my gf is still in the partying faze she is very sexual all the time have intercepted message between her and coworker talking about going to clubs her coworker is married but likes to hook up with black men they were out partying appears my gf is messing around with some black guy now. she says its just fun would never be with him long term and wants to marry me. I pretend not to know as much as i do. But am concerned dont want to get hurt but also concerned for her. Would it be appropriate to negotiate boundaries
How to set realistic boundaries my gf and i have great relationship.
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Its time for you set those damn boundaries if your feeling are hurt, unless you find yourself another woman.
Dnt worry about her feelings cause clearly she only cares for herself if she is getting dick from another man
Sit down and talk. This is the time you want to make sure you two are on the same page before you get married and it's not so easy to go different ways.
there is another dynamic was getting close with a married female employee. my girl found recipt i printed for plane ticket a while back with her name on it to Las Vegasshe never confronted me about it but left it lay on my dresser to let me know she knows without the awkwardness of confronting me. i told her I was in Chicago during that time period so i cant even spin it. If i come at her too hard about this she is going to throw that at me and really make things uncomfortable.
