How often should your cuck be allowed to cum

Kyra said:
Personally, I think you are too generous in how often he can cum. Long periods of chastity and orgasm denial are powerful tools to get the cuck to do whatever you want. My husband started cleaning me after 2 days in chastity and sucked his first dick after a week in chastity. Through chastity and orgasm denial I have conditioned my husband to only orgasm anally. A side effect of the extended chastity and his conditioning is that he became totally impotent, so when he does wear his cage these days it is purely for decoration. You can achieve anything you want through chastity, you just have to be clear in what your end goals are. His orgasm should be the last thing to be considered and should only be granted as a reward rather than something that he expects just because you had sex with your lover.
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ohhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!! gasp
 
Idahoqueen said:
I have had him clean the bulls cock and balls, first with a warm rag but eventually his mouth. I’ve thought about making him suck one to completion though.

We have recently started anal and he had his first orgasm a week ago through his cage! I couldn’t believe it! I was so proud of myself! I used a strapless vibrating two sided dildo. It’s curved to go inside of me and then the longer side goes in him.
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
 
whiteshadoe said:
I'm curious what others have experienced with wet dreams. If I go maybe 2-3 weeks without release I will assuredly have one. Do other not experience this as well?
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I generally have 2-3 wet dreams a year, but my wife is certain i'm just masturbating in my sleep and unaware of it. I've had them now and again all my life, but not my wife or my ex's have ever been able to actually see it happen, so as I said not too sure if i'm jerking off in my sleep or not?
 
Idahoqueen said:
I agree, the blackmail pics are a must have. I got these after about the third week cucking him. He once tried to stop the cuck/Hotwife relationship and told me No more sleeping with black men. All because he didn’t get his way one night. I sent pics of a black cock in his mouth to his email. I told him if he doesn’t support me and my bulls the next pics go on Facebook and to his co-workers. He was terrified and I have not had an issue since.
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wow
 
This is a real new world for us. My husband is pussy free and we started with the cage in order he was able to not orgasm during the dates with my bull and than clean me up.
From now he will wear the cage all the week end, it is easier do it out of work and learning how to be more comfortable with it.
He jerks off himself a lot, the chastity cage seems to be the only solution to limitiate this compulsive habit.
Never setted up so far any rule about how many time he can orgasm, we have to discuss about it, but without the cage I believe is very tough for him respect it
 
Cutewife said:
This is a real new world for us. My husband is pussy free and we started with the cage in order he was able to not orgasm during the dates with my bull and than clean me up.
From now he will wear the cage all the week end, it is easier do it out of work and learning how to be more comfortable with it.
He jerks off himself a lot, the chastity cage seems to be the only solution to limitiate this compulsive habit.
Never setted up so far any rule about how many time he can orgasm, we have to discuss about it, but without the cage I believe is very tough for him respect it
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:lips::lips::lips::lips::lips::lips::lips::lips::lips::exciting::exciting:
 
Cutewife said:
This is a real new world for us. My husband is pussy free and we started with the cage in order he was able to not orgasm during the dates with my bull and than clean me up.
From now he will wear the cage all the week end, it is easier do it out of work and learning how to be more comfortable with it.
He jerks off himself a lot, the chastity cage seems to be the only solution to limitiate this compulsive habit.
Never setted up so far any rule about how many time he can orgasm, we have to discuss about it, but without the cage I believe is very tough for him respect it
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he needs training
 
, No offence intended. I look at things through a complete different view. I have always understood cuckolding as simply a husband and wife, working together allowing her to have sex with other men. As I see it, very clearly by the way. Each case I read here has gone beyond just the wife having sex with other men, into many other forms of alternant lifestyles. Many times I see what this couple or that couple is doing and I know it is something else entirely and is.in the realm of practices from other fetishes. I am not judging a soul on here, if each couple is satisfied with adding more into cuckolding it certainly is their choice. But we cannot say to someone else this is cuckolding and do it this way. Please bare with me as I put myself in the cuckolding role wanted for me. All of these or other fetish driven Dominance and submission. Alpha and beta, Bull worship and his input into a couples sex life, denial and chastity , cream pie eating and male sex with a bull, sissification and Bi-sexuality, I would say that a huge majority of the threads on this site qualify as over and above cuckolding, for me that is fine but for many of you and not for me. Being a cuckold husband does not allow others to change who he is and has nothing to do with lowering his standard as a man, a husband, and a sexual partner with the woman he married.
 
As a cuck, and occasional sissy who has always had a need to masturbate at an excessive level, a word of warning to cuckoldresses/ hot wives who lock up their cuck/ sissy and then head out to work, dates etc. believing they can't cum with the cage on, guess again. In my younger days when my ex-wife would lock me up, knowing if she didn't i'd spend the day at home looking at porn and edging/wanking for hours on end.

The reality was, i'd just need to put a pair of stocking and heels on, get out my favourite anal vibrator and cum as much as I chose. Sometimes she'd have me jerk off when she got home to see the size of my load to judge if she'd thought I had cum that day without her knowing.

The only way we managed a method to stop me from wanking all day, everyday was regular prostate milkings. If she did it twice a week, no matter how much porn, outfits, toys etc. I tried, 30 mins later i'd just give up. I couldn't do anything to get an erection, and the fact I can even ejaculate totally flaccid if I want, i'd be lucky to get a single drop of cum out even 30 minutes later and would just give up.

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Kyra said:
Personally, I think you are too generous in how often he can cum. Long periods of chastity and orgasm denial are powerful tools to get the cuck to do whatever you want. My husband started cleaning me after 2 days in chastity and sucked his first dick after a week in chastity. Through chastity and orgasm denial I have conditioned my husband to only orgasm anally. A side effect of the extended chastity and his conditioning is that he became totally impotent, so when he does wear his cage these days it is purely for decoration. You can achieve anything you want through chastity, you just have to be clear in what your end goals are. His orgasm should be the last thing to be considered and should only be granted as a reward rather than something that he expects just because you had sex with your lover.
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We are still far from a cuckold / IR relation. The reason I'm interested in this thread is that my husband does ejaculate easily anytime, just by watching IR porn or talking about me having intercourse with black men. He's well endowed (7in) and I enjoy sex with him very much. But since we started considering 'going black', he started watching more IR porn and visiting the forum on his own. I have noticed his performance at work diminished - we work together at the same place, just diff offices - and he gets easily tired when we go to the gym. Our IR fantasy / objective is me having sex with a black man and he watching and penetrating me after the black man finished. But I don't think he will be able to withhold as he even ejaculates without touching himself when we both watch porn. And I don't like him getting off without me.
These chastity cages would be a step to far perhaps, but sound like an ideal solution to his problems. But I don't want him to suffer any side effects. Regardless whether he might be developing an attraction to black male genitals, I want him to stay as he is, potent and assertive, but without independent ejaculations of any kind. Are there any alternatives to the the chastity cage that won't harm the genitals long term?
 
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