How often should your cuck be allowed to cum

I agree, the blackmail pics are a must have. I got these after about the third week cucking him. He once tried to stop the cuck/Hotwife relationship and told me No more sleeping with black men. All because he didn’t get his way one night. I sent pics of a black cock in his mouth to his email. I told him if he doesn’t support me and my bulls the next pics go on Facebook and to his co-workers. He was terrified and I have not had an issue since.
nothing says love like blackmail...Only problem is if he was a real man, he would challenge you, knowing full well that Idaho has "revenge porn" laws.
 
Eeww! Really? Do all men go that way? He's good at doing it when clean, but he can't even taste his own sperm.

it's a lot easier to convince us to eat the bulls sperm because we will still be sexually frustrated. when we cum ourselves, we tend to loose some of our submissiveness. however, you should probably train him as my wife did and i must eat my own mess all the time. eventually he will crave it because he will associate eating it with his own pleasure of release.
 
I guess our situation is a bit different......I want my husband cumming as often as possible so he is not pestering me for sex (intercourse). I usually jerk him off twice a week for sure, and if I think his balls look too full, or he is being too amorous and trying to initiate intercourse, I send him to the bathroom to jerk off or occasionally make him do it right in front of me so I KNOW he cums. If he goes to the bathroom, he has to show me the used condom. The reason is that I prefer sex (intercourse) to be with my Boss/Lover as we are birth control free, hoping for a pregnancy. Hubby and I are sexual but rarely have intercourse. J
 
Question for everyone in regards to your caged cucks. How often do you allow them out to cum? Our agreement now is that he’s allowed out to jack off only after my bull and I fuck and while he’s cleaning me out. The problem is now that my bull and I fuck 4-5 times a week, the cuck is always cumming. He used to cum in under a minute and now it’s more like 3-4 minutes. I also noticed he’s not as motivated to see me with my bull. He’s not as active with helping with the little things like holding my hair back, licking my ass, and whatever we tell him to do like he was before. My bull is annoyed. I’m thinking about moving it to once a week but want to hear from everyone out there. How often should the cuck be allowed to drain his balls? Even after a week there is very little cum so I don’t think they get too full. Thoughts?
As a cuckold, I am allowed to cum around once a month. But my wife loves to play with me expecting to get some release one day, and then telling me that I'll have to wait one more week. Chastity works magic in me. I do anything she asks me.
 
We have not worked up to the cage yet but my new bull has introduced some cuckold rules. The first is my husband is only allowed to cum when he is licking Jame's cum out of my pussy. James feels it important for my husband to closely associate his own satisfaction with mine and Jame's cum. Of course my husband is probably masturbating on the sly too but James says there are more rules to come but training needs to built up in steps to become fully ingrained.
 
This is a real new world for us. My husband is pussy free and we started with the cage in order he was able to not orgasm during the dates with my bull and than clean me up.
From now he will wear the cage all the week end, it is easier do it out of work and learning how to be more comfortable with it.
He jerks off himself a lot, the chastity cage seems to be the only solution to limitiate this compulsive habit.
Never setted up so far any rule about how many time he can orgasm, we have to discuss about it, but without the cage I believe is very tough for him respect it
That is fucking hot!
 
Put him on a point syste
Question for everyone in regards to your caged cucks. How often do you allow them out to cum? Our agreement now is that he’s allowed out to jack off only after my bull and I fuck and while he’s cleaning me out. The problem is now that my bull and I fuck 4-5 times a week, the cuck is always cumming. He used to cum in under a minute and now it’s more like 3-4 minutes. I also noticed he’s not as motivated to see me with my bull. He’s not as active with helping with the little things like holding my hair back, licking my ass, and whatever we tell him to do like he was before. My bull is annoyed. I’m thinking about moving it to once a week but want to hear from everyone out there. How often should the cuck be allowed to drain his balls? Even after a week there is very little cum so I don’t think they get too full. Thoughts?
Put him on a point system
 
Personally, I think you are too generous in how often he can cum. Long periods of chastity and orgasm denial are powerful tools to get the cuck to do whatever you want. My husband started cleaning me after 2 days in chastity and sucked his first dick after a week in chastity. Through chastity and orgasm denial I have conditioned my husband to only orgasm anally. A side effect of the extended chastity and his conditioning is that he became totally impotent, so when he does wear his cage these days it is purely for decoration. You can achieve anything you want through chastity, you just have to be clear in what your end goals are. His orgasm should be the last thing to be considered and should only be granted as a reward rather than something that he expects just because you had sex with your lover.
very well said
 
I've been reading what my wife wrote here, worried about me masturbating to IR porn. It's true I picture her in all those scenes, I cannot avoid it. That is IR porn by design in my opinion. I don't do it very actively, but it's true I cum into my pants even when we both are watching. Hey, women have it easier. Long story short, to avoid this I will buy a chastity cage for when she has her first black man. I don't think I will suffer any side effects, as I'm not watching porn alone anymore and will only wear it for our fun and those bbc encounters.
 
