Im tring to convince my gf to have sex with a black guy.
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I believe you answered your own Q with the statement ... "if she chilled with the right guy and they clicked it would happen" ... Contrary to what you read, most women are not exactly thrilled to have sex with strange men. If she's got some suppressed hangups about black men, possibly exposing her to some black men in a relaxed atmosphere would help her. Why not locate some adult lifestyle clubs in your area and plan to attend their hospitality night to meet some guys. Everyone will be clothed, and she can have some conversations with some really nice guys of all colors.
Here's a link to find them in your area:
http://www.swinglifestyle.com/swingers/clubs/
Here's a link to find them in your area:
http://www.swinglifestyle.com/swingers/clubs/
Honestly bro there is no better...it is a matter of contrast after all we are the same underneath and all ******* red...but what it is a matter of is fantasy...etc "role playing".
Bottom Line: If the wife is not into it then do not ******* it because like with any kink or fantasy if she is not down with the brown she will not do it...it is more of your thing but like Dave said above you can probably ease her into by going to a swing club in a relaxed non ****** atmosphere.
Talk with Her More: Remember a good key to any swingers/cuck/BBC lifestyle is Communication that is the keyword phrase to remember here...ask her why she does not find black men attractive then go from there.Remember not all women like black men so you have to understand that reality and realize the fact it might have to remain a fantasy...because she might run.Just my 2 cents oh ok more like 5 cents...lol
but that's just my opinion i could be wrong.Respect,
Storm
Honestly bro there is no better...it is a matter of contrast after all we are the same underneath and all ******* red...but what it is a matter of is fantasy...etc "role playing".
Bottom Line: If the wife is not into it then do not ******* it because like with any kink or fantasy if she is not down with the brown she will not do it...it is more of your thing but like Dave said above you can probably ease her into by going to a swing club in a relaxed non ****** atmosphere.
Talk with Her More: Remember a good key to any swingers/cuck/BBC lifestyle is Communication that is the keyword phrase to remember here...ask her why she does not find black men attractive then go from there.Remember not all women like black men so you have to understand that reality and realize the fact it might have to remain a fantasy...because she might run.Just my 2 cents oh ok more like 5 cents...lol
Respect,
Storm
I know this isn't Dr. Phil, but it is refreshing to read some common sense responses from time to time instead of the usual "come to me and get my black dick bitch" or "you should breed and have 6,000 mixed race ******* because it's the duty of white women to be barefoot, pregnant and submissive cum dumps to black men" posts.
I agree with you bro...that whole breeding thing is not for me if i have a kid i am taking care of it...i do not want to be some deadbeat bastard breeding machine pumping [hince...lil wayne] lol out ******* i do not know...reality is that some people do not understand fantasy and reality and do not see some of the consequences that all this foolishness will cause in the long run...
To me this lifestyle is about fun,friendship and great sex that's it not down with all this breeding,black supremacy *******...i am ok with cuckolds and dominance but from a fantasy role playing standpoint...but to each there own....sorry to beat a dead horse
Note: Without common sense we are all doomed to fail and fall flat on our faces...thank southjersey for your intelligence bro good to have someone else of smarts and common sense here.
Respect,
Storm
I agree with you bro...that whole breeding thing is not for me if i have a kid i am taking care of it...i do not want to be some deadbeat bastard breeding machine pumping [hince...lil wayne] lol out ******* i do not know...reality is that some people do not understand fantasy and reality and do not see some of the consequences that all this foolishness will cause in the long run...
To me this lifestyle is about fun,friendship and great sex that's it not down with all this breeding,black supremacy *******...i am ok with cuckolds and dominance but from a fantasy role playing standpoint...but to each there own....sorry to beat a dead horse
Note: Without common sense we are all doomed to fail and fall flat on our faces...thank southjersey for your intelligence bro good to have someone else of smarts and common sense here.
Respect,
Storm
Thanks for your kind words. It's a small fraternity, the people on this board who have common sense and know how to separate fantasy from reality.
WHAT????
chocolate thunder
Male
I agree with you bro...that whole breeding thing is not for me if i have a kid i am taking care of it...i do not want to be some deadbeat bastard breeding machine pumping [hince...lil wayne] lol out ******* i do not know...reality is that some people do not understand fantasy and reality and do not see some of the consequences that all this foolishness will cause in the long run...
To me this lifestyle is about fun,friendship and great sex that's it not down with all this breeding,black supremacy *******...i am ok with cuckolds and dominance but from a fantasy role playing standpoint...but to each there own....sorry to beat a dead horse
Note: Without common sense we are all doomed to fail and fall flat on our faces...thank southjersey for your intelligence bro good to have someone else of smarts and common sense here.
Respect,
Storm
nice. very well said...
What is this guy saying???
chocolate thunder
Male
I Agree ....wut is he sayin'What is this guy saying???
Maybe I can shed some light on the story suggestion, my own take. Men are more visual than women, hence why most porn is made to appeal to men and doesn't really do much for your average woman. From my own experience, I get much more aroused by what goes on in my brain than on a screen. If I read something hot, it turns me on much more than watching a video. It sparks my imagination, which is so crucial to my sexual responsiveness.
I think it may actually make sense for the guy to try and write a fantasy situation for his gf to read. It may be a good way to stimulate conversation and, potentially, so much more.
Good luck!
I think it may actually make sense for the guy to try and write a fantasy situation for his gf to read. It may be a good way to stimulate conversation and, potentially, so much more.
Good luck!
In my case it took me 10 years to convince my wife to have sex with a black guy. I had ever wished Susie had sex with her ex black boyfriend Axel, because Susie had told me about him and I knew he had an amazing virility.
Hubby here; in my case, BBC/QOS was wife's idea. I play role of "supportive hubby" more than cuck, though. Nothing wrong with cuckoldry but not my fetish.
Maybe ask your wife what her fantasies are? I fulfill BDSM fantasies for women whose husbands aren't into that (but with their husbands knowledge and consent).
So, maybe find out what your wife's fantasies are. And, in time, she may help you fulfill your fantasies. Works for us.
Maybe ask your wife what her fantasies are? I fulfill BDSM fantasies for women whose husbands aren't into that (but with their husbands knowledge and consent).
So, maybe find out what your wife's fantasies are. And, in time, she may help you fulfill your fantasies. Works for us.
