Hi guys! It has been a long time since I was trying to convince my neighbor's wife to have fun with other men. She loves the lifestyle and she convinced her hubby too. Now the only problem is how should I ease her hesitation of the first time having sex with other men? your ideas will be appreciated
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I think, personally, that your friend feels very comfortable with you. The information going back and forth between you two is a very intimate thing to share. She trusts you. She knows you are not going to give up her secrets. I know your culture does not deal with such things in a very closed community (once out of that closed community, it is still considered taboo).
I had the opportunity to date an Indian lady once, but I was too chicken to ask her out. We stayed friends and I learned a lot from her.
For your friend to trust you with the information of her desires and wishes speaks volumes about the kind of person you are.
I know this will sound crazy, but if you can think about this and get past all of the moral and other crazy restrictions about this, you will see the logic of this. She trusts you and does not trust many other people, ergo, she wants you there to make sure she is safe if it happens. She knows you trust your lover(s). She does not trust some guy she randomly meets in the gym or the coffee shop or the bar.
I think if you offered her one of your lovers and that you would be there to hold her hand (nothing kinky, just to hold her hand and reassure her and make sure she was safe), that she would go through with it. She would have people she knows she can trust. A lot of intimacy is trusting the other person. She might be able to let herself do it and let herself be free this way.
Talk to her about it and see if this is true. It is just an idea I got from your posts.
Either way, good luck.