, I'm hoping they get it together. And eventually, she'll go black.
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You may be right, another one of her texts to him was "Anytime you need me I'm here!"
Realistically speaking, chances are they're already banging, 'cause their relationship is clearly beyond professional.
My best guess is that the guy is not single as you think. Your wife is everything but discreet with you, and although you gave her too many on your cuckold fetish, her lack of interest to involve you in this, suggests that her constant denial on the obvious nature of their relationship is purely out of respect to him, because he's the one who's been afraid of being exposed.
I believe the reason she introduce him as single was to play it safe. She may not understand your cuckold fetish, but instinctively she took advantage of it, which clearly explains her audacity of texting him right in front of you without any sign of guilt.
Raising suspicions doesn't seem concerning for her either. I bet she is sensing your subconscious excitement when she's doing things behind your back, and that empowers her bossy, derogatory attitude. Although she knows you haven't got the guts to leave, she's clever enough to avoid triggering unexpected behaviours by admitting it to you openly. Let alone telling you she's in love with a married man, and naively opening the door for you to blackmail him driven by your fears and insecurities.
I might be completely wrong, but take a step back and consider how my theory brings all the puzzle pieces together by just changing his marital status. Do you see now why "keeping things under the radar" is primarily important for him and why your wife keeps denying her sexual affair? Or why she creeped out when you mentioned his name while eating her pussy out, revealing your pathetic, delusional self, thinking that she would ever allow you to watch how a real men fucks her?
I just think your that your utter crave to be cucked by her is blinding you and you can't see the red infidelity flags waving above your horns. Honestly, as much as you want, I can't see you guys surviving as a couple for long. If my assumption is right, and your wife have deep feelings for him beyond the need for "Bango", then you'd better start praying to God for him to choose staying with his wife instead of stealing yours.
