Look dear BlackCuckguean!
I didn't intend to offend you, I was just trying to reflect on the fact that, in my humble opinion, the definition of femininity and masculinity covers quite a large spectrum of opinions!
I think the definition of beauty, like femininity and masculinity, is relative rather than exact.
You wrote that, according to many, very light skin pigmentation is considered feminine and very dark skin pigmentation is considered masculine. Can you link a statistic on this?
Among the European phenotypes, I am a representative of Dinaric (Adriatic), and therefore for me pale and medium brown pigmentation is more attractive than very light and very dark.
For me, mainly Southern European, North African and sub-Saharan women are truly feminine! As a result, in addition to Mediterranean women, black ladies with moderately wide noses and mouths are quite simply miracles of nature! At least I think they are! Black ladies with fuller figures are especially beautiful to me!
I can find women with lighter pigmentation erotically attractive when paired with natural red hair and emerald green eyes!
Among the Asian ladies, among the Koreans and the Japanese, perhaps fair-toned women, whose beauty is only enhanced by black straight hair and beautiful brown eyes!
Wavy hair makes the beauty of black ladies truly magical!
It may come as a surprise, but as a South-Eastern European man, I don't like blond and blond-brown hair!
For men, light and medium-brown skin, combined with auburn or black hair and brown eyes, are more masculine. The physique is at least average, but it is better if it is more muscular from physical work and/or regular sports!
Smoking and heavy alcohol consumption (alcohol is a small stimulant because it dilates ******* vessels and increases oxygen uptake) should be avoided, as it is not good for potency!
With my comment, I just wanted to make it clear that I do not belong to the camp of those who represent the mainstream mentality!
Have a nice day!!