How to approach a bbc in public

Looking for suggestions on how to approach a random bbc in public about interracial sexual interest. Interested in hearing from both men and women...TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE😉
I did exactly that this last weekend. My husband and I seek out live music for our own enjoyment plus the possibility of meeting a black man. We had dinner and then split up. I took a seat at the bar next to a nice black man and we had a wonderful conversation. I started with "hey, how was your dinner?" In time, he asked if I was married. I said yes, however, we are consensually non-monogamous. My husband is a cuck, and I'm seeking a quality black man for a boyfriend". He met us the following night at another venue. It's easy Be confident, open, honest, friendly and SMILE
 
Looking for suggestions on how to approach a random bbc in public about interracial sexual interest. Interested in hearing from both men and women...TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE😉
First of all ladies, u must get off this thing about the guy has to approach u first. A lot of guys will just look at u and keep going because they feel u r going to to say no. U must understand their r a lot of racist white women out their. If u r really interested n him and want to fuck him no matter what, don’t ask him if he has a girlfriend or married, that will throw him off. If that makes a difference to u, then ask. Ok, now let’s be real.If u r a snow bunny, for the most part we will not hit on u because we know it’s not going to happen. U really have to make the first move. For the very pretty or hot, u have got to do the same. If u r quite with a nice body to, u have to do the same. First thing when we see u, do u have a hot body. Sometimes the face is not a problem because the body makes up for the face. If u want to stop a guy, start with u r trying to get directions. After going through that bs, tell him u seem like a guy I could have some fun with. Trust me, he will take it from their. Trust me, he will only take your smile as being a nice person. I stress stop waiting for him to hit on u first. If he turn u down is because he is scared that his girlfriend or wife will catch him. Very few black guys turn down a white girl, tell your friends. By the way who would want me to fuck u, no matter the distance?
 
For me I can be really clueless at times not from lack of interest but due to mistaking a woman's intentions.
Sometimes it seems just like an innocent conversation in passing. I too can feel I am a bit forward.
I am well aware that there are women who are in the life out there. I would say that is definitely ok to
ask a man for his number and to give him yours. Leaving the real conversation to take place later on that
day or the next. Asking him what is the best time to call. Giving him a chance to call first and calling him
if he doesn't, then taking it from there. Seems simple enough and it would definitely work with me.
 
For me I can be really clueless at times not from lack of interest but due to mistaking a woman's intentions.
Sometimes it seems just like an innocent conversation in passing. I too can feel I am a bit forward.
I am well aware that there are women who are in the life out there. I would say that is definitely ok to
ask a man for his number and to give him yours. Leaving the real conversation to take place later on that
day or the next. Asking him what is the best time to call. Giving him a chance to call first and calling him
if he doesn't, then taking it from there. Seems simple enough and it would definitely work with me.
Same here, I am not the best at picking up hints or flirting I much rather a woman be honest and approach me.
 
My beautiful young black buddy often gets approached by women and straight-looking but obviously bisexual men of all ages in the street and public venues even when he's accompanied by his wife (my ex) and me.

Almost always the approach takes the form of an admiring smile and a long-held look at his chest and shoulders proceeding downwards to his crotch and/or his obviously very well-sexercised muscular typically high-placed prominent Afro-American bum.

The accompanying body lamguage of women and bi males who signal him by a smile and such looks is, sometimes instinctively but usually purposely, pretty blatantly "C'm-on" and very sexual.

Such smilers and ogglers sometimes wave to him as if they know him (which his wife and I trust they don't) then try to engage him in casual but plainly solicitous conversation at closer quarters.

Of course that makes his wife and I a tad jealous even though we're reasonably sure he doesn't know the oggler and we can see my buddy won't be taking up his/her offer to go with them.

Only rarely is an oggler horny and rude enough to surreptitiously pass him a piece of paper with their phone number on it. When that happens he invariably passes it straightaway to me---as if I'm his appointments secretary---and I flash him my sexiest gay smile.

