Im in kinda of a unique but weird situation, need advice

[UnsureButReady]

Hello, im a 34 year old male and my gf is 35, i love her to death but our sexlife in this 8 year relationship is boring as f# apart from the "pussy free roleplay" and ass teasing.
I have this cuckold fantasy for many years and she knows about it and even shown interest but the past year or so we haven't talked about it.
You see... i know she has a habit of doing things just to please me without being really invested in said things.
God forbid i let her do something like this just for me, i mean fooling around with sexy stuff is a sure way to run your relationship into the ground.
Now, the weird part is she used to be a (legal) ******* here in Amsterdam (she quit that line of work around 10 yrs ago) where we live and in the beginning of our relationship this troubled me and i was upset when i found out (now its a HUGE turn on knowing she had 100s of different dicks and she even said she dint hate the work per sé) but she also said that her desire for new sexual experiences is somewhat on a low level (i actually mean non existent) since she has probably 50 if not 100 times the experience with guys than most hotwifes have and as much as i hate to admit, i cant really blame her.
She's the most loyal gf i have ever had but still there is this undying cuckold fantasy.

Any advice is welcome.
Should i keep bringing this up or accept her needs are fullfilled?

 

[Cuckparati]

If yall have reached a good level of communication and trust. Then go for it?

 

[UnsureButReady]

If yall have reached a good level of communication and trust. Then go for it?

Yeah, well... the thing is, should i pursue this lifestyle knowing what her background is? If she was to agree with it, she'd probably do it just for me so my main concern is if im selfish or not.

 

[Cuckparati]

You said its not what she does anymore.
She knows this "kink" obviously. If she's over physical satisfaction, she might be agreeing on it just to make you happy. I guess you have to ask, what are you doing as her partner to do what she likes to make her happy.
If it's nothing, then you just might be a bit selfish....might.

 

[VegascplXXX]

You said its not what she does anymore.
She knows this "kink" obviously. If she's over physical satisfaction, she might be agreeing on it just to make you happy. I guess you have to ask, what are you doing as her partner to do what she likes to make her happy.
If it's nothing, then you just might be a bit selfish....might.

I don't think it's unusual for a wife or gf agreeing to do their partners kink whatever that maybe, just to please her husband /boyfriend. I think that is pretty much normal.

The problem comes when he realizes just how much she enjoys licking pussy or fucking big cocks. I think for a lot of couples it's the male who gets them involved. It's the female who keeps them in the lifestyle.

 

[franklyn17]

Yeah, well... the thing is, should i pursue this lifestyle knowing what her background is? If she was to agree with it, she'd probably do it just for me so my main concern is if im selfish or not.

I'm in the same boat and no if she is only doing it for you then drop it. She will have regrets and so will you.

 

[KingCuntry]

Yeah drop that *******. Especially if he/she didn't know or was COMPLETELY left out of the know of things they would have to do against their will of course to enjoy said lifestyle. Two people that care about each other getting down how they do is one thing. But other folks all up in the video and business that they only two should have. Fffuuuucckkk it... Ain't worth it. Also if they could have the same things in life by themselves. Fuck the past. Let it stay there where it belongs. Enjoy separate lives and move on. Life is too short not to enjoy the way an individual wants to

 

[Jacktone]

Hello, im a 34 year old male and my gf is 35, i love her to death but our sexlife in this 8 year relationship is boring as f# apart from the "pussy free roleplay" and ass teasing.
I have this cuckold fantasy for many years and she knows about it and even shown interest but the past year or so we haven't talked about it.
You see... i know she has a habit of doing things just to please me without being really invested in said things.
God forbid i let her do something like this just for me, i mean fooling around with sexy stuff is a sure way to run your relationship into the ground.
Now, the weird part is she used to be a (legal) ******* here in Amsterdam (she quit that line of work around 10 yrs ago) where we live and in the beginning of our relationship this troubled me and i was upset when i found out (now its a HUGE turn on knowing she had 100s of different dicks and she even said she dint hate the work per sé) but she also said that her desire for new sexual experiences is somewhat on a low level (i actually mean non existent) since she has probably 50 if not 100 times the experience with guys than most hotwifes have and as much as i hate to admit, i cant really blame her.
She's the most loyal gf i have ever had but still there is this undying cuckold fantasy.

Any advice is welcome.
Should i keep bringing this up or accept her needs are fullfilled?

Many women don't really like sex and may only do it to please their partners.
Plus with her ****** job she had thousands of men who used her as just a fuck hole, men she wasn't attracted to, greasy men, ugly men, men who may have had bad smelling bodies.
Anyway you get my point, it's enough to put anyone off sex.
But she seems like a good woman, tell her that you love her every day and she will look after you. That's what relationships are all about.
Finally you live in Amsterdam, I'm sure you could find a ****** to fuck on the side. I've been there twice and I fucked quite a few.

