AdamLannoy
Male
I'm a 42yo Dutch male who more and more fails to satisfy his 42yo wife. I often don’t get hard for here partylt because we’ve been together for 14 years now and partly because of physical problems. If I can get erect I cum very quick.
I told her about three years ago I'd be totally okay if she would like things to go further than just talks if she meets a nice guy. She wasn't shocked, but surprised and asked me "what if I fall in love? do you want to meet other women too?" I replied I only want her to enjoy life more, her body and meet new people as we both know she likes the excitement it brings.
We had two more talks like that during the years whenever we had a serious conversations about our lives and what she misses at the moment as we’re clearly in our “taking care of our sprouts years”. She said it was "open-minded, sweet, etc" so I thought we were heading into the right direction.
About six months ago she made the clear statement that she doesn't like "this stupid idea". I felt really disappointed and didn’t see any chance to ever get this thing started.
One night when I failed to get hard again, she turned around after sucking my cock that stayed soft. We talked later that night and she had this unexpected response to my statement that I think our sex life has become a bit boring. She said “bringing in an other guy just takes too much energy for me too organize”. I said she might be wrong as many young guys desire to have sex with a woman her age. She said she had noticed younger men looking at her now and then but she thinks having sex with much younger guys is risky as they might fall in love and bring a lot of drama with them.
This is it for now. Will add whenever I see a change.
I told her about three years ago I'd be totally okay if she would like things to go further than just talks if she meets a nice guy. She wasn't shocked, but surprised and asked me "what if I fall in love? do you want to meet other women too?" I replied I only want her to enjoy life more, her body and meet new people as we both know she likes the excitement it brings.
We had two more talks like that during the years whenever we had a serious conversations about our lives and what she misses at the moment as we’re clearly in our “taking care of our sprouts years”. She said it was "open-minded, sweet, etc" so I thought we were heading into the right direction.
About six months ago she made the clear statement that she doesn't like "this stupid idea". I felt really disappointed and didn’t see any chance to ever get this thing started.
One night when I failed to get hard again, she turned around after sucking my cock that stayed soft. We talked later that night and she had this unexpected response to my statement that I think our sex life has become a bit boring. She said “bringing in an other guy just takes too much energy for me too organize”. I said she might be wrong as many young guys desire to have sex with a woman her age. She said she had noticed younger men looking at her now and then but she thinks having sex with much younger guys is risky as they might fall in love and bring a lot of drama with them.
This is it for now. Will add whenever I see a change.
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