I'd agree with this. I can ejaculate without anything that even resembles and erection, all I have to do is continuously roll the soft head of my penis between my finger and thumb for a minute or so and i'll cum. If i'm watching alpha bulls, slutty wives or sub cucks/ sissies I can cum in less than a minute. Plus, your brain does sort of rewire itself, and once you start to compulsively masturbate to cuckolding porn, large cocks etc. and your orgasms become stronger, your brain just finds the shortest path from A to B.

So regular porn/sex becomes that brand of budget beer your not that fond of, but you'll ******* it if your thirsty enough, but cuckolding, well hung aggressive bulls with copious amounts of semen, slut wives and cocksucking sissies, becomes your favourite brand of beer in an ice cold glass, that you always crave.

This has absolutely been my experience over the last year or so-there's stuff that turns me on now I wouldn't have dreamed of looking at before. Anyone ever reverse this?
 
As anyone who actually live in this lifestyle and not only fantasize about it on the internet knows, having a long break in orgasms for a male is going to basically have his sexdrive plummet. Orgasm denial have been a fetish forever and everyone in that fetish also knows that its very hard to keep male sexdrive up without having the male ejaculate at least every three days. A good cuck should always be horny so he constantly thinks about BBC and are dedicated the lifestyle. He wont be that if his sexdrive plummets. A good tip to cucks are therefore to have orgasm at least every three days and stay horny and dedicated. If you cant stop jerking off buy a cock cage. :p
 
Personally, I think you are too generous in how often he can cum. Long periods of chastity and orgasm denial are powerful tools to get the cuck to do whatever you want. My husband started cleaning me after 2 days in chastity and sucked his first dick after a week in chastity. Through chastity and orgasm denial I have conditioned my husband to only orgasm anally. A side effect of the extended chastity and his conditioning is that he became totally impotent, so when he does wear his cage these days it is purely for decoration. You can achieve anything you want through chastity, you just have to be clear in what your end goals are. His orgasm should be the last thing to be considered and should only be granted as a reward rather than something that he expects just because you had sex with your lover.

I'd say Kira that you fully understood the power of chastity and denial. It is with the help of a cock cage that my wife finally convinced me to taste cum and suck and utimately let a black bull fuck me. Each period in chastity only made me more submissive and less of a man.

I didn't know even impotence could be achieved, was it intentional?
 
As anyone who actually live in this lifestyle and not only fantasize about it on the internet knows, having a long break in orgasms for a male is going to basically have his sexdrive plummet. Orgasm denial have been a fetish forever and everyone in that fetish also knows that its very hard to keep male sexdrive up without having the male ejaculate at least every three days. A good cuck should always be horny so he constantly thinks about BBC and are dedicated the lifestyle. He wont be that if his sexdrive plummets. A good tip to cucks are therefore to have orgasm at least every three days and stay horny and dedicated. If you cant stop jerking off buy a cock cage. :p
I/ we totally agree with that. As a 50yo cuck I masturbate every single day/night, sometimes twice. But always in my wifes presence, never without her in the room and either overseeing or while she's asleep. But we have a system where she knows of every single ejaculation. It not only keeps me constantly horny, but she keeps me constantly needing pussy, because its that that she denies me.

So every day she'll hint that tonight I may laid, but by bedtime, its usually 'not tonight, perhaps tomorrow' and so she'll happily let me cum at that moment, and then we start again tomorrow. The anticipation everyday of maybe getting a fuck that night, keeps me rock hard and leaking pre-cum all day. The more I cum, the more I produce, and my balls constantly ache for release... and that how she likes it, rather than my sex drive decline. She refers to it as 'pussy whipped' that i'll do anything for a chance of getting my cock in her and getting to cum.
 
We have not worked up to the cage yet but my new bull has introduced some cuckold rules. The first is my husband is only allowed to cum when he is licking Jame's cum out of my pussy. James feels it important for my husband to closely associate his own satisfaction with mine and Jame's cum. Of course my husband is probably masturbating on the sly too but James says there are more rules to come but training needs to built up in steps to become fully ingrained.
I agree on your bull’s approach to set up some rules but step by step
 
My wife and I are still in the fantasy stage-she hasn't cucked me yet. She only controls my orgasms when we're actually having sex. Her rule is simple-I can only come if her black dildo is inside one of us. I usually come with "him" in my mouth while I'm fucking her, but sometimes I come with her on top of me in a 69 while I pump her black dildo in and out of her pussy while I suck on her clit.
 
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