Also because most people just don’t have sex outside their marriage.I agree, I do believe it’s still a taboo amongst white married people because of social norms. And that unfortunate because black men are lovers and givers especially when making a baby or the intention of making one. Black men should always be treated with respect and dignity and I know as a white married mom that I love my husband at the end of the day and he has given me a beautiful gift, the gift of being able to be myself sexually and the gift is being with black men!