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CoupleHotwife1
Female
I really appreciate all your advice. Really nice to connect with other people on here that have experience and get it.
Beto Romuela
Male
Can I DM you?
CoupleHotwife1
Female
That's sad to think a person was that low to steal from you. But somethings come with the territory. Meaning if your just interested in a man dicks. To honest he doesn't have be anything else. Rules of engagement
CoupleHotwife1
Female
I guess I had hoped for more of a regular friendship for myself. I’m a one man woman in addition to my husband of course lol
I suggest listening to the Keys and Anklets pod casts. The host Michael does some really good interviews with longtime bulls and couples in the lifestyle. One of the things he repeats over and over again is how there are a lot of bulls that don't get the dynamics of the lifestyle and how as a hotwife, you can weed out the selfish egotistical jerks and with a little work, find that right bull who gets it 100%.
CoupleHotwife1
Female
Thank you for the suggestion
Everyone always wants the ups and sex of the lifestyle but does not stop to think about the negatives. If you need someone to vent to don’t hesitate to message. Hope things get better and keep smiling.
It pays to be picky and upfront but realistic and just wanting black men with big cocks is not realistic since what we all want is someone who will make us feel good and have fun with. The porn is mostly meant for young boys or men who do not understand women. How does your husband feel about it. We have met men who were really fun and nice but not very great fucks and men who were not bad at fucking but not much fun and men who were not looking for people like us which was fine. Most of the men we met were fine and some outstanding
Plenty of guys are down for a bf/gf type of relationship with a wife, enjoy each other regularly and be comfy w each other
CoupleHotwife1
Female
That’s my goal to find someone like that.Plenty of guys are down for a bf/gf type of relationship with a wife, enjoy each other regularly and be comfy w each other
A few things I would like to suggest:
.Screening and putting and putting all your expectations will eliminate 95% percent of your problems. "What you do not screen for, in the end you get what you get"!
Only a certain percentage of men are even sexually active because most are incels and they are awkward and are not socialized or able to navigate dealing with women especially on a sexual level.
Some guys that are social and sexual losers in life see the swing lifestyle as low hanging fruit. They may have gotten lucky with various women and couples because little to no socialization was required just meet, play, then go home.
It no longer surprises me how many single men are in the lifestyle and have very little understanding as to what it about. The no shows, the egos, the inconsiderate behavior, and guys being sensitive and in their feelings.
A man who is a jerk in his regular life is still a jerk in the lifestyle it's just he's less likely to show you his true nature up front because he wants something. Like a person who is really an asshole but will act right at work because that paycheck is on the line.
My biggest suggestion is always making friends in the lifestyle because friends are the least likely to disappoint you.
Chat. Meet n greet. Make friends. Meet and have fun with your friends not strangers! That's the most full proof way to to do it.
.Screening and putting and putting all your expectations will eliminate 95% percent of your problems. "What you do not screen for, in the end you get what you get"!
Only a certain percentage of men are even sexually active because most are incels and they are awkward and are not socialized or able to navigate dealing with women especially on a sexual level.
Some guys that are social and sexual losers in life see the swing lifestyle as low hanging fruit. They may have gotten lucky with various women and couples because little to no socialization was required just meet, play, then go home.
It no longer surprises me how many single men are in the lifestyle and have very little understanding as to what it about. The no shows, the egos, the inconsiderate behavior, and guys being sensitive and in their feelings.
A man who is a jerk in his regular life is still a jerk in the lifestyle it's just he's less likely to show you his true nature up front because he wants something. Like a person who is really an asshole but will act right at work because that paycheck is on the line.
My biggest suggestion is always making friends in the lifestyle because friends are the least likely to disappoint you.
Chat. Meet n greet. Make friends. Meet and have fun with your friends not strangers! That's the most full proof way to to do it.
Does this weak hi jack belong on a thread where someone is looking for help? Seriously? Go post on a thread looking for women.Trying to initiate 24-y-old blondie as a hotwife cuz I would love to become a cuck. Any bbc bull help? Let us know
I'd suggest you chat prior and before any meet do a video chat or two. That will help weed out the flakes. The other question is are you a single female or a couple? I'd say take it slower before jumping into a situation so you know if the person you're interested in has the personality traits that you are trying to avoid. As a couple my fun is just that- fun. I have never had a no show and only one that I would say was all about business ( lets fuck I have 2 hrs) but everyone else has been fun and gracious and nice and I would definitely meet with them again. Just increase your prep.
CoupleHotwife1
Female
This is really great advice.
