[Interview from my blog]
Human relationships are based on hierarchies and most women want to be sexually dominated, ****** to a degree, seduced and taken. Few women can resist a really dominant man. A man who wants her badly, who insists with his crude words on his sexy voice, with his lustful physique and character… a man who knows what he wants and how to obtain it.
As a teacher, I can confirm that this natural attitude is not something that is learned. It manifest early in some male teenagers with their classmates, in the way they stare you during the classes. Some individuals realise of their own charms quite early and develop an amazing self-confidence.
For a naturally submissive woman, looking for a man to offer her submission becomes an ordeal. But it is a driving ******* in our sexuality. Many white ladies substitute masturbation and fantasies for the real interaction with a black Dominant. When I developed a fixation for amateur interracial porn, there were few anonymous stars in my selected filmography. One of them was an athletic British young male, I felt in love of this video. I loved his stamina the way he controlled the situation… the lady was literally in his hands.
In blacktowhite.net, I had the chance to chat and flirt with him. As most of the successful Bulls of the site, he is a smart person, the epitome of the British gentleman with an endless cock and a touch of spicy charm. I was flattered that younger black men like him can be so appreciative of older woman…
MonicaV:
In modern multi-racial societies the interracial couples are pretty common, but many times the differences of skin color are considered a mere circumstance. When it comes to the ‘IR Lifestyle’, I think we are talking about men and women that (like myself) is actively seeking people of a specific race. I remember you told me that many women of your age in London have grown up and are used to seeing black men, but the older ones are “overly excited by a dominant black male”. I would like to know your opinion about this issue.
Dredeep:
Yes indeed, based on my experiences the older woman seems more excited at the prospect of being with a black man. This could be down to not experiencing this in her earlier years and is now at an age where she feels more liberated to explore her deepest desires.
It has always been quite normal for me to be in control when having sex, I have mostly only had sex with white women and we almost seamlessly fall into our roles. Some women I have been with they are actively seeking their first experience with a black man, then I feel the race play is at the fore of the experience. That is after all why she is there in the first place.
On how I got into the lifestyle, it’s hard to say when it began since I pretty much began my sexual experiences as a young with white women. On dating sites I would find women who openly would express their desire for black men, those are the women I would more likely approach.
MonicaV:
Being black in a country of white majority, statistically you have more chances to have sex with white women. However, there are some black men who have a clear predilection for Caucasian females. According to my experience, many of them deny this fact. It seems that it is more socially accepted if a white woman have a thing for black men. Because when a black man only dates with white women it is considered that he is despising the females of his own race, as happened with the controversies about Michael B. Jordan. I remember a (white) youtuber saying that this only happens when a black man dates out of his race. Do you think we will ever get over this situation?
Dredeep:
For me that is like saying will we ever get over racism. I’m aware of the Michael B Jordan controversies, I imagine Serena Williams didn’t receive the same level of attention when she married Alexis Ohanian. I agree, there will always be an issue regarding black men dating outside their race more than other race. In some ways I understand why. Due the way some black men speak about black women, can be quite disgusting. You can have a preference without putting the women down in your own race. So it’s no surprise some women may feel unattractive.
MonicaV:
I have found interesting this comment: “When you meet or speak with a number of women you slowly realise some are at the very start of their journey into the lifestyle. Others don’t latch onto the race play at all and just find this black man attractive and not necessarily because he is black.” Is sex different with these two types of women?
Dredeep:
I certainly don’t think the sex is too different. I have found women who are at the start of the lifestyle will be more responsive to race play, understandably because they may have not had many sexual partners of a different race. So they may be turned on more by the racial differences. Saying that everyone is different. Women who are very much apart of the lifestyle often describe themselves as addicts. An addict spends most of their time thinking about their addiction. Very much like someone with far less experience.
MonicaV:
How do you get them to be eased into the lifestyle?
Dredeep:
I ask alot of questions to really get the root of what of why they have decided on this lifestyle and what they hope to get out of it? What are your expectations? With that information I can usually gauge how open somebody is, in turn plays a part in how submissive they may be. Something I get a kick out of. Again everyone is different so if a wife approaches me I like to tailor the experience.
MonicaV:
In Europe many professional women live surrounded of beta/nerdy guys. Feminism and political correctness have emasculated white men but the Alpha male archetype is still socially admitted in black males. Besides the chance to enjoy with the otherness, I think many European women is seeking in interracial relationships the traditional genre roles. I have always wondered the opinion of black men about this issue, because maybe there are many prejuices in my thoughts.
Dredeep:
I guess only a woman can really decide how alpha a man is. If he feels the need to announce it is he really that dominant. It is not new that a successful professional seeks domination in her sex life. I suppose a black man for alot of women make her feel just that, like a woman.
