Idk if it's "lucky". My wife's first black bull resulted in cutting contact with all the white bulls, and she went exclusive with him for like a year, then opened up to more black men. Going black was entirely herI have only been in this about a year and had my first experience about 8 months ago with a gentleman I have worked with for almost two years. He is my regular bull and has been fucking me at least every couple of weeks and sometimes weekly since we started. I have fucked a couple of his friends a few times but he is my regular. I guess I got lucky the first time.
Just curious to hear others thoughts and feelings. I have had 2 black lovers. My first, who I still see every 2 weeks since 2017, and 1 that I seen 3 times in 2018. I prefer 1 lover vs many. We have a deeper connection and the sex is better every time.
My husband is always present. Our sex life is great, he enjoys watching me getting pleasure from my very well endowed dominant lover. We 3 are friends and have a great time, every time. Respectful of our marriage and of my husband. They message each other all the time.
Who else has one long term lover vs multiple short term lovers?
Are you afraid of feelings getting in the way?
oh wow! we are soo jealous! its such a comitment that your first one still is you lover/ bull and will always be!My longest term bull I lost my virginity to in 8th grade. I still see him every week and I'm 45. Him and my husband are great friends.
Yes I agree. I love my hubby. He introduced this lifestyle to me 8yrs ago. He had blackened all his woman before. Was completely blown away. I will not share my hubby. Wonderful husband to my ******* and I. Handsome hispainic successful man. Was blown away on his cock size ans stamina. Ugh before was married to miliarty and white/Italian with 3 ******* later. He Introduced me to his best friend and when I had my first 3some at the age of 45 I was blown away. Husband and I married he confessed that he wants a bbc slut wife. 8 yrs later and 26 different bbc. Many which I have seen thru out. Yet for last 8 yrs 3 are religiously per month. Alot of sex and blown away of the arousal. Had to stop this last year due to breast cancer. So now on road to recovery bbc lovers hubby and family very supportive. Love my sex life and married lifeI will add that I love both my husband and my lover. The love my husband and I share is unbreakable. We've been together for 26 years with 2 grown children. The love I have for my lover is deep and powerful, yet not nearly as much as with my husband. After all, he enjoys watching me let loose unfiltered, fucking MY BBC any which way I want. No judgments. He introduced me to this wonderful BBC Hotwife lifestyle.
I would be sad if it ended but life would go on. I would be devastated if my marriage ended. That's the difference. It's not for everyone. You have to have a strong marriage built on trust and love. Most of all, do what's right for you.
That looks big ?? Your husband ?
It is big lol almost 10" and really thick. No, that's my lover. My husband took the picThat looks big ?? Your husband ?
Very lucky woman, I was gonna guess 8 inches… is he mixed or just light skin ??It is big lol almost 10" and really thick. No, that's my lover. My husband took the pic
Do you feel your husband after that big thing ?Sat night 8-19-23
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Yes, but we usually wait a few days. Good as new.Do you feel your husband after that big thing ?
Smoking hot!My longest term bull I lost my virginity to in 8th grade. I still see him every week and I'm 45. Him and my husband are great friends.
You must be very goodI've had a number of long term friendships and enjoyed the uniqueness of them all. Some are just long, slow seductive evenings with the husband present, but it's not at all uncommon that once we are all comfortable and the couple knows me as a man who respects them and they respect in return, the husband let's her visit me alone on occasion. It's not about love, it's about fulfilling fantasies. She loves her life, her children and her husband, and isn't going to toss that away for an occasional evening of bliss. Nor am I interested in dividing their relationship. Works so well that some are busting at the seams and just have to tell their very best friend...In many cases it's not long before her friend gets involved, too. It's a wonderful, classy, no surprises evening/weekend that can be shared by all!
lucky for you bothIdk if it's "lucky". My wife's first black bull resulted in cutting contact with all the white bulls, and she went exclusive with him for like a year, then opened up to more black men. Going black was entirely her
Much of it is simply in the way we carry ourselves. Confident, but not arrogant. Educated and able to carry a conversation while also being a good listener. Respectful of the woman or couple and respectful of myself. Clean, discreet and I don't jump at everything that moves. Women want to tell others about their experiences and once they do there's almost always one who will discreetly hand out her number.You must be very good
You seem to know what you're doing and you're also very good at it , it seems a good lover is everything you just described and what white women look for in a black man I believe don't youMuch of it is simply in the way we carry ourselves. Confident, but not arrogant. Educated and able to carry a conversation while also being a good listener. Respectful of the woman or couple and respectful of myself. Clean, discreet and I don't jump at everything that moves. Women want to tell others about their experiences and once they do there's almost always one who will discreetly hand out her number.
That’s awesome, how long has he been having your wife to beg for his cock?Yes , we got one BBC Bull end up he come to our house almost everynight and she beg him to fuck her Because she love his big cock so much!