How long have you lived with your fantasy without sharing with your partner??

[thedrkknight]

How many years has it been since you started having these fantasies?

For me it's been probably 7 years since I discovered the hotwifing lifestyle and have had fantasies of sharing my wife with other men without telling her. I know many of you will think, "why have you not told her?!?!" but I simply have that fear of her saying no and that fantasy being shut down forever. I think it's best to just keep it a fantasy and keep that "what if" mentality rather than telling her.

So, what is your kink and how long have you kept it a secret from your partner??

 

[Texas Cuck]

I didn't tell my wife for 30 years. Mainly because I was afraid how she'd react and it would damage our relationship. Finally I told her I had a dream that I walked in on her with another man and she told me to sit down and watch. That opened the door somewhat. She knows it's a fantasy of mine but she still doesn't know I want her to do it for real.

 

[Stephnmarc]

We were in bed talking about our bucket lists and I had mentioned going places, doing adventurous things etc. Then she just spit out that one of her’s was to fuck a huge black guy. “I want to before I’m too old and ugly.” I almost chocked on my ice cream at that point and felt a total sense of jealousy, anger, and an overwhelming excitement, all at the same time. It shocked me that my sexy, blonde, good girl admitted this to me. I quickly questioned her about her funny “joke” she had just told me and laughed a little while starring at her blank face. She explained her curiosity about black men and she thought it would be an exhilarating experience. She had shared her taste in porn with me already after a year or so of us seeing each other and was worried I would have been mad at her, but our trust for each other and our constant communication had eased her concerns enough to tell me. We talked for hours about her fantasy and screwed each other’s brains out during and after our talk. We have yet to make this happen and aren’t rushing things, but stil periodically talk about it and are still excited.

 

[thedrkknight]

We were in bed talking about our bucket lists and I had mentioned going places, doing adventurous things etc. Then she just spit out that one of her’s was to fuck a huge black guy. “I want to before I’m too old and ugly.” I almost chocked on my ice cream at that point and felt a total sense of jealousy, anger, and an overwhelming excitement, all at the same time. It shocked me that my sexy, blonde, good girl admitted this to me. I quickly questioned her about her funny “joke” she had just told me and laughed a little while starring at her blank face. She explained her curiosity about black men and she thought it would be an exhilarating experience. She had shared her taste in porn with me already after a year or so of us seeing each other and was worried I would have been mad at her, but our trust for each other and our constant communication had eased her concerns enough to tell me. We talked for hours about her fantasy and screwed each other’s brains out during and after our talk. We have yet to make this happen and aren’t rushing things, but stil periodically talk about it and are still excited.

Sounds like you are in the position a lot of us wannabe's wish to be. Once your girl is on board or if it's her idea, itll happen. From what ive heard if only the man is interested in the lifestyle it probably wont happen or will end badly.

 

[openwaters2244]

I’m in my 50’s now, however, I started having fantasies of my high school sweetheart, Darla, being with bbc some years ago. How I regret not telling her now. To you younger guys with white girlfriends don’t make the same mistake.

 

[thedrkknight]

I’m in my 50’s now, however, I started having fantasies of my high school sweetheart, Darla, being with bbc some years ago. How I regret not telling her now. To you younger guys with white girlfriends don’t make the same mistake.

It's almost too difficult to bring up if you wait too long. Unfortunately I married my girlfriend I too met in high school so at the time we started dating these kinks werent on my mind.

 

[pumpnspray]

Following , hope to hear from you

 

[SAVcpl4BBC]

When my wife and I got back together,not even a week later I told her I wanted to share her. And she let me,and it was amazing.