MonicaV:
There are certainly many guys who believe that being an Alpha means to adopt a ridiculous macho man attitude. However, I also think that there are some kind of primal acknowledgment among men about the presence of a true alpha male around. It is something very subtle, but I have seen how many of my male friends changed when I was with my black Dom. I think this is the basis of the cuckold dynamics. Regarding this issue, do you have experiences with couples?
Dredeep:
I don’t have the most extensive experience with couples but the couples I have dealt with haven’t felt like an Alpha/Beta male situation. Husbands or boyfriends simply have wanted to filful a fantasy, of their own and of their woman. Extreme cuckold fantasies don’t do anything for me.
MonicaV:
Don’t you have the impression that some common places of the interracial-cuckold relationships are the transgression of American sex taboos? In Europe the scene seems to be pretty different.
Dredeep:
America has a different relationship with segreation and intergration than Europe, thus has an effect on how the scene is viewed.
MonicaV:
Another common place of the lifestyle is the age difference. One of my best black lovers was almost 15 years younger; the intercourse shifted pretty soon from some kind of devotion towards the educated middle class lady to an enthusiastic fuck to the ‘white slut’. You have expressed your interest to get the submission of mature white women. Could you explain this fascination?
Dredeep:
Yes. I love an older woman. I tend to hold an elegant older woman on a pedastool. More experienced in life, usually in her career also. Perhaps it is more of a challenge to gain her submission. Also it’s a well known fact that women meet their sexual prime at a later age so why wouldn’t I capitalise haha.
MonicaV:
As a woman who has recently changed the first digit of her age, I must agree with you. Hahaha. I had always had a thing for older men, but when you are 40, ‘older men’ often means less sexual stamina or even blue pills. So now in sexual terms I’m more interested in younger, well-endowed males able to provide me with marathonian sex sessions. Therefore women like me are capitalising the interest of young black men too. I believe that any growing sex lifestile is based on fulfilling the inner desires and needs of all the parts involved, no matter if these are politically incorrect or a transgression of social norms. What websites or social media you prefer for finding hookups?
Dredeep:
I agree completely with that. Blacktowhite.net primarily. Fabswingers but I haven’t been on there for a while. Twitter for a short while.
MonicaV:
One last question. I would like to know how you would seduce me if we ever meet, and what would you do with me in the hotel room.
Dredeep:
You can put on a nice dress for me and meet me at a bar. We can enjoy some drinks while we exchange some sexual conversation. My wandering hands underneath the table to see how wet you are for me. After the glasses begin to empty after a round of drinks I tell you to walk towards to lift and wait for me at the doors. I watch you walk away and patiently wait with your purse in hand. I walk over to you and place one hand on your hip as the doors open. Ladies first, I allow the doors to close before grabbing your hand and placing it on my fully erect black shaft over my jeans.
I see the excitement on your face as you feel my pulsating penis nestle in the palm of your hands. I lean in to kiss your lips, igniting more passion. Leading me to grab the back of your hair and shoving you chest first against the lift doors as the lift rises. I lift up your flowing dress to reveal your ripe firm ass. The sheer sight of your ass takes my breath away and I show my appreciation with two firm smacks. One with my stronger right hand connecting with your right cheek, you let out a moan and appear to bend over allowing me to firmly place my next smack between your thighs. My middle and ring finger making contact with your clit.
Fast approaching our floor. I lower your dress and back away with you looking over your shoulder and my hands on my bulging black dick. The doors open and allow you to step forward before slowly following behind. I grab you by the waist and tell you to walk down the corridor with your dress hiked up. You submit to me and obey my command with a slow reveal and even brisk walk. I pulk the hotel room card from my blazer pocket and hand it to you. The green light flashes and you collapse into the door pushing it wide open. I slowly close it behind me tell you to lose the dress but keep on your heels. As the dress hits the floor I approach you observing the patient look on your face.
“Knees!”
You fall one leg at a time to your knees and await the next command.
“Place you face on my dick now!”
I pulsate my dick on your cheek so you can feel how hard you have made me. I unbutton my belt and jean buttons. No underwear. My dick bounces hard and strong inches from mouth.
“WAIT! Are you going to ask nicely?”
The feeling of your soft mouth and wet lips make me weak at the knees.
“Slowly, I like it slow”
The excitement is unbearable. The tip is full of pre cum. I’m impressed by your skills but the excitement is too much. I want to taste you. I unbutton my shirt slowly and tell you to lay on the sofa chair and spread your legs
I get on my knees and start to kiss the thighs. Responding to your shivers and grab your waist firmly to keep you still. I run my tongue on the outside of your pussy, so gently a trail of cum links my tongue and your pussy.
[We start to chat and the story ends. By then I was in bed with my laptop, caressing my soaked sex. The rest of the conversation is too embarrassing to explain…]
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