 

[KingCuntry]

Cuckold lifestyle. Being second to any fucking body fuck that *******. I'm a fucking grown ass black man. I will never bow down to any fucking body. Fuck a BBC. I am a fuckin BBC in reality. . One of yall broads step the fuck up and find the fuck out. I am under nobody's control. Most Yell broads I wouldn't give the time of day. I'll fuck yall broads into a fucking coma. Make you tap the fuck out. If and ONLY if I deem you good enough to fuck with me. Strapon.. That's fucking funny. If I don't think you're ******* look wise...don't waste my fucking time. And I'm older. But Like the old saying goes. If I even notice you. Being a naturally born woman. I rather fuck the ******* out you than play fucking games. Fuck I looklike explaining myself to anybody. Foh. Keep your nails and your fuckin feet done. Anything else looks fucking subpar and a fucking waste. . Fuck feminism BTW and a independent bitch. The fuck a broad like that gone do for me. Bitches plural will be my unicorns. Be brave cum find out. So the lucky WOMAN/, WOMEN can run back and tell ALL fucking friends. Foh.

 

[CucPierino]

Ciao, sono un maschio di 34 anni e la mia ragazza ne ha 35, la amo da morire ma la nostra vita sessuale in questa relazione di 8 anni è noiosa come f# a parte il "gioco di ruolo senza figa" e le prese in giro.
Ho questa fantasia da cornuto da molti anni e lei lo sa e ha persino mostrato interesse, ma l'anno scorso o giù di lì non ne abbiamo parlato.
Vedi... so che ha l'abitudine di fare le cose solo per farmi piacere senza essere davvero coinvolta nelle cose dette.
Dio non voglia che le lasci fare una cosa del genere solo per me, voglio dire che scherzare con cose sexy è un modo sicuro per mandare a fondo la tua relazione.
Ora, la parte strana è che era una prostituta (legale) qui ad Amsterdam (ha lasciato quel tipo di lavoro circa 10 anni fa) dove viviamo e all'inizio della nostra relazione questo mi ha turbato ed ero arrabbiato quando ho scoperto fuori (ora è un ENORME svolta nel sapere che aveva centinaia di cazzi diversi e ha anche detto che non odia il lavoro in sé) ma ha anche detto che il suo desiderio di nuove esperienze sessuali è un po' a un livello basso (in realtà intendo inesistente ) dal momento che ha probabilmente 50 se non 100 volte l'esperienza con i ragazzi rispetto alla maggior parte delle hotwife e per quanto odio ammetterlo, non posso davvero biasimarla.
È la fidanzata più fedele che abbia mai avuto, ma c'è ancora questa fantasia di cornuto immortale.

Qualsiasi consiglio è benvenuto.
Devo continuare a sollevare questo argomento o accettare che i suoi bisogni siano soddisfatti?

Molti anni fa, a una cena con un centinaio di persone, ho conosciuto una ragazza che poi ho scoperto essere una prostituta. È venuta a casa mia un paio di volte e sembrava che ci saremmo fidanzati, ma da un lato ero socialmente perplesso per l'imbarazzo di essere in coppia con una prostituta (in Italia questo crea anche problemi legali), dall'altro Scoprii con amarezza che sessualmente era quanto di più conservatore potessi immaginare e, senza che io la portassi sull'argomento, mi parlò di cuckoldissmo, condannando senza appello il cornuto maschio. Si scopre che "prostituta" e "sessualmente disinibito" non sono affatto sinonimi.

 

[Anthony0542]

I think for a lot of couples it's the male who gets them involved. It's the female who keeps them in the lifestyle.

Well said - totally agreed

 

[JemmaNye&Herbi]

Cuckold lifestyle. Being second to any fucking body fuck that *******. I'm a fucking grown ass black man. I will never bow down to any fucking body. Fuck a BBC. I am a fuckin BBC in reality. . One of yall broads step the fuck up and find the fuck out. I am under nobody's control. Most Yell broads I wouldn't give the time of day. I'll fuck yall broads into a fucking coma. Make you tap the fuck out. If and ONLY if I deem you good enough to fuck with me. Strapon.. That's fucking funny. If I don't think you're ******* look wise...don't waste my fucking time. And I'm older. But Like the old saying goes. If I even notice you. Being a naturally born woman. I rather fuck the ******* out you than play fucking games. Fuck I looklike explaining myself to anybody. Foh. Keep your nails and your fuckin feet done. Anything else looks fucking subpar and a fucking waste. . Fuck feminism BTW and a independent bitch. The fuck a broad like that gone do for me. Bitches plural will be my unicorns. Be brave cum find out. So the lucky WOMAN/, WOMEN can run back and tell ALL fucking friends. Foh.