For me being owned always sounded like giving a bull permission to rule our life as a couple. There were reasons why we stopped seeing one other another guy. One reason was once that her ex bull started to take the lead and doing stuff we never agreed upon. My wife seemed fine with that and never stopped him, even when he throat fucked her and cum over her face and hair. We have a great relationship as a couple and we are sure about our feelings. But I still believe she enjoyed that potential power play of her bull. The other reason is that she was pregnant and we wanted to avoid uncomfortable situations. There are chances that the baby could be his. The last time he fucked her she saw him to lift and kissed him goodbye.
Some days ago, we got confirmation that the baby is a boy. We began thinking of names and she brought up the question whether we should contact him and tell him. She said it because of culture and ethnic background, etc. It also sounded like she wanted also a more virile role model for the kid. But without sidelining me...
Some people, bulls too, are warning me about it, and others find it rather fair to agree to giving that guy some place in our kid's future. Given the nature of our sex life, that would certainly mean allowing him to take ownership over her to a good degree.