It’s time to sit him down explain this is the way it’s has to be he must except and move on and enjoy your desires. He love you enough he will except.
How do I convince my husband to accept my lifestyle?
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Have you published the instructions yet?
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It’s actually very simple. It’s all about hijacking his biggest turn on and slowly associating it in his mind with what you want to do.Have you published the instructions yet?
For example, if he has a big high heel fetish, put some one and start pleasuring him. As he’s looking at your heels, start talking about your fantasies. His mind won’t be able to distinguish between what he’s seeing and what he’s hearing in terms of what’s causing his arousal and pleasure. Make him cum and his brain subconsciously logs that he orgasmed listening to your fantasies.
Do it again, and again, perhaps introducing more detail into your fantasies. Keep doing it. Then one day do it without the heels, then keep doing it without the heels. Soon enough, he’s turned on my your fantasy. His brain is trained to send a response to his body to the stimuli.
damn! That's just some next-level of psychology. Has this method been tried?
Simply perfect, just reading it. I came.Lol
And tested
What's the sneakiest method you have ever employed?And tested
It's like Pavlov's dogs
Seriously though, I get what you are saying. He doesn't have to fantasize though- we've been down the BBC/hotwife path. He's just fallen wayyyyyy behind.
Not sure anything is sneaky, but the most powerful one was when I gave him a shame fetish. Spent a long time pleasuring him whilst telling him things that made him ashamed… his small cock, his inferiority to black men, his powerlessness to me. Made him cum talking about how he is not man enough to satisfy a real woman. Then made him cum reminding him that he came thinking about that and so he must like it.
If he tried directing the subject to his turn ons, I’d be rougher with his cock. Once we were talking about what I wanted him to cum to, the pleasure returned. No shame, no pleasure.
He now not only gets turned on by me humiliating him, but he then feels ashamed of getting turned on by it, which only turns him on more. It’s a wonderful but vicious trap
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You need to catch him up. You have ALL the power because you have what he wants, but it’s other men who have what you want. He’ll therefore accept any stimuli you want to subject him to without you having to compromise to get anything back from himIt's like Pavlov's dogs
So, more you insult and humiliate him, the harder he gets? lols damn!!Not sure anything is sneaky, but the most powerful one was when I gave him a shame fetish. Spent a long time pleasuring him whilst telling him things that made him ashamed… his small cock, his inferiority to black men, his powerlessness to me. Made him cum talking about how he is not man enough to satisfy a real woman. Then made him cum reminding him that he came thinking about that and so he must like it.
If he tried directing the subject to his turn ons, I’d be rougher with his cock. Once we were talking about what I wanted him to cum to, the pleasure returned. No shame, no pleasure.
He now not only gets turned on by me humiliating him, but he then feels ashamed of getting turned on by it, which only turns him on me. It’s a wonderful but vicious trap
Yes, but the less he wants to get hard. I’ve essentially made it so his body betrays him to serve my desires instead.
Says the unverified cuckboi-
This thread is several years old - did you ever manage to convince him?
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