We are not into the cuckhold thing. I always took an active role in whatever i wanted to do. Be part of the threesome, watch, photograph or all three. We would, and have been pissed off at guys with a superior attitude. We feel that sharing with another is a privilege for them, and any disrespect was treated accordingly.
Some men apparently like being humiliated, the so called "cuckholds". Not all of us that "share" feel that way, we just like to share and watch our spouse get pleasured.
For me , Man, women, black, white, brown, Space aliens, mythical creatures, four legged creatures. You name it whatever could get get her off would have turned me on!! We insisted on respect for each of us, and would never allow the other to be humiliated.