I've told this story before so I'll answer this question in a very short version... but I got into it mainly because of a cheating husband and then after crying to a girlfriend about my cheating husband, her advice was revenge.. And not only did she have revenge in mind but she had someone in mind that she wanted me to meet, and yes, it was a black guy.. It took a month or so before I took her advice but very surprisingly, that first time with this black guy was a changing moment in my life. Not long after the divorce, I've become black exclusive since..