Like i said from the threads I've looked into today I seen allot of it if they are old that do not know and I'm not that worried about as I can ignore those people
I'm sincerely not trying to be antagonistic. Literally my only point was that it's not 90%. If it was, none of us would be here. Even horribly racist sites like the daily stormer had probably 10% benign posts. Anything that's 90% disgusting racism would be dismissed as a hate site.
I know the stuff you're talking about, and I have written rants against some of it. Most of it, like you, I ignore. The only reason I took the time to look at the numbers is because I was told (not by you) to "do my homework" and accused of being "too woke" when I said that 90% is an exaggeration. So at that poster's suggestion I did, and presented some homework.
But to get back on track, I think black women are absolutely beautiful. As someone in a cuckold relationship, I don't fuck them, but as a submissive with an ethically non-monogamous wife, I'm extremely turned on at any chance to play with or serve them, just as I am any strong woman. My wife has a personal preference for black men, but she doesn't think black men are automatically better than white men, and neither of us tries to project our proclivities on anybody. I don't have a poor self image, and my wife doesn't genuinely disrespect me, or demean me in ways that cause damage. I freely admit, I am turned on by elements of playful humiliation, which I know I can trust my wife to mete out in a healthy, sane, loving and sustainable way as part of our play, but we don't think that it's for everyone. We especially don't think it's for an entire race.
The problem is that what I'm describing shouldn't be disgusting to anyone. We are a loving and happy couple of 21+ years. I believe there's as much room for your fantasy as there is for ours, on a site dedicated to interracial erotica. I'm also not denying there's probably a lot more material for the QoS set here than for interracial swingers of both sexes.
It's just sad to me that people can't be accepting of those of us who might be into a certain dynamic that they aren't into, without deciding that 9 out of 10 users are extreme racists. We're not. And yes, my wife and I are into BDSM, and she is dominant in our relationship. But we are not disrespectful or trying to push some crazy agenda.
On one hand, the hyper-extreme fantasy talk, pushing a narrative that all white men should be feminized and cut off from having sex, etc. is extremely damaging, because it gives people the impression that all (or maybe like this thread suggests, 90% of all) cuckold couples are sociopaths. They aren't. But on the other hand, it's hard to know where to draw the line, and unless we're trying to say that the way some people play is ok and the way others do isn't, there is always going to be some gray area.
I don't believe 90% are part of the problem. There's just a very vocal minority of users, most of whom are single, white porn addicts with active imaginations and a compulsion to ******* their fantasy on everyone else, who can sometimes make it feel like there's nothing else out there. I believe the way to address that is to have more real discussions with real people and learn to appreciate our differences.
Have a nice day!!
