If there is any truth in this, I would bet its an extreme minority of the types of folks you mention. What Will and Mac said is right on and I would put my money on this being wishful thinking and a pipe dream.I'm not so sure it's that simple. I wouldn't assume that men who want to be cuckolded aren't successful, powerful or excellent lovers. I wouldn't assume a women seeking a cuckold is limited to weak ineffectual subservient guys. That might be the surface plot but real life is somewhat more complex than that.
Not surprising at all on all counts and my guess is the same as you as far as many/most being gay.There are more white guys looking to get cuckolded here than you might think. I have been approached by several. Well thats what they say they are interested in at least. Wanting detailed descriptions of previous relationships . I guess they could be gay guys wanting to live vicariously
If there is any truth in this, I would bet its an extreme minority of the types of folks you mention. What Will and Mac said is right on and I would put my money on this being wishful thinking and a pipe dream.
There have been quite a few guys posting with the desire to find a woman to cuckold them and the result is the same...other guys responding who are looking for the same thing and pretty much no one else. I say it is simple...simple supply and demand and the fact that you're bringing little, if anything, to the table that black men or white women want or need.
Good luck...you'll definitely need it.
You've read more into my post than was there.
A lot of men (and women) have fantasies that they like to have played out with real people in the context of a loving relationship. Cuckolding is one of those. It can be part of a relationship without being the entire relationship. A man can get off on being the cuckoldee but still have those other qualities you dismiss as incompatible to the role. I believe there are women out there who enjoy being the cuckoldress (and gaining the benefits) while still respecting their man outside of the sexual arena. I'm sure that some men who seek to express that subservient role are actually men that have significant power in their work and social lives.
Thanks for the "good luck" comment but I myself have nothing more than a passing curiosity about cuckoldry. My only point is that people are far too complex to pigeon hole and stereotype. In a limited sense you could compare it to a straight guy trying to understand a gay guy's preferences. It's hard to understand that which we don't feel ourselves.
Maybe instead of pigeon holing it as wannabe cuckolds and cuckoldresses, the section could just be men seeking women (and vice verse) interested in having a sexually open relationship/marriage.
How about "single male desires relationship with a female interested in a polyamory relationship". That way he may get what he desires ... maintaining the domestic chores or being the breadwinner while his wife has sex with other men.
It's just that the whining about lack of response or interest in what they want gets old very quickly.