It's hilarious, because he's so obviously 100% bulletproof vis-a-vis strangers---but visibly not buddyproof, bless his beautiful bum.
 
Looking for suggestions on how to approach a random bbc in public about interracial sexual interest. Interested in hearing from both men and women...TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE😉

Looking for suggestions on how to approach a random bbc in public about interracial sexual interest. Interested in hearing from both men and women...TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE😉
It depends on the public environment you are in at the time....there is no one way fits all answer.
 
First of all ladies, u must get off this thing about the guy has to approach u first. A lot of guys will just look at u and keep going because they feel u r going to to say no. U must understand their r a lot of racist white women out their. If u r really interested n him and want to fuck him no matter what, don’t ask him if he has a girlfriend or married, that will throw him off. If that makes a difference to u, then ask. Ok, now let’s be real.If u r a snow bunny, for the most part we will not hit on u because we know it’s not going to happen. U really have to make the first move. For the very pretty or hot, u have got to do the same. If u r quite with a nice body to, u have to do the same. First thing when we see u, do u have a hot body. Sometimes the face is not a problem because the body makes up for the face. If u want to stop a guy, start with u r trying to get directions. After going through that bs, tell him u seem like a guy I could have some fun with. Trust me, he will take it from their. Trust me, he will only take your smile as being a nice person. I stress stop waiting for him to hit on u first. If he turn u down is because he is scared that his girlfriend or wife will catch him. Very few black guys turn down a white girl, tell your friends. By the way who would want me to fuck u, no matter the distance?
The #MeToo and racism thing stops a lot of black men from approaching white women. It's too easy to get locked up or maybe killed by a cop involving white women.

I suggest white women to approach first to take the edge off the interaction with black men. Just give him a nice compliment and introduce yourself. You're right about telling a black man that they think he's a lot of fun. Unless that black man is scared shitless or game goofy, he will take things to the next level.

For some odd reason white bbws don't give AF when it comes to approaching black men, lol. I have love for the bbws, but not my preference in women.
 
The #MeToo and racism thing stops a lot of black men from approaching white women. It's too easy to get locked up or maybe killed by a cop involving white women.

I suggest white women to approach first to take the edge off the interaction with black men. Just give him a nice compliment and introduce yourself. You're right about telling a black man that they think he's a lot of fun. Unless that black man is scared shitless or game goofy, he will take things to the next level.

For some odd reason white bbws don't give AF when it comes to approaching black men, lol. I have love for the bbws, but not my preference in women.
He hit it on the head. Especially down south.
 
How should a black man approach a attractive woman he sees? I’m curious to know how to do this if the roles are reversed. I would love to hear from all the women on this site!
 
The #MeToo and racism thing stops a lot of black men from approaching white women. It's too easy to get locked up or maybe killed by a cop involving white women.

I suggest white women to approach first to take the edge off the interaction with black men. Just give him a nice compliment and introduce yourself. You're right about telling a black man that they think he's a lot of fun. Unless that black man is scared shitless or game goofy, he will take things to the next level.

For some odd reason white bbws don't give AF when it comes to approaching black men, lol. I have love for the bbws, but not my preference in women.
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Looking for suggestions on how to approach a random bbc in public about interracial sexual interest. Interested in hearing from both men and women...TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE😉
I'm single-minded enough to think anytime any woman engages me in an unsolicited conversation she wants to fuck me (at least initially) Lol. In all seriousness...It's hard for me to believe that a woman doesn't know how to tell any man that she's interested in him for more than the time of day.
 
Yes I need a seminar on this! You cant just go up to a stranger and proposition them lol. Onevtime my husband went up to a guy I saw that I liked and he got all mad and yelled at my husband “YOU THINK JUST BECAUSE IM BLACK I WANNA FUCK YOUR WIFE?!!” We were like ehhh not doing that again.
Sometimes it will be like that but not all the time.
 
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